#pansexuality
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Unicorn March is all about pride for the most forgotten and endangered parts of the community.
Sometimes, pride means knowing more about the struggles that people like you face. Pride from within, from knowing what you’re surviving. Pride from other community members and outsiders, supporting you and loving you for what you are, not just what you overcome.
This infographic collects all the current data on ace-spec oppression into one thread. (It exceeds Tumblr’s image limit, so if you’re only seeing the first post, check the notes for the rest.) Feel free to save any of these images to share. Tag @unicorn-march if you can, when you use these in a reply or your own posts; it would be great to see how this info helps people. Image descriptions are in the alt tags.
Links to all the sources, in the order that they appear:
UK Government Equalities Office. (2017) National LGBT Survey. Data from more than 108,000 LGBTQIPA+ people across the United Kingdom. You can review the data and crunch your own numbers by clicking “analyse” on their website! They also have a report which presents some of the data, and their commentary.
Cantor, David, et al. (2015) AAU Climate Survey on Sexual Assault and Sexual Misconduct. Data from more than 150,000 college and graduate students across the United States.
Samuels, Gina E. Miranda, et al. (2019) Voices of Youth Count In-Depth Interviews: Technical Report. This is a 22-county study of 4,139 unhoused youth across the United States. They worked with local agencies, and were careful to include a mix of rural, suburban, and urban areas of varying densities and demographics. This report has a broad overview of their findings and recommendations.
The in-depth data represented here comes from Chapin Hall at the University of Chicago. (2017) Youth Homelessness in San Diego County, California: Findings from the youth count, brief youth survey, and provider survey. Although that’s a San Diego-specific study, Appendix E provides the data from all 22 counties for comparison.
The Williams Institute. (2016) LGB Within the T. This paper crunches the data from the 2011 National Transgender Discrimination Survey, which did in-depth interviews of 6,450 trans people of all orientations.
Borgogna, N. C., et al. (2018) Anxiety and Depression Across Gender and Sexual Minorities: Implications for Transgender, Gender Nonconforming, Pansexual, Demisexual, Asexual, Queer, and Questioning Individuals. This paper crunches the data from the ACHA National College Health Assessment, a twice-yearly survey of (at last count) 67,972 students at 98 schools across the United States.
Yulea, Brotto, & Gorzalska. (2011) Mental Health and Interpersonal Functioning in Self-Identified Asexual Men and Women. This is an older study, by comparison, and much smaller, so it’s used very sparingly here.Salway et al (2019). A Systematic Review and Meta‑Analysis of Disparities in the Prevalence of Suicide Ideation and Attempts Among Bisexual Populations. An extremely thorough analysis of the data available in 46 studies on LGBT suicidality, the reasons for different findings in different studies, and the most likely actual numbers.
Bauer et al (2018). The 2016 Asexual Community Survey Summary Report. This is an ongoing annual online survey of major asexual communities; the 2016 survey received a total of 9,869 responses (Ace = 9331 and Non-Ace= 538). As it’s not a peer-reviewed published study, it’s used even more sparingly here; the only data used here from this report is the percentage of cis aces who had considered suicide.
Grant, Jaime M. et al. 2011. Injustice at every turn: A report of the National Transgender Discrimination Survey. Further excellent analysis of the data from those 6,450 trans people.
Kuper et al. 2018. Exploring Cross-Sectional Predictors of Suicide Ideation, Attempt, and Risk in a Large Online Sample of Transgender and Gender Nonconforming Youth and Young Adults. Crunches data from the largest sample to date of transgender and gender non-conforming young people, a geographically diverse group of 1,896 respondents ages 14-30.
Hey guys! Today I was talking to some of my friends and the subject came up about coming out. My one friend came out as bi to me and I never realized she was bi! Then a chain of my friends started coming out to me. I never realized I had a bi friend, three gay friends, and a demi friend! Afterwards I came out to them as pan and we all laughed together. We feel closer than ever.
You guys who haven’t come out to anyone yet, you aren’t alone, and you should try to come out! Coming out is an amazing feeling, you’ll feel like a new, better person. Love you guys! <3
~Caitlin
a while ago i saw some panphobic posts/articles focusing only on pan being defined in a bad way to frame it as if that’s all there is to pan history. so i put together the pan history panphobes don’t want you to know about.
there are different aspects to this; the pan timeline, a look into the bi community including alternative mspec labels, and a list of pan-inclusive queer research.
you can view it on my blog
- pan timeline: https://posi-pan.tumblr.com/pantimeline
- mspec labels in the bi community: https://posi-pan.tumblr.com/bisexualumbrella
- pan-inclusive research: https://posi-pan.tumblr.com/panresearch
you can view it via a carrd i made
- https://historyofpansexuality.carrd.co
- the carrd only has the pan timeline and the bi community including mspec labels, because there’s a limit on how much you can add to one carrd
i want to be clear that this specifically serves to be the other side of panphobes’ version of pan history. if you want to see all the times pan hasn’t been defined great, there are plenty of sources for that.
keep in mind that pan’s positive/neutral history is older and more extensive than its negative history. a lot of the negative comes from non-pan people, and what does come from pan people is not proof that pan is “bad” or “needs to be done away with”, because if that were how it worked, we wouldn’t have any labels.
so yeah. i hope you find this interesting or informative or helpful in some way! if a link doesn’t work or i can make the carrd more accessible, let me know!
If any of you ‘not-straight’ darlings ever cringe about how hard you pretended to be #straight, just remember that my friends and I (none of whom are straight) brainstormed the straightest thing we could do, and came up with the brilliant idea making a science fair project looking into why certain men are thought of as hot. Because this would make us seem super straight.
It basically consisted of us showing pictures of dudes to other girls asking who they thought was hotter and being all like ‘hmm, good choice’, then making graphs and writing up psychological reasons for these men being picked.
Naturally, we came first place - and proved that no amount of science can make you straight!
I usually don’t want to do things like this because I’m irrelevant but I’m just so tired of being invalidated and attacked for just existing and Im already having a hard time with my homophobic parents and the countless times I’ve been almost thrown out from home and having to stop seeing my therapist because of money and I’m just so tired of acting all “"strong”“ but I’m not strong and I’m gonna admit that everytime I try to reply I just can’t, I haven’t been able to officially come out because I’m just so afraid of things like this happening and it’s happening, my biggest fear is happening. I try to defend myself but I just can’t because I just fall into a panic attack again and again each one worse than the last and I don’t know how to pick myself up from this. How can a community that’s supposed to make me feel safe, make me even more scared of who I am? Im already alone in my real life surrounded with nothing but negativity and being unaccepted and even here? In what I used to call my safe place?
Are there any like pansexual support groups or discord groups because my panic attacks and depression have been getting really bad ever since I started really getting into the LGBT side of Tumblr, on Twitter I’ve never encountered “"anti-pansexuals”“ but when it comes to tumblr, everywhere I look I see people invalidating me and making me feel just horrible for being true to my own sexuality…I’m not….I’m not even hurting anyone with this decision and even when I try to avoid that side of Tumblr it just comes up on my tl
I feel like about half the people on this website actually don’t know how bisexuality works and this post just proves my point
happy pan visibility day to a pan power couple
Happy Pansexual Visibility Day!
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A panphobic dogwhistle is coded/subtle to avoid opposition. These statements aren’t inherently panphobic and not everyone who shares them is panphobic.
“You can identify as pan, if… I support you being pan, but…”
This create hoops for pan people to jump through in order to be supported. But support and respect contingent on us internalizing and regurgitating panphobia isn’t genuine. We don’t trade autonomy for a sliver of pseudo acceptance.
“New labels damage the community. It doesn’t matter if a label is valid, it matters if it’s useful, materially different, and serves a political purpose.” And other anti self-identification/individualism statements.
This targets any label that isn’t The Four. Labels are, and always have been, useful if they help someone understand and communicate their feelings, identity, and experiences. We don’t owe our queerness to anyone, and we don’t have to use our queerness as a calculated strategy for anything.
What damages the community is creating an environment where any kind of difference in identity/language/expression or rebellion against norms/status quo/rules is met with hostility, fostering fear and distrust of the people who are supposed to support and nurture that self-discovery and expression.
“All genders/regardless of gender has always been the definition of bi.”
This often perpetuates the counterfactual ideas that pan “stole” The bi definition and isn’t necessary because “bi already means that”. This is also ahistorical biphobia; there’s never been one “true” definition of bi(this isn’t even the common community one) and it erases bi history/people who don’t relate to it.
Using scare quotes around pan.
Putting pan in quotes when it isn’t necessary is often a way of disrespecting its legitimacy, casting doubt/judgement, especially if pan is the only one in quotes.
“Bi has always included trans/nonbinary people.”
This is often used to falsely claim pan was created because “biphobes thought bi didn’t include trans/nonbinary people, so pan doesn’t need to exist”. (Binary bi texts aren’t universal, but there are plenty that speak to a reality that affected people and contributed to the current more inclusive language.)
“Mspec labels overlap but the distinction matters to some and that’s okay.”
I’ve seen this said so many times in response to people asking what bi and pan mean and how they relate to and differ from each other. What good is it to tell people the distinction matters while avoiding explaining what that distinction is? Ultimately this statement discourages any dialogue about mspec labels.
“Bi is an umbrella term that includes pan.”
The bi umbrella was once genuine inclusion of all mspec people, and activists/orgs use it, so most people don’t see it as anything else. But when bi only content has “bi+” slapped onto it, it becomes meaningless and performative. Panphobes also use it to argue pan doesn’t need its own, specific visibility.
“When a character ‘just likes people’ or is ‘attracted to all genders or regardless of gender’ they aren’t automatically pan instead of bi.”
I’ve experienced this from panphobes who simply assume pan interpretations of pan definitions/common pan explanations must be because of biphobia. But it’s a big, false, and purposely bad faith leap of logic to fuel the panphobic narrative that pan people are always misrepresenting bi.
“Pan people need to let bi people have something and stop making everything about themselves.”
This might seem like advocating for bi only content/events for the sake of bi visibility/community, but it’s often malicious exclusion of pan people who’ve always been included. We aren’t “invading” or “derailing” anythingbybeing in spaceswe’vealways been in, or by sharing a bi post because we relate to it.
“Read the Bi Manifesto.”
A lot of the time, people say this because they think the manifesto states the true definition of bi and proves pan is unnecessary/biphobic. However, the full text explicitly states there isn’t one true definition of bi and the group who published it explicitly supports all mspec people and identities.
“People identify as pan due to internalized biphobia.”
This masks panphobia with concern for internalized biphobia. Pan is being written off as a product of biphobia under the guise of wanting bi people to embrace being bi. Pan people are being equated to bi folks who just haven’t unlearned biphobia enough to embrace being bi, when that isn’t the case.
“All pan people are bi, but not all bi people are pan.”
This appears to be an easy explanation of bi/pan, borrowing from “all squares are rectangles, but not all rectangles are squares”. But queerness isn’t geometry and doesn’t work like that. The only pan people who are bi are the ones who also identify as bi. We can’t box queerness into simple, universal categories.
“Analyze why you’re uncomfortable with being associated with bi people or being called bi.”
Of course, pan and bi are associated, but it’s never mere association these people are referring to. Pan people are vilified and wrongly painted as biphobic for criticizing the erasure and mislabeling of our identity.
“Bi and pan people need to stop fighting each other, both are valid and neither is -phobic.”
This implies the “fighting” is equal. But there are popular bi accounts dedicated to panphobia, “battleaxe bi” was coopted for panphobia, a major bi org spreads panphobia, panphobic bi authors/activists are praised, and researchers subsume pan data into bi data. Biphobia from pan people just is not on the same scale as panphobia from bi people.
This is not to disregard/downplay biphobia from pan people. It’s just important to acknowledge the reality, severity, and disparity of the situation. Erasing that by saying or implying it’s just a silly mutual argument about which word is better is disingenuous at best, and malicious misrepresentation at worst.
“I’ve never seen a definition of pan that isn’t biphobic/transphobic.”
Panphobes involved in bi/pan “discourse” saying this aren’t hoping to learn the actual (read: non bigoted) definitions of pan, they’re saying there aren’t any definitions of pan that aren’t biphobic or transphobic, because they believe pan is inherently biphobic and transphobic.
“Behaviorally/scientifically bi.”
“Behaviorally” and “scientifically” bi are used to categorize people based on so-called innate, universal indicators of being bi. Both say pan people are actually bi, hiding identity policing/erasure behind science. Funnily enough, researchers have said it’s hard to determine who is “actually bi” because “individuals determine this for themselves”. In other words, there aren’t innate or universal indicators, we simply are who we say we are.
So. I’m sure there are plenty more examples I’ve missed, and if you have any please send them my way! (I tried to make this as short as possible, so if you’d like me to elaborate on any of these, let me know and I’ll happily do so!)
But I hope this will encourage you to think a bit deeper about the things people say and the possible intent behind it before sharing, as well as be more invested in supporting pan people and trusting us when we tell you something is being said to spread panphobia.
here’s a little infographic i made for pan visibility day!!!!! hope y’all are having a pleasant day, i’m baking y’all virtual cookies of your preferred flavor
(sources/further reading: history,flag,statistics,representation)
image description under the cut:
[ID: A light grey background with pan flag colors in the corner. The top reads, “Happy Pan Visibility Day” in all caps, party emojis on both sides of it. Black text in the center reads:
What/Who: Pan Visibility Day, on May 24, is to celebrate and encourage acceptance and understanding of pan people and identity (such as pansexual, panromantic, pansensual, panalterous, panaesthetic, and panplatonic).
Brief History: In the 1960s-1980s, pansexual was often used to describe musicians, icons, styles, lyrics, movements, etc. in particularly the glitter/glam rock scene, to indicate androgyny, fluidity, and universal appeal.
In the 1980s-1990s, pansexual was often used in kink communities to indicate that an event, party, club, person, sex, etc. was open to people of all genders, sexes, and sexualities.
Evolving with and from that, pansexual now widely represents an attraction to people of all genders, or more specifically, attraction to people regardless of gender.
Flag: The pan flag was created in 2010 by Jasper (@shrikeabyssals); “pink and blue, because of their gendered traditions, and yellow, a generally non-gendered colour, to represent nonbinary folks etc.”
Statistics: Pansexuals experience high rates of depression, suicidality, anxiety, and physical and sexual harassment and violence, as well as low rates of happiness, self-esteem, optimism, being out, safety, inclusion, sense of belonging and community, and accessing health care.
Celebrities: Yungblud, Janelle Monáe, Sandra Mae Frank, Jake Choi, Bob the Drag Queen, Tess Holliday, Talia Hibbert, Rina Sawayama, Asia Kate Dillon.
TV/Film/Podcast: What We Do in the Shadows, Lucifer, Gossip Girl, Schitt’s Creek, The Thing About Harry, Sex Education, Single Parents, The Umbrella Academy, Otherwhere.
Comics/Books/Games: Deadpool, We Could Be Heroes by Mike Chen, Red Sonja, Vampirella, Love & Other Disasters by Anita Kelly, Mae Borowski, Verona Comics by Jennifer Dugan, Cute Mutants by S.J. Whitby. End ID.]
let’s not forget that may 24th is pan visibility day! and let’s also not forget that we all deserve to love and be proud of ourselves!
I laughed so hard at this I accidentally exited the Tumblr app and when I reopened, Tumblr had bolted back to the top of the feed, so I just rage scrolled through every single thing both posted in the last hour and that I scrolled past in the last hour to find to present this incredible tiktok to you, my dear followers. Esp @ritterssport
With pancake or no Pancake?
Happy Pansexual and Panromantic Visibility Day!!
Did you know?
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People who are pansexual are:
- attracted to persons regardless of their gender
- and/or attracted to all genders
- people with a really pretty PRIDE flag
we are not:
- special bisexual snowflakes
- calling bi people transphobic
- confused
Also bisexuality is an awesome and valid identity and you can pry my bi/pan solidarity from my cold dead hands
People who are bisexual are:
- Attracted to two or more genders
- Can be attracted to all genders but prefers to use bisexual as a term/label
- People with a really cool pride flag
We are NOT:
- Transphobic
- Disregarding of nonbinary genders
- Confused
Shout-out to my pan siblings btw! Y'all are great! Anyone who disagrees can pry bi/pan solidarity from my cold, dead fingers
Woo! Yes!
Bi-Pan solidarity ftw though
“you just want all the female characters you like to be lesbians” yes?
Bi or Pan wouldn’t go amiss either… Even for the guys… Hell, can we just make those the default for everyone? We can still have Het and Homo, but just… tip the ratio a bit…?
The study checked how bisexual, pansexual and queer women define bisexuality.
Pansexuals and queer women said that bisexuality is binary and means attraction to cis men and women and they also “felt that claiming a bisexual identity indicated an outdated, offensive belief that there are only two genders”.
whereas actual bisexuals defined bisexuality as broad and inclusive of all genders.
It’s also interesting that all the people claiming bisexuality was transphobic were cis whereas the trans people interviewed didn’t have a problem with the bisexual label.
In addition, bisexuals expressed that they found the debates around whether bisexuality is inclusive very upsetting and it made them consider hiding their bisexuality or changing their label.
“While experiencing one’s chosen identity as personal and meaningful was not unique to the bisexual women in our sample, bisexual women often described an added layer of psychological distress upon learning that others define bisexuality in ways that reinforce a traditional gender binary, which contradicts their own definitions and lived experiences of bisexuality.“
i am losing my mind at the people trying to “debunk” this with scientific sounding arguments such as “the sample size is too small to mean anything” - literally the most anti-science thing you can say
1. it displays that you have no understanding of basic research concepts such as the difference between quantitative and qualitative research, what they’re used for and what kind of sample sizes are viable for them
2. trying to dunk on peer reviewed research with a snappy one liner because the findings make you feel bad or clash with your pre-existing beliefs
As a former PhD level social scientist, I need you all to know that a good sample size for a social science study is 30-50 people. In my extensive experience, it’s really only valid to consider the implications of sample size when the study is <20 people (and as OP noted, this doesn’t apply to qualitative research!!! At all!!!!! No numbers, pals!) There is not infrastructure, funding, or other resources to create the kind of massive sample studies you see in medicine. That doesn’t mean you can’t do good research with <10,000 people. Also, if your stats are good enough to make it through peer review, your sample size has likely been taken into consideration properly. If you don’t know much about scientific papers, you can learn, or you can sit down when people talk about peer-reviewed research.
Edit: I’m sorry I’m just REALLY mad about this, the cited study had 25 participants who did interviews. Do you have any IDEA how much labor goes into transcribing and coding that much interview data to analyze? No, you don’t. You don’t even know what coding is if you are sniping about 25 participants. 25 is a lot of people for an interview-based study, JFCCCcccc
Entry #2 of Queer History
Most Americans, and most other people, are familiar with Abraham Lincoln. He was the 16th president of the United States and was known for freeing slaves with the Emancipation Proclamation before his assassination.
What most people are not familiar with, however, is Lincoln’s sexuality. Lincoln was married to Mary Todd from 1842 up until his death. However, it is thought that Lincoln had some male lovers both before and during his marriage to Todd.
From these relationships, it is thought that Lincoln was at the very least fluid with his sexuality, if not bisexual or pansexual.
Pan aesthetic