#scapegoat
Beware the Ides of March 2022!
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Watched Encanto a few days ago. I cringed right quick from the beginning. It’s very ouch to see a lost child/ scapegoat/ black sheep role. Even a full out estranged child. And it irritated me bc I knew where the plot line from Mirabel was going to go… she’s the fixer. She helps heal the family, and bring them together. She had to make the effort. Then comes the cliché Disney ending where everyone realizes they were wrong, admits their problems, and everything is fixed and happy…
Nice. But reality sucks. And so many dysfunctional families will stay toxic for generations, and even if people like me want to be awake to the cycle and try to help, it will fail because the other parts of the family don’t want to disrupt their role or make an effort to be better.
So it’s certainly an emotionally triggering movie.
I like that their are many other viewers out there using it as an example of dysfunctional family dynamics, and doing psychological breakdowns of it. There’s some comfort in knowing we aren’t alone.
With all the scapegoating going on about bathrooms- a good protest could be if (already out) trans people who clearly present as their true gender, I KNOW THAT IS A HORRIBLE CONCEPT, hear me out (this is a planned protest, not a judgment of trans-ness)- could go into the bathrooms that the crazy people want them to- (their birth-assigned bathroom). I would certainly imagine it would cause a fuss. Then, of course, we need all sorts of people who appear gender ambiguous to also use the gender-at-birth bathrooms. A lot. All the time. All day long. Everyday. All around the country at the same time. Press the issue –if questioned– Call security if detained, call the police. CALL THE PRESS. Take video. I ALSO KNOW I’m speaking from extreme PRIVILEGE - I’m cis. It would mean outing yourself and could be quite triggering. Not to be done by an individual— it is a group activity- use ‘flash mob" approach for communication. As long as the reactions aren’t staged- that would taint the cause.