#long term relationship

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This game is much better if you are in a long term relationship. The goal of this game is to renew the excitation and the waiting of a new relationship.

This game don’t have a predetermined duration and you can choose what time you think will fit the best for each step of the game. I will put times that I think are good for each steps, but choose what time you think will fit the best for you. I recommend to choose time BEFORE you start the game and don’t modify them once it’s started(At some point, it’s not going to be easy)! A good time to play this game could be before an happening (a wedding, a vacation, a lovely weekend) because this event will be very special after this game! This game will help to reconnect sexually by going step by step (maybe you didn’t even did something like that at first)

Step 1 - No touching, no nudity (Recommended duration : soft 2-5days, hard 1+week)

During this step, you are both not allowed to be naked in front of your partner. You can be as sexy as you want but no nudity at all(no boobs,ass,pussy/dick). You are also not allowed to touch each other in ANY sexual or sensual way. No kissing with tongue, no petting, obviously no breast,ass,sex touching. What is allowed is very,very soft touching (kisses,hand holding, hugging…). During this step you are also not allowed to have sex with yourself alone. The goal of this step is to learn to wait for any sexual/sensual pleasure.

Step 2 - No nudity, light touches (Recommended duration : soft 3-5days, hard 1+week)

During this step, you will both start to feel the excitation effect of the previous part of this game. It’s time to restart slowly your sexual side! You are still not allowed to be fully naked but you can be as sexy as you want to. The only rule, sex must never be shown. I recommend wearing sexy lingerie or anything that will turn your partner on. You are now allowed to touch a little bit more. You can french kiss and touch everywhere… except the sex! You are not allowed to touch directly the breast (if she is topless, you can’t touch her breast… if she is wearing a bra you can grab them) During this step you are still not allowed to pleasure yourself to a release.

Step 3 - Renew with your sexual side (Recommended duration soft 3-5days, hard 10days+)

At this moment, you haven’t see or touch your partner sex for several days and you probably are horny. In this part, full nudity is still not allowed, sex must be hidden at all time. You can now touch your partner everywhere, the only rule is if you touch your partner sex, it must not be directly, go over the clothing and it must be softly (no finger inside, no quick jerking…). In this part you are NOT allowed to make your partner orgasm… even if you are allowed sex touching! In this step, she is allowed to orgasm but only in front of him using her hands or a sextoy (remember, he cannot see directly her sex). In this step, he is still not allowed to cum. Sexual excitation is VERY recommended in this step(Kissing everywhere, dirty talking, hard petting…)!

Step 4 - A little bit of sex (Recommended duration soft 1week, hard 2weeks)

If you have played this game correctly, he didn’t have an orgasm for a long time and you both crave to see your partner sex (like the first time). It’s now time for real sexual pleasure. In this step you are both allowed to be naked and you can touch your partner everywhere. But penetration, oral sex and sex grinding are still not allowed. She can orgasm as much as she want and she can make him cum. But he is still not allowed full orgasms, remember he keep his pleasure for this special night at the end of the game, he can have ruined orgasms. At this point we know that you are both horny and it will be very hard to respect the rules, that’s why you should go very slowly and sensually and don’t rush into orgasm seeking mode!

Step 5 - Last part and foreplay (Recommended duration soft 1week, hard 2+weeks)

Almost everything is authorized in that part. You can be naked, touch your partner everywhere, grind sex against sex and have oral sex. One rule still remain, no penetrative sex. In this part he is still not authorized to have a full orgasm… ruined only! But for this last part, one more rule is added: You are never allowed to reach orgasm (or ruined orgasm) before 1hour of foreplay and teasing.

Step 6 - Special event and release

If you have played with the soft duration, you haven’t had real sex and he didn’t have an orgasm in 22 to 29days and if you were playing the hard duration it’s been over 40days. It’s now time to enjoy what will be one of the most pleasurable time you had in a long time. It’s now time for pleasure… everything is allowed to please your partner! Please try to go slow and tease each other before allowing the final release! He haven’t cum in a long time, so she must be extra careful to avoid making him cum quickly!

After this game, everytime you will have sex in the next few weeks will be extra special and will feel very good after all that waiting and teasing!Please share what was your feeling during and after this game, last time we did something like that, the orgasm I had by the end of this game was the best of my life!

Hmm…
- I’ve been single for almost 2 years (and most of my life besides that).
- I haven’t had a long hug in 2 years also.
- I don’t have any close friends, besides online friends I talk to sometimes.
- I somehow still get asked how I’m still single, considering I’m: “sweet, nice, cute, caring, smart”, etc.

I have the worst luck when it comes to love. I always feel like I love more, I’m more open, and give more effort than most people. I don’t know what to do anymore… I don’t know where or how to find the person for me. 
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I click right away with some people. Sadly, most of those people are gone now. For one reason or another. I wish I could just have one who’ll stay around. I want that true love, not temporary.

I’m also nervous to message new people first. Because it’s so hard when it doesn’t work out or doesn’t feel right. So I might be missing out on people I don’t take a chance on.

I always overthink even just a simple message or a simple action. Then when I finally try, it hurts more. Because I put that much time and effort into that and it’s a bad outcome.

I appreciate when people message me first though. But then I also don’t know their intentions or even who they are. Since sometimes they don’t have any pictures or info about themselves.

Why is everything so complicated?

So with that said, if you’re looking for the same thing I am (what I always talk about), then feel free to message me. No, I’m not desperate, I’m looking for the One, not just anyone. But I also don’t know if it’s the right one until I meet them, just the same for you.

I don’t promise anything, but I’ll always be honest and open. I’m sure that’s more than most people can give. Speak your intentions and thoughts, and I’ll do the same. The only way of knowing is to take a chance. If it doesn’t work out, then so be it. But if we do click, the it’ll be worth it. If not with me, then with whoever else.

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I haven’t even had cuddles in almost two years.

For a very affectionate person, this is literal torture.

With that said, I want it with the right person. The One person.

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I want to somehow find someone who:

- Isn’t religious (or overly so) but still believes in soulmates or long-term relationships

- Doesn’t do drugs / have big/many tattoos or tons of piercings / drink much

- Is a physical / sexual person but doesn’t take part in the hookup culture or have a lot of temporary “relationships”

- Doesn’t want kids (kids are fun/cute but not full-time. Maybe adoption eventually if anything)

- Is attracted to me and who I find attractive

- Focuses on actual emotional connection rather than just material things

Is that possible? I hope so…

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