This is a simple glamour that can enhance your attractiveness in many ways, to many people! The purpose of this spell is to give you a boost of confidence in your physical appearance, your communication skills, your creative abilities and other qualities you possess that people find attractive. Think your nose is pretty cute? Think you’re funny? Smart? Do you have a creative talent? Like your thighs and your tummy? People will be drawn to these qualities and take more notice of them, as will you when assessing yourself! This is a self love glamour as much as it can affect others.
Ingredients - 1 ripe strawberry - 1 small bowl or saucer - 1 fork
Time of Day Perform during a waxing moon, preferably on a Thursday or Friday if the calendar allows. Super effective every Thursday or Friday when the moon is in Libra.
Make sure you cleanse your tools and cast your circle to protect yourself. Do a cleansing bath and cleanse yourself of negative energies beforehand if you’ve been feeling especially down on yourself.
Hold the strawberry as you visualize people looking twice at you, complimenting your appearance, approaching you to chat. They laugh at your jokes and are enchanted by your thoughts and opinions. They think you are alluring and intriguing and they want to know more. People are utterly charmed by you and if they don’t want your romantic love, they aspire to be in your close circle and be touched by your aura. Think of specific people if that is part of your goal with this glamour.
Put the stawberry in your bowl or on your saucer and plate and gently mash it with your fork. Anoint your lips with the stawberry juice, kiss the juice off your fingers. This should be a sensual act. Eat the mashed bits of stawberry, enjoying the sweetness of the juice rolling down your tounge as you suck on the pulp, seeds gently bursting between your teeth.
As you do this, say aloud: “The words I speak, The smiles I smile, Be made sweet, As bee to flower, As honey to fly, I draw you nigh.”
My first Self Love spell that I’m posting. I’m thinking up another one
For this one you will need:
Paper Pen Candle (White or Pink)
Optional stuff:
Herbs: any combination of (Rosemary, Witch Hazel, Adam and Eve’s Root, Allspice, Cedar, Aloe, Cinnamon, Thyme, Lavender, Barley, Basil, Eucalyptus, Cherry Blossom, Civit, Sandalwood, Bleeding Heart, Marjoram, Daffodil, Tulip, Violet). Incense: any of the following (Cypress, Amber, Jasmine, Sandalwood, Gardenia, Lemon, Rose, Violet, Cedarwood, or Cinnamon) A bath or shower (not cause you stink, I promise)
So this will be pretty simple
Take a nice bath or shower. Treat yourself to some nice, smelly soaps and stuff. Maybe a bath bomb or something. Treat yourself
Next, take a blend of your herbs and light that mother up. (Optional, honestly. But the herbs I had above are good for love, healing, courage, happiness, etc so it adds some kick to the spell)
If you wanna add some incense and a candle as well, light those mothers up too.
Meditate for a bit and feel yourself loving you for who you really are. Think of some positive attributes.
Write these attributes down on a piece of paper.
Light that paper on fire with your candle flame and put it in a flame proof bowl or cauldron
Recite: “Self Love I wish to seek. Every day, month, year, and week. By water, fire, air, and earth: self love for myself now give birth. Self love and positivity I wish to see (In deities name), so let it be”
Note: If you didn’t do the bath (water), burning of herbs (fire and earth), or incense (air and fire) then skip the part that says “By water, fire, air, and earth: self love for myself now give birth”.
One thing that I find that helps when meditating on self-love (if you’re physically able) is to sit on your rear on a cushion or bed or someplace that you’re comfortable and pull your knees up to your chest. Then wrap your arms around your knees/shins and nuzzle your face into that embrace and give yourself some loving cuddles. Stroke your hair if you like that, smile to yourself, hum softly if you want, just add anything that would make you feel warm and fuzzy on the inside. Enjoy, my lovelies~ ❤️
Sometimes when you struggle with body image issues it is difficult to accurately experience or even just be at home in your body. This spell is intended to be used on a piece of jewelry commonly worn. The idea is that when you wear the jewelry those feelings go away, or are at least diminished! The guidelines described in this post are just a suggestion. Make this spell your own, make it personal to you. I think it would be best to preform this spell nude. Non sexual nudity has been really beneficial to me in healing from body image issues and being comfortable in my skin.
Ingredients
-jewelry piece
-pink and white candles
-love frequency crystals such as rose quartz or rhodochrosite
-a scented oil you find comforting
-pink cloth
-preform on a waxing or full moon either at noon or midnight
-bonus: do it when the moon is in Leo, Taurus, Cancer, or Libra
Take a cleansing pre-ritual bath. I’d recommend putting some feel good stuff in the water such as colloidal oatmeal (please try it, it’s amazing I promise), epsom salt, vitamin e oil, crystals, herbs, and the like.
Be as mindful as possible during this bath. Make your movements 3 times as slow as you would normally move them, do not shy away from your body. Wash every part of it gently and lovingly, tell your body how much you love it even if you don’t feel that way. Thank your body for everything it does to keep you well and to thrive.
Go to your ritual space and set up a circle with the pink and white candles and crystals. Anoint yourself and the jewelry with the oil. Place your jewelry in the center. If casting a circle is part of your practice do that at this step.
Take some time to meditate now in quiet reflection. Feel your body. Be conscious of the way it interacts with itself and the environment. Do this for 10-15 minutes or so.
Take your jewelry item out of the circle now. Cup it in your hands and whisper words of sweetness. Tell it all the things you currently like and love about yourself and your body. Tell it the things you wish you felt about yourself. Tell it the things you wish you could say from others, or wish you’d hear.
Wrap your object up in the pink cloth along with some of the crystals. Perhaps put some other trinkets that you love in there as well. Wrap everything up and place it outside or by a window for 3 days to be charged by the Sun and the Moon.
Unwrap the cloth and put on your jewelry. When you look at it remember all those sweet, kind things you said about yourself. I personally feel a sense of comfort when I wear my rose quartz necklace, almost like it has love for me. Wear it throughout your days :-)
note: I don’t think its necessary to recharge the object with this spell that often, and I also wouldn’t cleanse that object because it will reset your connection with it. I find that spells like this work better and better over time. Think of it like a loving patina building up over your piece <3
Hello my dears. With the Snow Moon on its way (and the long winter taking its’ toll on us) I figured it was time for a self-love bath. I am not the biggest fan of bath magick, but every so often a hot bath is needed…nothing feels better than hot water, the scent of lavender, and a glass of red wine. This can also be used in smaller proportions in a foot bath (fill a large salad bowl with hot water, just as nice!)
What you need:
Lavender Essential Oil (9 drops)
Epsom Salts (2 Cups)
Rose Petals (pink roses preferred)
Lavender Buds (optional)
Pink Candles (pink is for self-love..white is a good substitution)
What to do:
Mix the lavender oil and Epsom salts, making sure to mix/shake it thoroughly to spread the oil evenly. Fill your bath with your preferred water temperature. Mix in your Epsom salts evenly throughout the water. Add the rose petals or lavender buds, if you choose to. Light your pink candles and get into your bath. I suggest staying in for about 30 minutes!
While you are in your bath, smell the lavender and let yourself relax. Consciously pay attention to your muscles, allow yourself to melt…completely relax. Close your eyes, and visualize a warm, pink light surrounding you. If meditation is your cup of tea, repeat a mantra to yourself such as “I am beautiful” or “I choose to love myself”.
This small act of self-care will promote those feeling of self-love!
Please be safe, enjoy, and remember to love yourself!
It’s important to remember that you are loved. By the most important person there is: you, of course! If you need a little help with the loving-yourself part, this bath will definitely do the trick.
2 Parts Epsom Salts
1 Part Himalayan Pink Salt
3 Drops Lavender Essential Oil
1 Scoop of Coconut Oil
Optional: A handful or lavender buds or pink rose petals
Draw your bath at the temperate you like best. Epsom salts will help relax your muscles while the coconut oil softens your skin. Let the aromatherapeutic benefits of lavender lighten you, and the pastel pink himalayan salt will hold in warmth and happiness. What can I say? You’re lovable!
Let’s face it, we all struggle with finding some special “me” time. By the time I get home from work, feed everyone and sit down and relax - it’s time to do it all over again. Here are some Witchy Self-Love tips to get you that extra care your mind, body and soul crave!
If you’re like me and suffer from mental health issues, (BPD, Depression and Depressive Anxiety) we all know how hard it is to take that step for Self-Care. Once you do, it feels amazing! I promise.
Notice how journaling keeps getting mentioned??!!?!?!
It may seem selfish to take a few extra minutes to yourself, but sometimes we need to in order to function. Here are a few things you can try that doesn’t take much effort:
I am a huge advocate for Spell Jars. If you struggle with finding “me” time, make a spell jar and carry it with out to radiate self-love at all times so you ever forget how special you are. Here are some examples, but keep in mind you are not limited to these ingredients, nor do you have to do it in any order. Just be clear with your intention and personalization!
I personally always say a chant as a I seal my jars. Try this if you choose that feels right to you:
