#excerpt from my journal
I spent five years convincing myself that i would never in my life again meet someone like you. i was wrong. because i convinced myself that you’re perfect but you’re not, and it’s not exactly your fault that i thought the world of you but maybe you could have dropped the halo a little bit. everything i thought i knew was a lie. you’re not the person i’m in love with, not really. i’ve spent years wrong poetry about the way your voice sounds when you lose yourself in it, i never get tired. i could spend the rest of my life finding metaphors for the way that i think in a sense you might have saved me; fifteen and drink on my sofa. My point here is that i have turned you into a poem and ventured my whole life around it. and to you i am just a girl.
the castle on the hill crumbled for good this time and it’s not my fault
no matter how much you tell yourself it is
nothing is ever invincible, not even us
no matter how much we convinced ourselves nothing could ever break us
no matter how many times we rebuilt what we’d lost just to watch it come crashing back down
sometimes i visit the lake we use to go to when one of us sad or when we wanted an excuse to smoke our lungs black or drown our livers in the alcohol we weren’t old enough to buy yet
i think about all the things we left behind and how a tiny piece of me would give anything to have it back
but darling we have taken this too far to bounce back this time
the castle on the hill came crashing down
and i refuse to go tumbling down with it.
you knew too well how to wear girls down
you’d already had too much practice
so by the time i met you
breaking me was an act you could perform effortlessly
we will be remembered, as we should
the whole of this god forsaken town already knows the story of us
people i’ve never seen before in my life still say your name when they find out mine
does it kill you knowing that they know everything?
because i cannot live with the whispers behind my back anymore
how do you like everyone knowing our secrets? our broken promises? everything we ever whispered behind closed doors when we thought no one could hear us?
did you know it would end like this?
maybe we both knew we’d go up in flames from the start
maybe we chose to ignore it
maybe we both deserve all of this
i am in love with you and i have been in love with you since i was thirteen years old. three summers have passed and the people we are now would be unrecognisable to the kids we were then but the one thing that hasn’t changed is the love i have for you. through everything, it hasn’t faded one bit.
i am in love with you. and it doesn’t matter that you don’t love me back anymore because i think that loving you saved me. when dirty hands were touching me, you’re voice was in my head telling me “no”, telling me “that boy is in love with your body and not with you, this isn’t what real love looks like”
i am in love with you and i have loved you through everything and that is okay. it’s okay it’s okay it’s okay.
The happiness slips it’s way in when you’re too busy focusing on not dying
It creeps up on you at the exact moment you thought you’d lost it for good
And something inside you clicks and you don’t want to die anymore
All of a sudden, sad songs are just sad songs
And ghosts still appear every now and then but you’ve learnt that you can just blink them away
You notice things you never noticed before when you were too stuck inside your own head
Like the painting the sun makes when it’s setting but hasn’t fully disappeared yet
Or the way even when the darkness has completely taken over the stars finally get to show their beauty to the sleeping world
The happiness shines through the scars and the pain and shows you beauty you never thought you’d be capable to see
The happiness shines through and it gets better
It gets better and you don’t want to die
You don’t want to die and you’re alive
You’re alive you’re alive you’re alive
Tell me how I’m suppose to move on when you find your way into everything I do
How am I suppose to forget your face when I see your eyes every time I shut mine?
They say with time things get easier and you move on, but you’re still haunting me
Everything you did still haunts me
poems for all the boys i have kissed
1. you kissed like curiosity
the soft kind
the kind of kiss you miss
three years down the line
when you realise how cruel people really are
2. i’m sorry for kissing you
when deep down i knew i didn’t want you
i’m sorry for making you believe
it could ever be more than it was
3. you were my best friend
i still can’t decide whether
i’m thankful for it
or if i hate you
for blurring all the lines
4. every single kiss led to something more
i could write a whole book
about you and the way you taste
but frankly
you don’t deserve it
5. you kissed me like you were hungry
i’m so glad i never gave you anything more
6. i’m sorry
but you fitted into the story all too well
i think i just liked being the mysterious girl
more than i actually liked you
7. it shouldn’t have happened
but you took away the pain
i stopped hurting over him
the second your lips touched mine
and for that reason
i wouldn’t change it
even though every ounce of me
should regret it
8. i felt like i was in a movie that night
all the drink
our best friends kissing in the back seats
your hand on my thigh
as you drove us to the beach
the music
the sea
the sand
and your lips
it was wrong
all of it
the biggest mistake of your life was more mistakes than you can count all merged into one
innocence turned to guilt in two weeks
and guilt turned to a god damn hurricane after a month
thirty days later and you can’t figure out how you could mistake all the red warnings for pretty lights
how you could see the road so clear when there were car crashes left, right and centre
you try to place the blame somewhere where it looks like it fits but you know where it truly should be
the blame belongs here
the blame always belonged here
the poems aren’t about him anymore
but they might as well be
because the only reason i let you close enough to touch me
is because the words you speak may as well be coming out of his mouth
i am not the one to blame for this mess
when he was the one who left me so blinded that i could only fall back into the arms of boys that would only ever drop me in the end
falling into boys who only treat me as a body
boys who treat me like he did
i’ll search for anyone that reminds me of the way he left
and i’ll tear myself apart for it afterwards
but its all i know
he is all i know
thank you for the clarification that you don’t hate me, you just don’t particularly want to know me anymore
and i can understand why you hate my friends, but maybe if you hadn’t have done what you did they wouldn’t scream at you in the streets
and yes, i am mentally ill, you guessed correctly
our last conversation wasn’t how i imagined it but it was enough for me to want to let go
it was bad enough for me to delete you
so i guess this is goodbye for good
until the next time the alcohol takes over my blood
because deleting your number means nothing when it’s memorised like the back of my hand
Dear me 6 months ago,
Right now you’re drunk, or maybe you’re sobering up by now. Either way, today was the last day you will spend in this world pure. you will never be as innocent as you are today ever again. embrace it. please.
tomorrow morning you will wake up as one person and go to sleep as another. the choice you will make tomorrow will completely change the way you are. it will change you as a person. 6 months later and you will still be picking up the pieces. 6 months later and the blood will no longer be on his bedsheets, but on your own.
tomorrow you will give everything you have to the blonde boy you want so desperately to want you. you already know all too much about his reputation but at the moment you’re convinced you can change him if only you give him the biggest piece of yourself you have to offer. you can’t. that boy is a taker. he will take everything you have and he will leave you empty. from that moment on you will be his but he won’t care as long as he’s got another girl to mess around with.
right now i know you’re not scared but you should be. you should be fucking petrified. you’re not expecting it to hurt and at first it won’t. but tomorrow night you are going to go home and fall asleep in tears of regret. tomorrow night you are going to be crawling at your skin in attempts to undo what you’ve done
dear me 6 months ago,
it’s too late for me now but it’s not too late for you. turn around and walk away. i am begging you. don’t go to his house and don’t give away everything you have to a boy who has never known how to hold on to anything. that boy is going to kill you and i’m scared for you. i’m so fucking scared for you.
when i saw you that night
when i stumbled round the corner with my friends and a bottle of vodka
i wanted to cry
i wanted to cry until you felt bad enough to try and save me
but i guess my body got bored of crying over you
my brain got tired of missing you
so i walked straight past
and when my friends screamed at you and you screamed at me i wanted to cry
but i couldn’t
when you told me to go home for a while i thought that maybe you still cared a little bit
but when i realised that you just wanted me gone i swear i wanted to cry
when i saw you that night it hurt
it hurt like a knife but it didn’t matter anymore
or maybe it did matter
but it didn’t matter enough for tears anymore
and maybe that’s a start
i like to think that the reason you didn’t let me come back everytime i came running was because you didn’t want to put me through that pain again,
and not because you’re fucking her now,
not because you’ve found someone else to fill the heart shaped hole in your chest so you don’t need me around to do it anymore,
something in me likes to think that somewhere in you there is a boy who regrets the hurt he’s caused and the scars he’s made and not just a boy who wears girls down until they’re just skin and bone and then heartlessly wanders off to the next.
If there was ever any hope the devil snatched it away
If there was ever a chance of forgiveness for any of this I turned it down when I ran back into your arms
If there was ever a way to get away I would have found it by now
But there’s not an escape, there’s no hope and neither of us can be forgiven for any of this
So love ends and I cry and my mother tells me that maybe in a years time you might have learnt to love me back
But in a years time I won’t be as pure as I once was and you’ll be racing to catch up
In a years time you’ll have learned your place and kissed too many girls, whilst I’m fucking a boy that always tells me he’s in love with my body, but never in love with me
In a years time I’ll be in therapy, finally getting better, but in a years time you won’t be as willing to wait around for me to heal
In a years time I’ll start believing in God and you would have lost your connection with him
Because in a years time you’ll be a new person and so will I but we’ll both still be two lost teenagers finding themselves and trying to make it as more than “just friends”
So it’s me, you and the bottle of vodka hidden in my sock drawer,
It’s me drinking too much and crying
It’s you tracing the scars on my wrist and telling me it’s in the past
You you you
It’s you hiding the vodka so I can’t drink anymore
You deleting everything off my phone that you know it kills me to look at
You pulling me into your lap and wrapping me up into the safety of your arms
Your heart beating into my cheek, faster and faster
You, reading my favourite book to me
Me, falling in love with every word that leaves your lips
It’s you caring too much for someone that you shouldn’t care for
It’s us, the most un friendly “just friends” that this world has ever known
You are always everywhere and everything always seems to remind me of you like next doors cat or the smell of sweat
Or somehow whenever my eyes go that certain shade of green in the light I want to cry
There are certain things that only you and I will ever understand like the blue bandana or the shower plan or the movie plan that never became anything more than just plans
And I guess I should be thankful that we still have secrets left to tell because you already told all your friends everything you promised you wouldn’t
But I guess your promises meant nothing because you only ever made two and broke them both
There is such uniqueness about taking public transport. You are in this kind of ambulant ephemeral something until you reach your final destination, and you don’t feel the necessity to share anything because let us be honest, isn’t everyone streaming within their heads already?
A list of winter aesthetics
- Holding hands under blankets
- Listening to old songs and letting them carry you to an another time
- Owning a journal and filling it with your favourite moments of the season so you won’t forget about them because they will become moments from your past one day so they are important
- Picking up a random book from your dusty shelf and daring to finish it
- Covering yourself with tones of clothes from head to toe
- Sleepovers with friends
- Having lunch dates with friends in their car while the rain is pouring outside
- Hydrating and moisturizing
- Drawing symbols on the windows covered with humidity
- Spending your free time napping or getting cozy under your blankets while watching your favorite movie
- Making handmade cards then sending them to your dearest people
- Rescuing stray cats and giving them shelter
- Romanticizing your life by thinking that everything you do is worth the care and admiration
- Reading, reading and reading
- Going to art exhibitions of artists you’ve never heard of
- Long walks alone or with your friends and making up back stories for people you see on the street
- Waking up early than usual when the world is still asleep
- Listening to some playlists made by strangers on the internet
- The agreeable warmth of your cocoa cup between your hands
- Feeling the delicate coldness of the snowflakes on your skin
A list of lovely moments and feelings
- Slow dances to your favorite tune alone or with someone you love
- Random and unexpected hugs
- Handwritten letters
- The smell of books and the sound of turning pages
- Hearing the phrase “I love you”
- Compliments from strangers
- Returned smiles
- Someone playing with your hair
- Sunrises and sunsets
- Handwritten notes found in old books
- Cardigans, big sweaters and knitted socks
- The taste of food after a long, tiring day
- When you finish reading a great book and you feel like you’ve lost a good friend forever
- Feeling the cold wind caressing you skin and hair
- When you’re at the beach and you close your eyes to listen to the sounds of ocean waves crushing against the shore
- Playing with children and hearing them laugh
- Making lists
- Long, meaningful discussions with someone who means a lot to you
- Slow kisses
- Being brave enough to do the right thing
- Hearing “this made me think of you” and “I miss you”
- Playing with animals on the street
- Visiting your grandparents
- Long peaceful baths
- unexpected car trips
- No homework
- The excitement of new beginnings
- Waking up after remembering a nice dream
Tumblr is the sanctuary of every introvert on earth, you just can’t prouve me wrong.
in october i fall in love with everything. the way the sun sets, the orange and pink bleeding into one against the clouds. the way the air turns crisp, how it calms the warmth in california. the world bursts into crimson and gold, everything rusted and rotted seems painted with poetry. the leaves at my feet, the smell of cinnamon tea. the way books bring more comfort when paired with a blanket. journals fill up faster, candlelight feels like warmth wrapped around you, ink stained fingers get lost in sweaters. chilly mornings when one blanket isn’t enough, rain racing down windows, dew settled on grass. night skies mixed with stars and gloom. everything. i’m falling in love.
Makaikyas ra guro ko ani no kung mawala kos world