Malagender:A gender which is created or influenced by maladaptive daydreaming or fantasy prone personalities.
For example a malagender person might feel male usually but their gender may feel more nonbinary during a maladaptive daydreaming episode. A gender specific to people who experience maladaptive daydreaming due to a neurodivergence such as: schizotypal personality disorder, schizoid personality disorder, schizophrenia or similar.
Term coined by: Unknown
[Image: Flag with 11 stripes, top and bottom 5 taking up 1/3 of the flag each and the center stripe taking up the final 1/3: Top 5: Fading from light blue to blue. Center is a medium gray. Bottom 5 is darkish pink fading into light pink].
[image description: a flag with five stripes. from top to bottom they are: yellow, green, orange, green, yellow. a grey circle with a black outline is centered on the flag]
Illusogender: When you know you’re a certain gender, but there’s still the feeling of ‘fakeness’ there, either due to neurodivergency and/or due to outside pressure from parents, society, etc. These feelings and/or pressures can be part of the gender experience. (It’s illusogender, just to make things clear because apparently capitalized i looks the same as lower case L here)
Term coined by: Unknown
Illusogender:
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Ludogender: A gender which has a core, but the individual “tries on” different genders because they are mirroring another individual.
A neurodivergent only gender.
See also: Amaregender, Amorgender, Amicagender, Copygender, Mirrorgender, Reflectigender.
Term coined by: Unknown
Ludononbinary/Ludogender:
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The circle in the middle represents one’s “core” gender in this case being nonbinary. The stripes are vertical and mirrored to represent the mirroring aspect of ludogender
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hypersuccumor:a gender related to being hypersexual, being a succubus, and not just being a sexual being
for anon! colors are inspired by various hypersexual flags i’ve seen and my succugender redesign, plus a shade of green (opposite of red/pink) to represent the nonsexual aspect of this gender. the term combines ‘hypers’ from ‘hypersexual’, ‘succu’ from ‘succubus’, + ‘mor’ from ‘more’!
due to the nature of this term, i ask that minors do not interact! you can use this term, just don’t interact with the post. thank you!
flag id: a flag with 5 stripes. in order, they are near-black, very dark red, dark red-pink, red-pink, and light mint green. end id.
neurohateachen:a neurogender related to hating one’s teacher(s)
for anon! the top two stripes represent hate, the bottom two represent one’s teacher, and the inner two come from the neurogender flag. the term combines ‘neuro’ from ‘neurogender’, ‘hate’, ‘teach’ from ‘teacher’, + ‘en’!
flag id: a flag with 4 stripes. in order, they are dark red, red, light teal, and dark blue. end id.
loniceraumic:a gender related to honeysuckle and trauma
for anon! the top and bottom stripes represent trauma, with red being a color that makes me think of trauma and teal coming from the ptsd awareness ribbon, and the middle three are taken from images of honeysuckle. the term combines ‘lonicera’, the scientific name for honeysuckle, ‘aum’ from ‘trauma’, + ‘ic’!
flag id: a flag with 5 stripes. in order, they are faded red, golden yellow, light golden yellow, cream, and teal. end id.
vocticstimix:a gender related to vocal tics and vocal stims
for anon! colors are from this vocal stim flag and my chronic vocal tic disorder flag (not that this term is exclusive to those with chronic vocal tic disorder specifically - the colors represent vocal tics in general). the term combines ‘voc’ from ‘vocal’, ‘tic’, ‘stim’, + ‘ix’!
flag id: a flag with 4 stripes, with the second and third being larger than the rest. in order, they are blue, light orange, dark purple, and turquoise. end id.
To all the people who get told their identity is weird or “““mogai hell”““ or whatever exorsexists are using these days: I hope you know that you are valid, you are worthy of being respected, of having your pronouns and experiences respected. You know better than anyone else who you are and surely better than some jackasses just looking to bully someone. Have a wonderful day
back during the original run of this blog, at someone’s request, i designed flags for malagender, malasexual, and malaromantic. i’m not sure how i feel about them now but i thought i would repost them for proper documentation, since i noticed the flags on a couple of wikis lacking information that i could very easily provide! if i were to design them now i’d probably do it differently but it’s still worth recording. (if you see them credited to 1nklash, that’s my old deviantart!)
malagender:
a gender that is influenced by one’s maladaptive daydreaming or another similar condition. mala- can be used as a prefix to further specify the user’s gender experience.
the blue and pink are just because those are frequently used on gender-related flags, but the colors are in a gradient to represent the mental transition between reality and daydreaming. the large grey stripe in the center symbolizes the gap between those two states and the gender one feels in those states. the grey stripe can also be replaced with other gender pride flags.
i made malatransgender as an example:
malasexual and malaromantic:
the malasexual flag is purple because that is a color frequently used in flags to denote sexuality. the malaromantic flag is green for the same reason, but with romanticism. i know that purple and green usually specifically represent asexuality and aromanticism but i wasn’t really thinking about that at the time, i just wanted to distinguish the flags :P these flags have the gradients and the large stripe in the middle for the same reasons as the malagender flag.
i made malapansexual and malalesbian (with the old lesbian flag, this was before emily gwen designed the sunset lesbian flag) as examples
Depressintensic - When ones gender intensifies or becomes more prominent when one’s depression does. This may possibly be a coping mechanism used to try and encourage finding comfort in ones gender.
This is a neurogender exclusive to those with depression.
Incocuttic:A gender related to those raised bumps that come from trying to cut oneself, but not getting deep enough
Incocuttian:A gender related to having those raised bumps that come from trying to cut yourself, but not getting deep enough
Incocut: A gender that has those raised bumps that come from trying to cut oneself, but not getting deep enough
The names come from a combination of the words incomplete and cut
These genders are all exclusive to those who self harm by cutting or have self harmed by cutting in the past
This post isn’t me encouraging self harm. If you have the urge to do so, or have done so, please talk to someone; a professional, someone you trust, etc. There really are people who care about you and will listen. Trust me, the risk isn’t worth it
Hello, all! I’m positively delighted to wish everyone a happy 2nd annual xenogender day of visibility. Xenogenders and those who identify with them are very commonly misunderstood due to misinformation about what xenogenders are, how they work or why someone may want to use them. In this post, I am going to attempt to explain the concept of xenogenders for the uninitiated, particularly those who have concerns of it’s legitimacy as a feasible category of non-binary identity.
What is a Xenogender?
The term “Xenogender” was coined by tumblr user Baaphomett in 2014 via MOGAI-Archive. Ze defined the term xenogender as, “a gender that cannot be contained by human understandings of gender; more concerned with crafting other methods of gender categorization and hierarchy such as those relating to animals, plants, or other creatures/things”. As a result, “Xenogender” is a very large umbrella term with many sub-identities.
“Xeno” is from Greek, “xenos”, meaning “strange”, “foreign” or “alien”. This is referring to the the fact that xenogenders are approached in a way that anthrogenders are not, being outside the bounds of how human society tends to describe and categorize gender, thus the description of “alien”.
Xenogenders hold an anontrinary quality that is not masculine, feminine, androgynous, epicene, gender-neutral, outherine or any other “human” quality without being genderless or beyond gender. This xenine quality is described with the aid of xenic description, which utilizes “non-human” concepts that are not traditionally used to describe genders, such as emotions, sensations, aesthetics, ideas, archetypes, media, living things, inanimate objects, situations, locations, actions, and language. Most xenogenders describe how one experiences their gender as opposed to what one experiences their gender as.
Xenogenders, as an umbrella term, have a gender glyph, which is the Iris 7 astronomical sign. This symbol, a star beneath a rainbow, represents Iris, Greek goddess of rainbows. The stripes of the flag are the various colors that irises grow. Other attempts were made toward a more traditional gender glyph while invoking the imagery of the iris flower, resulting in this glyph made from tumblr user system-lgbt in 2018.
The xenogender flag, specifically the one used in this post, was created by user pastelmemer in 2017. There is also an alternate flag that was created in 2017 by Mod Hermy of Pride-Flags.
Who Can Use Xenogenders?
Anyone can identify as any xenogender, given the particular gender identity in question is within the individual’s experience; if the identity is exclusive to a particular group you are not part of, the gender identity is unavailable to you. If a xenogender is specific to a particular group, it will either be stated as part of or along side the definition. When you are in doubt, if it is possible, it is best to contact the coiner to inquire about the exclusivity of the term.
A very common misconception is that xenogenders, as a whole, can only be used by neurodivergent (ND) individuals. The only xenogenders that are exclusive to ND individuals are neurogenders. Neurogenders describe how one’s neurotype, mental illness and/or neurological condition can effect how one experiences their gender identity. Since one’s neurodivergence can effect one’s perceptions of self, others and society, and thus their gender, they are classified as xenogenders. Most xenogenders are not neurogenders, but all neurogenders are a type of xenogender. Neurogenders do not serve to equate one’s neurodivergence with their gender; one’s gender identity is effected by, not defined as, one’s neurodivergence. Neurogenders are often used in conjunction with other, frequently unrelated, affinitive terms.
Why do People Identify with Xenogenders?
There are many reasons that one may identify with or as a xenogender. Some of these reasons include, but are in no way limited to:
Accessibility
Xenogenders and xenic description can be very accessible for some individuals, particularly children who are exploring and verbalizing their gender, but don’t fully understand the intricacies of gender identity and individuals who better relate to and/or better understand xenc description, as opposed to anthroine description, both neurotypical and neurodivergent.
Versatility
Anything can be used as a basis or inspiration for a xenogender or xenic-alignment, which is one of the most unique and interesting aspects of xenogenders, xenic-alignment and xenic description. This versatility allows for xenogenders and xenic-alignments to be anything, ranging from vague and simplistic to hyperspecific and intricate in essence. With xenogenders, the possibilities are limitless, allowing “non-human”, nontraditional concepts to be incorporated into gender, it’s roles and the expression of one’s identity in creative, largely unprecedented ways that have not been widely established outside of the Microlabel/Neogender tumblr community.
Metaphor/Simile
Xenogenders are far more often than not metaphorical than they are literal. Xeninic description allows for one to be poetic or figurative when outlining their gender. This feature of xenogenders allows people to partially or fully self-describe using a figure of speech, as opposed to categorizing and conveying themselves solely using the qualities used in one’s cultural system of gender.
Genderfuckery
Another common reason that people use xenogenders is the desire to subvert anthroininity or even the concept of gender as a whole. Describing one’s gender using xeninic description for the sake “fucking with” gender is quite easy, making a prime choice for those who desire to “fuck with” gender, especially in a way that isn’t connected to traditionally “human” concepts of gender.
Reclamation
Some people use xenogenders as a method of reclaming dehumanization they experience by taking on xenogenders that they find empowering. This dehumanization can be related to one’s a-spec orientation, being transgender and/or non-binary, being intersex, neurodivergent, disabled or any other type of dehumanization that can be directed at someone not listed here. After all, xenogenders are used to describe nontraditional, “non-human” concept of gender, making them excellent for this purpose.
Alterhumanity
While the alterhuman subculture is entirely distinct from the topic of xenogenders, many alterhuman individuals use xenogenders because they relate to concepts that are not traditionally kept among humans and feel better represented by them due specifically to their alterhumanity. Because of this, there is a lot of overlap between these two communities. For many alterhumans, xenogenders aren’t as metaphorical, but tend to instead be more literal, because they are being used to describe what gender they hold as an alterhuman, not necessarily how it is experienced. Not all alterhumans identity with xenogenders and not all individuals with affinitive xenogenders are alterhumans.
Enjoyment & Gender Euphoria
For some, identifying with xenogenders is done simply because they enjoy the concept illustrated by the xenogender, or similarly, because identifying with provides them with provides gender euphoria. For example, if an individual has a deep, overarching enjoyment for something that would be considered xenine concept and that effects their gender identity for some reason, that can be the basis for a xenogender in itself. For some, it surpasses personal pleasure and because a function of gender euphoria. Gender euphoria is very personal. While most individuals can find join in anthrogenders and their qualities, others are delighted by the freedom, specificity and diversity of description provided by xenogenders.
Freedom
For those that do not experience a sense of freedom from anthrogenders due the relation to traditional, “human” subjects, xenogenders can be extremely freeing. Gender identity is a social construct. Social constructs are ideas that are physically intangible, or as many say, “fake”. This is both true and false; social constructs are real in the sense that they effect people’s lives and shape how society functions, but they are fake in the sense that they are not something that someone can touch with their skin or generate from the constituents of the universe in some way. Given that social construction are not immutable, many people feel the rightful freedom to experiment, which often leads to expressing their gender, and often their disconnection from antrhogenders, as a xenogender. What freedom means for an individual for one’s gender is highly unique. Some people go further by embracing genderlessness, autonomous genders, yonderine “gender” and even non-participation in the construct itself.
Est Quid Est
Sometimes, people are simply the gender that they are because they can be or just are; a person doesn’t necessarily have to justify identifying with a particular gender identity in order to be of that gender identity. Gender identity is a sense of self, and for some, that sense of self is best described as xeninoic. Certain people’s experiences fall in what in the lexical gap we currently have when it comes to language, so, sometimes, it simply is what it is.
Conclusion
Xenogenders are very much real and valid. They are a creative, subversive end-product of gender as a social construct. Regardless of being situated very, very far away from the gender binary in the gender spectrum, which may make them rather difficult to initially understand, xenogenders are indeed authentic and operable in their own right and are fully deserving of respect along side other transgender identities.
With today being XDoV, I would like to challenge you to take a moment to read about xenogenders from people who identify with them or, if not available, those educated in such gender theory. To those with xenogenders; happy day of visibility. Thank-you for being revolutionary.
A neurogender that can only be understood in the context of a psychotic disorder. It feels inconsistent, hard to make sense of, disordered, or disconnected from reality.
This gender differs from pyschogender in the sense that one feels as though they are experiencing gender from a nonhuman perspective, possibly feeling supernatural, mythical, or even strange as a result of ones psychotic disorder.
musilustwhoric:a gender related to cupcakke’s music, ayesha erotica’s music, hypersexuality, oversexuality, lust, and identifying as a whore
for anon! colors are from one of cupcakke’s album covers, one of ayesha erotica’s album covers, and just generally colors that make me think of various aspects of the term. the term combines ‘musi’ from ‘music’, ‘lust’, ‘whor’ from ‘whore’, + ‘ic’!
because of the sexual nature of this term, i ask that minors please dni!
flag id: a flag with 5 stripes. in order, they are near-black, bright pink-red, pink, light pink, and blue-white. end id.
