#the one

My heart is full, for the One I’ve yet to meet.

I just need to find that person, so we can mutually share that love.

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I click right away with some people. Sadly, most of those people are gone now. For one reason or another. I wish I could just have one who’ll stay around. I want that true love, not temporary.

I’m also nervous to message new people first. Because it’s so hard when it doesn’t work out or doesn’t feel right. So I might be missing out on people I don’t take a chance on.

I always overthink even just a simple message or a simple action. Then when I finally try, it hurts more. Because I put that much time and effort into that and it’s a bad outcome.

I appreciate when people message me first though. But then I also don’t know their intentions or even who they are. Since sometimes they don’t have any pictures or info about themselves.

Why is everything so complicated?

So with that said, if you’re looking for the same thing I am (what I always talk about), then feel free to message me. No, I’m not desperate, I’m looking for the One, not just anyone. But I also don’t know if it’s the right one until I meet them, just the same for you.

I don’t promise anything, but I’ll always be honest and open. I’m sure that’s more than most people can give. Speak your intentions and thoughts, and I’ll do the same. The only way of knowing is to take a chance. If it doesn’t work out, then so be it. But if we do click, the it’ll be worth it. If not with me, then with whoever else.

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All i need is you

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M.I.A.The One2022

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M.I.A.The One2022

We are told, especially if we are women, that the answer to loneliness and frustration is to find that one, ideal partner who will fulfil all our emotional, financial, domestic and sexual needs. We are told this even though we know full well that it doesn’t work out for a lot of people. Almost half of all marriages end in divorce.

- Laurie Penny, ‘Bitch Doctrine: Essays for Dissenting Adults’

Being loved is no

longer enough for me; I 

want to be ‘the one.’

I wasn’t looking when I met you. But you turned out to be everything I was looking for.

It wasn’t love at first sight exactly, but it was familiarity. Something like oh, hello, it’s you. It’s going to be you.

Mhairi Mcfarlane

I hope you know that everytime I tell you to get home safe, stay warm, have a good day, or sleep well, what I am really saying is I love you. I love you so much that it is starting to steal other words meaning.

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They’re not the good guy.  No, they’ve done horrible things.  They’re rude, they’re cruel, they’re an asshole.

They’re the villain.  They’re evil.  They actively oppose all that is good and just and right.

And if you don’t follow the law, how can you expect to be protected by it?

We smile, when they get what they deserve.  We cheer, seeing their plans fail, seeing their allies desert them, seeing their pedestals crumble into dust.  We laugh in vicious satisfaction.

(Welcome to the real world.)

We love to see terrible people get their just desserts.  Every insult, every punch, every knife in the back.

Every gun in their face -

Every kick when they’re down -

Every twist of the blade - 

(Wait -)

Every blow of the baseball bat -

(Wait a minute - )

Every lash of the whip -

(Wait, no - )

Every broken bone -

(No, stop - )

Every cut and bruise -

(Stop, no, stop - )

Every shattered rib -

(Please, you’ve hurt them enough, please stop -)

Every terrified scream -

(Please, they don’t deserve this, please -)

Every broken plea -

(Stop it, stop it, STOP - )

Every glistening tear -

(STOP.)

We love to see them get what they deserve.  And if they don’t deserve it, if the monster becomes the victim, if the punishment far exceeds the crime?

We love that too.