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Look, let’s be clear on this: from the moment the Antichirst was born Crowley was fucked. Even if he managed to avert Armageddon, the forces of Hell and Satan himself was still going to come after him and destroy him for it. So, of course, he had an escape plan. He HAD to have an escape plan.

From the moment Crowley delivered the Antichirst Crowley’s plan was:

1. Do absolutely everything I can think of, including enlisting Aziraphale’s help, to prevent Armageddon.

2. When I’ve done absolutely everything I can do and the forces of Hell come to destroy me then I will escape of Alpha Centauri, and hope that it was enough. Oh, and I’ll try really hard to convince Aziraphale to come with me.

Crowley doesn’t even mention Alpha Centauri to Aziraphale until it seems to Crowley that they are all out of ideas. Further, just mentioning an escape plan is NOT the same thing as literally running then and there. Crowley does not attempt to put his escape plan into place at all until the forces of Hell are at his doorstep.

It is not selfish for Crowley to have some sense of self-preservation. It is not selfish to have a back up emergency escape plan for if doing everything you can think of is still not enough. It is not selfish to run from the literal forces of Hell attempting to destroy you personally because you tried to save the world.

It was Crowley’s idea to try to avert Armageddon. The moment he knew about the Antichrist he was straight onto trying to prevent it without any hesitation. Crowley is the one who convinced Aziraphale. And he did it all knowing that if Armageddon didn’t go according to plan he personally would be blamed. He’s fucked either way. So, of course, he was at least partially motivated by love of the world and preventing suffering and all of that. The real reasons spill out when he’s drunk: dolphins. Dolphins, that’s my point.

Can we please stop condemning him for making an escape plan? Can we stop thinking that having an escape plan means that Crowley ‘you can’t kill kids’ never had unselfish reasons to save the world? Can we please stop condemning him for wanting to live?

And please, if you are sacrificing your whole life for the greater good, stop. Do your best AND make escape plan. It is okay to want to live your life.

With my whole heart I have sought You; oh, let me not wander from Your commandments! —Psalm 119:10

One of my favorite classic hymns is “Come, Thou Fount of Every Blessing,” which was written in 1757 by 22-year-old Robert Robinson. In the hymn’s lyrics is a line that always captures my attention and forces me to do some self-evaluation. The line says, “Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it. Prone to leave the God I love.” I feel that way sometimes. Too often I find myself distracted and drifting, instead of having my heart and mind focused on the Savior who loves me and gave Himself for me. Robert Robinson and I are not alone in this.

In those seasons of wandering, our heart of hearts doesn’t want to drift from God—but, like Paul, we often do what we don’t want to do (Rom. 7:19), and we desperately need to turn back to the Shepherd of our heart who can draw us to Himself. David wrote of this struggle in His great anthem to the Scriptures, Psalm 119, saying, “With my whole heart I have sought You; oh, let me not wander from Your commandments!” (v.10).

Sometimes, even when our hearts long to seek God, the distractions of life can draw us away from Him and His Word. How grateful we can be for a patient, compassionate heavenly Father whose grace is always sufficient—even when we are prone to wander! —Bill Crowder

Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it,
Prone to leave the God I love;
Here’s my heart, O take and seal it,
Seal it for Thy courts above. —Robinson

Our tendency to wander is matched by God’s willingness to pursue.

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Men will get mad about anything their wives do if it even remotely inconveniences them.

man injects parasite into a woman’s body which she fed and grew for 9 mos, does something for herself afterwards and hes still pissed? divorce him

Tokyo Story (東京物語 Tōkyō Monogatari) (1953)Dir: Yasujirō Ozu DOP: Yūharu Atsuta “Children don’tTokyo Story (東京物語 Tōkyō Monogatari) (1953)Dir: Yasujirō Ozu DOP: Yūharu Atsuta “Children don’tTokyo Story (東京物語 Tōkyō Monogatari) (1953)Dir: Yasujirō Ozu DOP: Yūharu Atsuta “Children don’t

Tokyo Story (東京物語 Tōkyō Monogatari) (1953)
Dir: Yasujirō Ozu
DOP: Yūharu Atsuta
“Children don’t live up to their parents’ expectations. Let’s just be happy that they’re better than most.”


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The things I have to say are fucking important. Otherwise I wouldn’t say them. Yes, even if they’re

The things I have to say are fucking important. Otherwise I wouldn’t say them. Yes, even if they’re only two words.

The ‘aesthetic’ of your tumblr that entirely lacks original content is not as important as my VOICE or IDENTITY.


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Many of us believe a lot of things about relationships that just aren’t true and we do things that, despite being well intentioned, can end up undermining our own happiness. That’s why this episode of the Sex and Psychology Podcast is all about boosting your relationship IQ by revealing the secrets of relationship success.

I interviewed relationship expert Dr. Gary Lewandowski. He is a Professor at Monmouth University and author of the new book Stronger Than You Think: The 10 Blind Spots That Undermine Your Relationship…and How to See Past Them.

We talk all about his new book, and some of the key topics we get into include:

  • How believing in the idea of a “soul mate” holds us back from finding relationship happiness.

  • Why it’s OK—and healthy—to be a little bit selfish in your relationship.

  • How too much closeness in your relationship can push you and your partner apart.

  • Why you shouldn’t tell your partner, “if you love me, you’ll change.”

  • How going for a partner who is way more attractive than you can produce a less stable relationship.

  • Why it’s important to embrace disagreement and conflict in your relationship.

  • Why breakups usually aren’t as bad as we think they’re going to be—and how to move on after a relationship ends.

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Character A’s kidnapping and captivity is highly publicized. Everybody knows they’re missing. Character B, extremely dedicated paparazzo, is able to track them down and infiltrate Whumper’s hideout. For the first time A has renewed hopes of freedom, seeing a new face. They beg B to break them free and help them escape the way they came, but B isn’t interested. If they’re freed, the story comes to an end! Why would they help A when sneak peek photos of them from an undisclosed location will make much dramatic waves? 

Of course, if Whumper catches B there, maybe B will join A in chains and learn what it’s reallylike being in the middle of the action.

The scariest thing isn’t the darkness of the night, but the darkness hidden inside the human heart.

[Jedi Knights] do not grow attachments, because attachment is a path to the dark side. You can love

[Jedi Knights] do not grow attachments, because attachment is a path to the dark side. You can love people, but you can’t want to possess them. They’re not yours. Accept that they have a fate. Even those you love most are going to die. You can’t do anything about that. Protect them with your lightsaber, but if they die they were going to die, there’s nothing you can do. All you can do is accept that fact.

In mythology, if you go to Hades to get them back you’re not doing it for them, you’re doing it for yourself. You’re doing it because you don’t want to give them up. You’re afraid to be without them. The key to the dark side is fear. You must be clean of fear, and fear of loss is the greatest fear. If you’re set up for fear of loss, you will do anything to keep that loss from happening, and you’re going to end up in the dark side. That’s the basic premise of Star Wars and the Jedi, and how it works.

That’s why they’re taken at a young age to be trained. They cannot get themselves killed trying to save their best buddy when it’s a hopeless exercise.

— George Lucas


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His character is basically a cynical loner who realizes the importance of being part of a group and

His character is basically a cynical loner who realizes the importance of being part of a group and helping for the common good, compromising and sacrificing his own welfare for those of others. I had a list of about thirty-five themes that I wanted to explore in the film, and giving up your own personal gratification for the good of others was one of them.

— George Lucas


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