I need some fluff and romance rn so here are some Remadora snogging/kissing/hugging you get the idea headcanons;
They were snoging everywhere around Grimmauld Place much to everyones bemusement
Their favourite place to snog was in the library because no one ever goes there except Remus
She would sit on his lap
Tonks loved running her fingers through Remus’ hair
His hands were usually on her waist but she preferred when they were on her hips
At the start of the relationship they were both a bit shy but eventually got comfortable
When Tonks would come from work or a mission, they would sit on the couch with Tonks’ head in Remus’ lap and he would now and then bend down to kiss her
Tonks would do the same to him after full moons
They would sit next to each other in meetings and hold hands under the table
Whenever one had to go somewhere, they would hug and kiss goodbye at the door for like 10 mintues
Tonks loved cuddling
They were both little and big spoons
Kisses on foreheads >>> kisses on cheeks
Tonks loved kissing the scars on Remus’ face to show him that she didn’t care about them
He loved kissing her neck and ears
So he would often come behind her and just do that
She loved sitting on the kitchen counters or desks and him standing between her legs because he was taller than her so she usually had to stand on her toes
Remus loved when they would drink hot chocolate and Tonks would have some on her face so he would lick it like a dog
She said she hated when he would do that
But they both knew she actually really liked it
Also, side note: Tonks DEFINITELY stole Remus’ cardigans and jumpers and slept in his old shirts
If Remus were on a longer mission (a few days), Tonks would just hug his pillow because it smelled like him
Another side note but cute headcanon: NONSTOP GRYFFINDOR VERSUS HUFFLEPUFF FEUDS
Tonks loved Remus’ hands (he was great at massages)
When they would hug, Tonks’ head fit perfectly into Remus’ shoulder and he would always put his face in her hair because he loved the smell of her shampoo
Tonks is the perfect height for Remus to put his head on top of hers
Sn 3: everybody already knows this and have accepted it as canon but Tonks definitely morphed into Snape to scare Remus while they were in bed
Passionate kissing against the door and walls
In winter, they would cuddle up in front of the fire with Tonks’ legs in Remus’ lap and her head on his shoulder while he would read to her
Sharing one cup and drinking together out of it (it started accidentally but eventually it just became their thing)
Why does Tonks’s character apparently get ruined when she becomes a mother but Dad!Remus is so glorified in the fandom?
And what’s best, Tonks is also reduced to a surrogate in the fandom yet somehow it’s getting married and having a child that ruins her character?
Tonks as a mother is so underappreciated (when she was pregnant during a war and then went to a battle days later after giving birth to try and help to make a better world for him) but she’s so hated for it? Why do people have so much hate for “badass” women who get married and have children as if those women can’t be badass? A woman can be a badass no matter if she’s married or not, has children or not, aka just always. Her character didn’t get “ruined” or “reduced to a housewife”. You’re just dumb
There’s this band I like called Blossoms and they wrote a song called Falling For Someone and I dunno why but it makes me think of Remus and Tonks like from the perspective of Remus?
Not sure if it’s just me who thinks this but yeah if other people think the same way, I’d love if someone did like a fan video using that song. My days of doing fan videos are long gone (I’ve forgotten how to do it if I’m honest :P)
My next project will be a Remus and Tonks fanfiction set in an alternative universe where they survive the Battle of Hogwarts. I just need to reread Harry Potter and some fanfiction and I’ll get to work on it. So if you’re interested in a Remadora fanfiction, keep an eye out for updates :)
Yes after 13 years (book) and nearly 10 years (film), I’m still not over Remus and Tonks’s death. Should I call her Dora technically as she was married to Lupin at the time of her death?
I don’t care how many times JK tries to justify why she had to kill them. Yes I understand you wanted the series to go full circle, starting and ending with an orphaned boy, I understand killing Arthur Weasley instead would have been awful and yes I understand it shows no one is immune from the tragedies of war but come on don’t you think Remus had been through enough?
Like he’d spend a good majority of his life feeling ashamed because of lycanthropy, he lost two of his best friends to Voldemort and the Death Eaters and genuinely believed he wasn’t worthy of love. It never crossed his mind that Tonks would see beyond his condition and love him regardless, he always felt inferior to her. I mean they had just become parents for god’s sake, they were so happy and then they get murdered?
I’ve read opinions that Remus and Tonks were neglective of Teddy for fighting in the Battle of Hogwarts. Was it perhaps safer for them to stay at home with their newborn son? Maybe but Remus had fought in the First Wizarding War and had valuable experience and no way was Tonks going to leave her husband to fight on his own.
I mean no one slates James and Lily for sacrificing their lives. Some may argue they didn’t have a choice compared to Remus and Tonks. In fact Lily was given the chance by Voldemort to step aside as requested by Snape but she refused. Her love for Harry was so strong, she’d rather die than let Voldemort kill her son. It’s the same for Remus and Tonks, they knew there was a chance they wouldn’t come out of this alive but if it helped their son live a life without fear, it was worth it.
What would people rather have, Tonks and Remus stay at home and her crazed aunt Bellatrix murder Teddy in his cot? Or Teddy safe and sound but grow up knowing how brave his parents were sacrificing themselves for him? You would do anything to keep your children safe, that’s how strong a parents love can be.
Anyway, I digress but my point is, there’s too much hate on this relationship for my liking. I mean don’t get me started on the whole ‘Remus didn’t love Tonks’ and how apparently obsessive Tonks was in her love for Remus in Half Blood Prince. Read the damn books again for fuck’s sake.
I mean I love reading fanfiction where Remus and Tonks survived and give them the ending they deserve. It’s just a shame their relationship wasn’t given more substance in the films, Nat Tena and David Thewlis shared really strong chemistry and I would have loved to have seen them obviously flirting in Order of the Phoenix and the hospital scene from HBP.
Oh and that deleted scene from Deathly Hallows Part 2? That should never have been deleted despite it not being in the book. But hey let’s not go into deleted scenes that should have been in the film like Dudley saying Harry wasn’t a waste of a space…
I really hate when people get mad at Tonks for not staying home. I understand that it might not have been the wisest decision, but her deciding to go is very fitting for her character. She has always been an individual who was never afraid of the fight. She always would stand up for what she believed in, no matter what personal struggles or pain she was going through. I think people perceive tonks as weak which I can never really understand. They point at her in HBP for proof when in reality she was emotionally exhausted and upset. It wasn’t just Lupin that caused this, for she felt incredibly guilty over Sirius’s death and bellatrix wanted to kill her. And given the tensions with anti muggle born legislation that would no doubt surely arise and the prospect of war, there was no way she should be blamed for feeling down. The fact that she felt this way and continued fighting just proved her strength and her desire to do the right thing.
Tonks and Remus both wanted a better world for themselves and for their son. And tonks, knowing how much Remus has been suffering, refused to let him go alone. She would forever stand besides his side and after they have tried so long to prove to the world the validity of their love, she was never going to let him go again. Not when he didn’t have to walk down the path of life alone that is. But someone brought up a good point when we were discussing this. To us, Remus and Tonks are so important. We root for them, we cried for them, we longed for their happinsss. Yet, to everyone else, they were just two more bodies on the floor. Our fandom, at least at the Remadora side, is rather small. Yet, we are no less passionate than say Harry fans, drarry, albus fans, grindledore, Hermione fans, or anyone in between. We love these characters and we love the world, and while we might want something different, we take what we have and try to make our content around it.
And I agree with the hatred this relationship gets. It seems you cannot go a day without hearing criticism that honestly seems just an escalation of claims that have been there from the beginning. I do not understand how this ship is somehow the greatest wrong the series has ever done. I know that people were annoyed that JKR disliked the wolfstar ship, but honestly this isn’t that bad in itself. I feel like people see everything as a perceived bigoted wrong and take it out on the fans of Remadora unjustly. We don’t know truly why JKR put these two together. It might have been a sense of bigotry, but then again, maybe it wasn’t. There were many ships which did not occur and to act like it was just directed at wolfstar seems to be a bit unfounded . I read that she made this relationship to also highlight the fact that relationships aren’t perfect. They have faults and honestly, looking at it completely, Remadora has a beautiful message behind it. No matter how much you hate yourself or think you are undeserving, hope is not lost. There is not an eternal dread which will dictate the rest of your life and you do indeed deserve a chance to pursue dreams you never thought possible. While it might be clunky in its progress, we adore this ship. It might not be perfect, and we understand this. While it might not be popular and we might face hate almost constantly we all have the one ship that will make us happy. You might not agree but our one true pairing will always be
Remadora
And well, there’s nothing wrong with that :)
Thanks so much for adding your opinion onto my rant! I really don’t get why Tonks gets hate for leaving Teddy to fight in BOH. She may have been inexperienced in fighting in a war but she was a badass Auror who was used to dealing with dark wizards and she only would have spent her time at home worrying about Remus anyway. She was never going to leave him at a time where he needed her most. I know it’s not in the book but when Tonks says in that deleted scene “It’s you who needs me tonight”, it sums up her love for Remus and you see it in Remus’s face, he’s so happy to see her.
Yes both of them were a little rusty on the field because Remus had been busy protecting his wife and son and Tonks because of her recovering from childbirth but where else were they going to be? They wanted to play a part in defeating Voldemort once and for all.
Not sure where people get the idea Tonks is weak, I think people completely misinterpret her behaviour in HBP. Yes she’s depressed and because of her abilities, it’s more obvious what her state of mind is compared to say Harry or other characters. She’s not just depressed because of Remus as you say. If she was weak, she would have spent an entire year moping about feeling sorry for herself but instead she continues her obligations to the Order and protects Harry at Hogwarts because I think she sees him as like a little brother sort of thing.
I also didn’t realise it was such a small fandom! I think their relationship is just as important as Ron and Hermione’s or Harry and Ginny’s despite not getting as much exposure. I know we say about Remadora not being in the films much but we’re not really given much by JK in the books either. I mean we assume they got to know each other because of them both being in The Order but it wasn’t until JK posted that essay on Pottermore (I think?) we were given a bit more background into how they fell in love. Everything else such as their wedding, Tonks’s last few months of pregnancy, their time with Teddy and sadly their deaths all happened off page.
I try not to think about JK’s reasons behind putting a couple together or her personal opinions for that matter as you try and separate the author from the literature so to speak. I mean she obviously thought Remus and Tonks would make a good couple and it’s an invested journey from Order of the Phoenix to Deathly Hallows. It takes them a while to be finally happy and that’s what makes it so gut wrenchingly sad when they die.
Just out of curiosity do you believe Tonks found Remus in Deathly Hallows before he was killed?
My theory is that Tonks died on the way to finding Remus and both of them died without knowing the other was dead.
If anyone else is interested in this discussion, I’d be interested to know your thoughts too on Remadora and whether the couple found each other before their deaths in DH :)
I guess they see it as cowardly while at the same thing praise Lily for essentially giving her life up for Harry. Tonks didn’t want to stay behind and not fight for a world that could accept her husband and her son. It just seems that people are underestimating tonks as a character and her skills. She was a trained Auror and rather skilled herself. If she thought that it would serve better for her to be there, then she would go. And that deleted scene gives me life. I adore seeing it and wished it was still included. To see Remus no longer turn tonks away, after everything he’s gone through, speaks volumes about how he has changed as an individual. It’s absolutely wonderful that he finally understood the love he felt and deserved all his life. It brought me great happiness knowing that he had finally accepted the love in his life and well, that should’ve never gotten cut. It was perfect and it’s the only thing I really liked about their relationship that was added into the story.
Well Remadora has always been a small fandom. I guess because people prefer the slash ships and those tend to get popular a lot more. I tend to enjoy a lot of the smaller ships in the series and I have to admit that Remadora was not utilized as much as it should’ve been. A lot of it happens off the book pages since Harry doesn’t personally have much contact with Lupin that much. They’re rather distant so his relationship drama would be of little concern of Harry’s. It’s really a shame because it would’ve been wonderful. And yes the Remus Lupin pottermore bio is canonical as it was written by JKR herself. It goes into a lot more details on the relationship that was cut out or thst we didn’t know. It honeslty painted a bigger picture but I still crave more Remadora content (lol)
And I just bring it up because people say numerous times that thsi ship is homophobic and wrong. I don’t know why it’s just this ship that gets this hate though. Hinny and romione were never treated this awfully. Regardless of how or why Jk put them together can people agree that it wasn’t awful? I just feel like people just call us bigots for shipping this ship far too much for my liking and there’s so much unnecessary drama surrounding Remadora. Seriously people adopt headcanon a as canon and use it to attack others who might have a differing opinion. It honeslty makes no sense to me but Remadora is just a ship parts of the fandom likes to shit on for absolutely no reason other than a perceived bigotry it and it’s fans are supposedly showing.
And personally, yes I think so. I kinda liked the deleted scenes in DH so much that I adopted it in my personal headcanon. I think they at least reunited together before they died. However, I do think they died without knowing the other has passed. Yet, as we saw, they were brought together in the end. Their bodies laying side by side. Honeslty both of them should’ve lived because they both went through so much, but alas that was not the case.
I don’t get how Tonks would be classed as cowardly when the bravest thing she ever did was leave her newborn son behind? She must have known when she said goodbye to Teddy, it may have been the last time she ever saw him? Like how heartbreaking must that have been for her? It would have been interesting to read a scene where Remus says goodbye to Tonks and Teddy before he heads to Hogwarts and when Tonks does the same later. Then again it would have been as emotional as hell!
I think that’s what’s tragic about Remus and Tonks’s death is like they never got to live in the better world they fought so hard to have. Like Hermione was instrumental in the abolishment of pro-pureblood laws and probably the anti-werewolf ones too. He would have finally been accepted in wizarding society.
I love that deleted scene too, it’s so beautiful and it’s an insult to their relationship that it was cut in favour of scenes like Harry and Hermione dancing or something.
You can never have too much Remadora content I don’t think ;) Have you ever seen the picture of Remus and Tonks on an Order Mission, not sure where the photo was from but omg I loved seeing it! Pity they didn’t give us a scene in the film of them on a mission (or the scene where she declares her love for Lupin).
I never realised how horrible people could be about them until I went on Tumblr. I’ve read people thinking the relationship was creepy, emphasising on Tonks’s behaviour in HBP and the age difference. People act as if Tonks was a young naive girl and Remus groomed her or something, it’s mad. It makes me really angry seeing people’s attitudes towards them, I mean what happened to being respectful? I don’t get the Sirius and Remus ship myself but if people choose to ship it, that’s fine. I understand that more than say Remus/Harry or Harry/Sirius (I mean wtf hahaha).
I like to believe although they didn’t fight together, they were at least reunited in death. I’m glad one didn’t have to live without the other, that would have been awful.
It was bad enough Sirius dying without having Remus and Tonks die too. Poor Andromeda! Her favourite cousin is murdered by her estranged sister then her daughter is murdered by her too!
Yes after 13 years (book) and nearly 10 years (film), I’m still not over Remus and Tonks’s death. Should I call her Dora technically as she was married to Lupin at the time of her death?
I don’t care how many times JK tries to justify why she had to kill them. Yes I understand you wanted the series to go full circle, starting and ending with an orphaned boy, I understand killing Arthur Weasley instead would have been awful and yes I understand it shows no one is immune from the tragedies of war but come on don’t you think Remus had been through enough?
Like he’d spend a good majority of his life feeling ashamed because of lycanthropy, he lost two of his best friends to Voldemort and the Death Eaters and genuinely believed he wasn’t worthy of love. It never crossed his mind that Tonks would see beyond his condition and love him regardless, he always felt inferior to her. I mean they had just become parents for god’s sake, they were so happy and then they get murdered?
I’ve read opinions that Remus and Tonks were neglective of Teddy for fighting in the Battle of Hogwarts. Was it perhaps safer for them to stay at home with their newborn son? Maybe but Remus had fought in the First Wizarding War and had valuable experience and no way was Tonks going to leave her husband to fight on his own.
I mean no one slates James and Lily for sacrificing their lives. Some may argue they didn’t have a choice compared to Remus and Tonks. In fact Lily was given the chance by Voldemort to step aside as requested by Snape but she refused. Her love for Harry was so strong, she’d rather die than let Voldemort kill her son. It’s the same for Remus and Tonks, they knew there was a chance they wouldn’t come out of this alive but if it helped their son live a life without fear, it was worth it.
What would people rather have, Tonks and Remus stay at home and her crazed aunt Bellatrix murder Teddy in his cot? Or Teddy safe and sound but grow up knowing how brave his parents were sacrificing themselves for him? You would do anything to keep your children safe, that’s how strong a parents love can be.
Anyway, I digress but my point is, there’s too much hate on this relationship for my liking. I mean don’t get me started on the whole ‘Remus didn’t love Tonks’ and how apparently obsessive Tonks was in her love for Remus in Half Blood Prince. Read the damn books again for fuck’s sake.
I mean I love reading fanfiction where Remus and Tonks survived and give them the ending they deserve. It’s just a shame their relationship wasn’t given more substance in the films, Nat Tena and David Thewlis shared really strong chemistry and I would have loved to have seen them obviously flirting in Order of the Phoenix and the hospital scene from HBP.
Oh and that deleted scene from Deathly Hallows Part 2? That should never have been deleted despite it not being in the book. But hey let’s not go into deleted scenes that should have been in the film like Dudley saying Harry wasn’t a waste of a space…
I really hate when people get mad at Tonks for not staying home. I understand that it might not have been the wisest decision, but her deciding to go is very fitting for her character. She has always been an individual who was never afraid of the fight. She always would stand up for what she believed in, no matter what personal struggles or pain she was going through. I think people perceive tonks as weak which I can never really understand. They point at her in HBP for proof when in reality she was emotionally exhausted and upset. It wasn’t just Lupin that caused this, for she felt incredibly guilty over Sirius’s death and bellatrix wanted to kill her. And given the tensions with anti muggle born legislation that would no doubt surely arise and the prospect of war, there was no way she should be blamed for feeling down. The fact that she felt this way and continued fighting just proved her strength and her desire to do the right thing.
Tonks and Remus both wanted a better world for themselves and for their son. And tonks, knowing how much Remus has been suffering, refused to let him go alone. She would forever stand besides his side and after they have tried so long to prove to the world the validity of their love, she was never going to let him go again. Not when he didn’t have to walk down the path of life alone that is. But someone brought up a good point when we were discussing this. To us, Remus and Tonks are so important. We root for them, we cried for them, we longed for their happinsss. Yet, to everyone else, they were just two more bodies on the floor. Our fandom, at least at the Remadora side, is rather small. Yet, we are no less passionate than say Harry fans, drarry, albus fans, grindledore, Hermione fans, or anyone in between. We love these characters and we love the world, and while we might want something different, we take what we have and try to make our content around it.
And I agree with the hatred this relationship gets. It seems you cannot go a day without hearing criticism that honestly seems just an escalation of claims that have been there from the beginning. I do not understand how this ship is somehow the greatest wrong the series has ever done. I know that people were annoyed that JKR disliked the wolfstar ship, but honestly this isn’t that bad in itself. I feel like people see everything as a perceived bigoted wrong and take it out on the fans of Remadora unjustly. We don’t know truly why JKR put these two together. It might have been a sense of bigotry, but then again, maybe it wasn’t. There were many ships which did not occur and to act like it was just directed at wolfstar seems to be a bit unfounded . I read that she made this relationship to also highlight the fact that relationships aren’t perfect. They have faults and honestly, looking at it completely, Remadora has a beautiful message behind it. No matter how much you hate yourself or think you are undeserving, hope is not lost. There is not an eternal dread which will dictate the rest of your life and you do indeed deserve a chance to pursue dreams you never thought possible. While it might be clunky in its progress, we adore this ship. It might not be perfect, and we understand this. While it might not be popular and we might face hate almost constantly we all have the one ship that will make us happy. You might not agree but our one true pairing will always be
Remadora
And well, there’s nothing wrong with that :)
Thanks so much for adding your opinion onto my rant! I really don’t get why Tonks gets hate for leaving Teddy to fight in BOH. She may have been inexperienced in fighting in a war but she was a badass Auror who was used to dealing with dark wizards and she only would have spent her time at home worrying about Remus anyway. She was never going to leave him at a time where he needed her most. I know it’s not in the book but when Tonks says in that deleted scene “It’s you who needs me tonight”, it sums up her love for Remus and you see it in Remus’s face, he’s so happy to see her.
Yes both of them were a little rusty on the field because Remus had been busy protecting his wife and son and Tonks because of her recovering from childbirth but where else were they going to be? They wanted to play a part in defeating Voldemort once and for all.
Not sure where people get the idea Tonks is weak, I think people completely misinterpret her behaviour in HBP. Yes she’s depressed and because of her abilities, it’s more obvious what her state of mind is compared to say Harry or other characters. She’s not just depressed because of Remus as you say. If she was weak, she would have spent an entire year moping about feeling sorry for herself but instead she continues her obligations to the Order and protects Harry at Hogwarts because I think she sees him as like a little brother sort of thing.
I also didn’t realise it was such a small fandom! I think their relationship is just as important as Ron and Hermione’s or Harry and Ginny’s despite not getting as much exposure. I know we say about Remadora not being in the films much but we’re not really given much by JK in the books either. I mean we assume they got to know each other because of them both being in The Order but it wasn’t until JK posted that essay on Pottermore (I think?) we were given a bit more background into how they fell in love. Everything else such as their wedding, Tonks’s last few months of pregnancy, their time with Teddy and sadly their deaths all happened off page.
I try not to think about JK’s reasons behind putting a couple together or her personal opinions for that matter as you try and separate the author from the literature so to speak. I mean she obviously thought Remus and Tonks would make a good couple and it’s an invested journey from Order of the Phoenix to Deathly Hallows. It takes them a while to be finally happy and that’s what makes it so gut wrenchingly sad when they die.
Just out of curiosity do you believe Tonks found Remus in Deathly Hallows before he was killed?
My theory is that Tonks died on the way to finding Remus and both of them died without knowing the other was dead.
If anyone else is interested in this discussion, I’d be interested to know your thoughts too on Remadora and whether the couple found each other before their deaths in DH :)
Yes after 13 years (book) and nearly 10 years (film), I’m still not over Remus and Tonks’s death. Should I call her Dora technically as she was married to Lupin at the time of her death?
I don’t care how many times JK tries to justify why she had to kill them. Yes I understand you wanted the series to go full circle, starting and ending with an orphaned boy, I understand killing Arthur Weasley instead would have been awful and yes I understand it shows no one is immune from the tragedies of war but come on don’t you think Remus had been through enough?
Like he’d spend a good majority of his life feeling ashamed because of lycanthropy, he lost two of his best friends to Voldemort and the Death Eaters and genuinely believed he wasn’t worthy of love. It never crossed his mind that Tonks would see beyond his condition and love him regardless, he always felt inferior to her. I mean they had just become parents for god’s sake, they were so happy and then they get murdered?
I’ve read opinions that Remus and Tonks were neglective of Teddy for fighting in the Battle of Hogwarts. Was it perhaps safer for them to stay at home with their newborn son? Maybe but Remus had fought in the First Wizarding War and had valuable experience and no way was Tonks going to leave her husband to fight on his own.
I mean no one slates James and Lily for sacrificing their lives. Some may argue they didn’t have a choice compared to Remus and Tonks. In fact Lily was given the chance by Voldemort to step aside as requested by Snape but she refused. Her love for Harry was so strong, she’d rather die than let Voldemort kill her son. It’s the same for Remus and Tonks, they knew there was a chance they wouldn’t come out of this alive but if it helped their son live a life without fear, it was worth it.
What would people rather have, Tonks and Remus stay at home and her crazed aunt Bellatrix murder Teddy in his cot? Or Teddy safe and sound but grow up knowing how brave his parents were sacrificing themselves for him? You would do anything to keep your children safe, that’s how strong a parents love can be.
Anyway, I digress but my point is, there’s too much hate on this relationship for my liking. I mean don’t get me started on the whole ‘Remus didn’t love Tonks’ and how apparently obsessive Tonks was in her love for Remus in Half Blood Prince. Read the damn books again for fuck’s sake.
I mean I love reading fanfiction where Remus and Tonks survived and give them the ending they deserve. It’s just a shame their relationship wasn’t given more substance in the films, Nat Tena and David Thewlis shared really strong chemistry and I would have loved to have seen them obviously flirting in Order of the Phoenix and the hospital scene from HBP.
Oh and that deleted scene from Deathly Hallows Part 2? That should never have been deleted despite it not being in the book. But hey let’s not go into deleted scenes that should have been in the film like Dudley saying Harry wasn’t a waste of a space…
“Remus!” Tonks cried as she staggered off the broom into Lupin’s arms. His face wassetand white: He seemed unable to speak.
…
“So what kept you? What happened?” Lupin sounded almost angry at Tonks.
“Bellatrix,” said Tonks. “She wants me quite as much as she wants Harry, Remus, she tried very hard to kill me. I just wish I’d got her, I owe Bellatrix. But we definitely injured Rodolphus… . Then we got to Ron’s Auntie Muriel’s and we’d missed our Portkey and she was fussing over us —”
A muscle was jumping in Lupin’s jaw. He nodded, but seemed unable to say anything else.
I swear Remus almost exploded and in his head he was already plotting how to get Bellatrix for trying to kill his pregnant wife… such a protective husband
Just going through my feed and I realized something…if we got so excited about a single photo,I’m scared what would happen if the scene where Lupin asks Harry to be the Godfather gets published.
I mean, in the script it says Lupin staring at Tonks affectionately and my god does it look like it
Omg we need this scene on YouTube and a script published please!
“Remus felt justified in remaining exactly where he was, keeping his feelings to himself but secretly rejoicing every time somebody paired him with Tonks on some overnight mission.” Remus Lupin Bio (Pottermore)
Okay but imagining Remus having a mental celebration party with himself everytime he gets to do anything with Tonks brings me great joy. Honestly this man was head over heels for Tonks and I love him for that
It’s so sweet, that’s why I don’t get the argument about Remus not loving Tonks because every action he does is because he loves her. He rejects her feelings because he thinks she deserves better and he worries about making her an outcast by associating with him and putting her in danger whilst a werewolf.
He leaves her when she’s pregnant with Teddy because of those insecurities surrounding his lycanthropy, he worries his child will be like him an outcast and even if the child didn’t inherit his condition, they would be ashamed of a father like him. It’s never about oh I should never have married her because I didn’t love her.
Besides when Teddy is born, he’s so happy and proud. I mean he used all sorts of protective charms to keep Tonks and Teddy safe, he wouldn’t do that if he didn’t love her. I’m very much a believer that if Remus and Tonks did reunite with one another before their deaths, what happened in the deleted scene would be canon. That’s where the writers got their relationship right, even if they did delete it…
Okay sooo I sometimes forget the age gap between tonks and Remus.
Like can you imagine young Sirius introducing his boyfriend, Remus to Andromeda and Andromeda telling him to take care of her brother and not break his heart??
Then after some years, her daughter brings the same man home and introduces him as her husband, like can you imagine the expression on her face??
