#belief
Life is meaningful in regard to the relationships we build and the value we give them. We ourselves create meaning.
God is just another word for the universe. Religion is the extraction of the patterns in nature that is further expanded by the human consciousness, creating rules to live by. Such rules are used by the few to effectively control the masses, thus bringing forth social control.
Ex. 1: Repetition of stories in different religions throughout the world.
12 astrological signs = 12 zodiac signs = 12 disciples revolving around the son (sun) of God (universe)
Ex. 2: Universe gives birth to planets, stars, nature itself. It is infinite with infinite possibilities.
Ex. 3: When we lose someone close to us we grieve; grief being separate from sadness. Why would we grieve so much if we truly knew that they were going to a better place? Would we not instead just miss them but then rejoice for their great future? Could those who do not grieve, due to a deeply held belief of the afterlife, possibly just have a greater (stronger) built defense mechanism. *By defense mechanism I mean belief in a religion. Religion creates several layers of defense. The stronger your belief, the more layers you construct. Though you might think, or make yourself think, that you truly believe in the teachings of your religion (concepts of heaven & hell; some kind of afterlife), your grief is your subconscious telling you that you truly know, in your heart of hearts as they say, that you have lost that loved one forever.
Conclusion: Religion is a way to explain the rules of nature and interpretation of that religion is used to enforce social control. Everything in life is subjective, a product of our own doing in response to the pressures of nature.
“A man who wills commands something within himself that renders obedience, or that he believes renders obedience.”
—F. Nietzsche, Beyond Good and Evil, §19 (excerpt).
“Synthetic judgements a priori should not be possible at all, as we have no right to them, and in our mouths they are nothing but false judgements. Only the belief in their truth is necessary, as a foreground belief and visual evidence belonging to the perspective optics of life.”
—F. Nietzsche, Beyond Good and Evil, §11 (edited excerpt).
“As soon as any philosophy begins to believe in itself, it always creates the world in its own image. Thus, philosophy is the tyrannical drive itself, the most spiritual will to power.”
—F. Nietzsche, Beyond Good and Evil, §9 (edited excerpt).
[Letter to a devout, practicing Jew mother on how to raise her son who “believes in science”]
Of course in a free country, within limits, you can raise your children how you please, on whatever belief system you choose. For this reason, most people in the world who are religious, practice the religion of their parents. For example, the chances of Christians raising a child who later becomes Muslim, or a Muslim family raising a child who later becomes Jewish are extremely rare. The children will be more likely to grow up believing in no Gods than in the Gods of other religions.
So the urge to raise your son as a devout, practicing Jew, being one yourself, is entirely normal and natural. But of course you have, at most, only 18 years of direct influence on him. Your son will spend more than eighty percent of his life under a different roof than you.
From what I have seen and encountered, Judaism manifests across a huge range of practices - from emboldened Jews who enthusiastically eat bacon to the various sects of Orthodox Jews who, among other practices, maintain separate kitchen utensils for dairy and for meat. As a scientist, I have much more experience with atheist Jews. They do not view the Torah as the word of God. They see it as a book of stories - not to be judged for their truth or falsehood, but as a repository of insights from which wisdom for living one’s life can be derived.
Think about it - when we read fairy tales, we are not judging them for whether they are true or not. Instead, we fold lessons derived from them into our world views. Not only this, atheist Jews will commonly celebrate the high holidays with no less ritual than practicing Jews, right on down to leaving an open seat the Seder table for Elijah, and making sure the front door is unlocked, so he can just walk right in if he happens to show up.
Why would an atheist Jew do this? The answer is not hard. Rituals and traditions account for some of the strongest binding forces among peoples of the world. Attending Mass on Sundays for Catholics. Prayer five times per day for Muslims. Ancestor worship for the Animist religions. One can participate without judging whether the events that established the ritual have any literal truth at all. The participation creates a sense of community. which has almost always contributed value to civilization. It disrupts civilization only when people require that others share their particular rituals, with threat of force to achieve it.
Being on the spectrum and liking science as he does, your best bet might be to not enforce the literalism of anything religious, but to keep him plugged into the beautiful traditions of the religion, and emphasize the value of ritual as a seed and taproot of community. Often that alone represents the greatest challenge when raising autistic children - getting them to embrace the value of love and compassion for people and for relationships.
Rest assured that you can raise a wholesome, intelligent, law-abiding child without requiring he believe that Moses turned a staff into a snake, or that manna fell from heaven.
Good luck. In my experience, it takes some of that too.
- Neil deGrasse Tyson in ‘Letters from an Astrophysicist’
Argument from Ignorance - Big Bang Theory
A [classic] argument from ignorance comes from the Big Bang. When I am asked what was around before the Big Bang, I say, “We do not yet know.” Often the reply is, “It must be something - it was surely God.” To go from “We don’t know” to “It must be God” is another example of an argument from ignorance. This kind of disconnect has no place in rational investigations, yet it perennially permeates the thoughts and statements of people who already know what they want to believe.
- Neil deGrasse Tyson in ‘Letters from an Astrophysicist’