#positive mental attitude

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Have a trust that a higher power has everything under control when you don’t

Have a trust that things happen for a reason, good or bad they all happen for a good cause

Don’t worry about it and keep it on God✨

Be the person who stops the cycle of hate by not passing it on to someone else..Don’t become the person who wrecked you…Don’t be that person to either yourself or to someone else…Be the beautiful result of the ugly process..

“Once you replace negative thoughts with positive ones, you’ll start having positive results.”

Don’t force yourself to feel positive all the time. It’s okay to feel negative emotions sometimes but after experiencing and expressing those emotions, you have to let go.

Sorry for the long absence!

I don’t know if anyone notices or cares if I’m not posting bit just in case you do, hi! I took a break from tumblr because I had no motivation to create content for here I also just started my next semester of college AND I’m going to be working two jobs so I’m probably going to continue to not post much here.

But!

If you want to keep up with me on platforms I DO post on, here is my Tiktok and Instagram!

Tiktok: search tabbylovesstuffor click the name for my most recent post!

Instagram: search tabithalovesstuff or click the link on my name for my most recent post!

Bye for now!

I’m thhhhhhiiiiissssssss close to starting to posting anime content on top of all the random niches I already post

A few of the small changes I made to my island. Not gonna lie though ive kind of lost interest in animal crossing lol

Imagine this level of freedom. No responsibilities, no stress. Just dressing homeless and running down the beach

You know what really grinds my gears on the whole spirituality being a trend?

Now I want to start with a disclaimer: I overall don’t mind that it’s seen as a trend, cause more people as a whole trying to become spiritual will help it reach people it normally wouldn’t and change some lives in the best way. The opinion in this post is only of a specific aspect of it and doesn’t reflect my opinion on spirituality trend as a whole.

Now that that’s out of the way, PEOPLE USING THE EVIL EYE WRONG. They really just slap it on every post related to anything negative and call it all good. Like no the evil eye (the symbol specifically) is used to protect yourself from other people giving you the evil eye. It doesn’t chase away all negative energy, it doesn’t help you with your own bad habits, and it definitely doesn’t need to be slapped on every single text post about spirituality.

Also I encourage more people to get caught up on the way the evil eye is represented across multiple cultures in history and how its similar and different in each of these regions.

Thanks for listening to my rant cause no one else cares lmao

Reminders for people who haven’t had relationships yet:

  • There’s no time limit for having your first relationship. Not having had one yet doesn’t mean you never will.
  • Try not to compare yourself to others. It’s not a race, and other people having had relationships before you doesn’t reflect upon you at all.
  • It doesn’t make you unlovable - it just means you haven’t had the luck that others your age have had to be fortunate enough to meet someone they click with.
  • Your value is not based upon your relationship status. You are whole and lovable and valuable regardless of whether you’ve been in a romantic relationship.
  • You are still young and you still have so much time to find someone. Even if you’re in your late teens/20s etc and feel that you’re much older than others who have already had relationships, don’t forget that in the grand scheme of things, you’ve barely begun and you have so much opportunity in the future to meet the right person/people.
  • Especially for LGBTQ+ people - it can be much harder to find relationships as a teenager than it is for cishet people because the dating pool is smaller and it can be harder to find tolerant/accepting environments. It doesn’t make you unlovable or mean you won’t find anyone, and your dating history or lack thereof doesn’t invalidate your sexuality.
  • Other forms of relationship are just as important, if not more so, than romantic relationships. Platonic love and affection are just as important and valuable, and you are not without love just because your love isn’t romantic.
  • You don’t have to rush into anything because you feel there’s a clock ticking down. There isn’t. There’s absolutely no shame and nothing lesser about you for not having dated anyone yet, and there’s no need to rush or force anything.
  • You are a lovable, valuable, deserving human being, and your relationship status does not impact that in the slightest.
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