#how to be happy
I think one of the most important things to life a happy live, is to be grateful. You see the world in a different way. The simplest things start to become unbelievable. Like, why I am such a giftet person with all of this little things. As a house, a friend, a boyfriend, a pet or anything else. I thank god everyday for the little and the big thinks. It helped me to see the positive. Believing helped me staying positive
We have to dare to be ourselves, however frightening or strange that self may prove to you
May Sarton
Remember
You have to remind yourself that you are happy, that you are thankful for all the things you’ve got. For example, that you are healthy or for your family. You have to remind yourself that you are happy, that you are thankful for all the things you’ve got. For example, that you are healthy or for your family. For everything you are thankful for. Each day, when you wake up tell yourself that this day is going to be an amazing day (even if you don’t believe it. It is incredible what happens if you change your attitude at the beginning of the day). You have to be happy because you want to be. Not because you want to make others happy or impress them. You have to learn from your mistakes. You have to remember this kind of pain. How it feels to ‘lose’ your happiness because you committed it to another person. Every time you see yourself putting your happiness in other person’s hand, remember how good you felt before and how worse you feel now. Hold yourself up. Don’t expect other people to make you happy or to pull you up when you down. Remember what you reached. You had have something other people want to have, they try so hard but fail. Again and again. But you, you can do it. You can be Happy. You don’t need another person to be happy. You proofed it. Get back to this point. You had nobody but you did it. You only make this mistake once, but not twice. Because you see that you did something wrong and you will remember how you feel now and this feeling won’t let you do this mistake once again. I hope this helped you. If you want to talk I’m always here
Have you ever found yourself in a situation and thought “hell I am like an app, i’ve made an update but nothing changed”? I’ve found myself there many times. Because I wasn’t focused on my goals. And so I started to tell my friends about my goals. Being happy, staying focused. And they are now like a reminder. It’s rasiert to tell yourself excuses why you aren’t where you wanted to be, but it’s so much harder to justify for your friends. Since if told my friends to push me forward, if reached a lot of things. I’ve reached my goals and have new goals. My friends started seeing the success and started having similar goals. It’s unbelievable how my live has changed since that moment. I’ve never bin closer to my friends, never been happier. So this is my tip for you
Your thoughts are everything. What you think you will become. Easier to say than actually making it. But’s that’s it. If you think negativ and what can happen to you next. You will only see the negative, in every situation. The best example, is your glass half full or empty? Like having a big discussion with your best friend or loved ones. Some of you are thinking “ok, maybe this is the end” the others will think “ok this is a huge problem, but we will growth from it. When we survived this situation our relationship will even become deeper.” So that’s it. Your view on things is everything. Don’t think about the past, the past has happened. The future is in front of you, you will never know what will happen. So try your best to stay in present with your thoughts. The present is the only time where you can change something, where you can handle. The only time where you can truly be happy remember that
Life isn’t simple. It isn’t easy. But when you reach your goal, even when you get a little closer to your dreams, it feels amazing. I’ve made a list, of my goals. Most to least important. I am working on it for 2 months and I haven’t reached my goal jet. I’m closer than I’ve ever been before. Ive failed many times. Because I wasn’t focused. But that doesn’t matter now. I always finde my motivation. Just keep smiling.
There is literally nothing in nature that blooms all year long, so do not expect yourself to do so.
Everyone has bad days, remember this quote.
you don’t have to change your life overnight, but try to add good things to it each day
Unknown
That’s it. When you practice everyday a little more, and you start seeing results. It will become more than an habit. You’ll be addicted to see more results. For example, you’re trying being more positive. And once you feel happier, then people tell you that they see you being happier. They like being around you, because they feel happier too. Believe me, you can’t stop once you see results.✨
Don’t ever stop believing in your own personal transformation. It’s still happening even on the days when you may not realize it, or feel like it.
Lalah Delia
Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does.
William James
Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habit. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.
Lao Tuz
Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it
When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.
Helen Keller
started a little stream of conciousness and it came out rather reassuring so i felt like i’d share. i know it seems like a lot to read but it really might help
here’s some art i did today
Last week i was at a party and there was this girl who looked really pretty. I was a little drunk so i poked her softly and told her she was pretty and it was honestly the best thing i’ve done that week. Her eyes sparkled and she smiled really beautiful. She couldn’t believe it and turned a little bit red.
Sometime little things can light up the day of someone else. So be nice and make others smile even by doing something small.
Her smile was worth it.
No one else cares for your success (as much as their own) so you have to care. You have to force yourself to get up early, you have to force yourself to turn your phone off and revise, you have to force yourself to workout, you have to care for the whole world because no one else cares until they start seeing results. And they won’t ever see your results if you don’t care enough first. It’s your life, they are your goals, your dreams, it will be your success but it has to be your effort and your work first and foremost x
THIS
Just because the days are repetitive at the moment, it does not mean you are not still making progress. You are not wasting your life. You still have time.