#bekind
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Toddlers are so pure. She doesn’t understand that we help her with certain things because she’s little. She thinks that everyone just helps each other like that. So she tries to blow on my food and cut it up for me and tries to help me put on my shoes.
i was giving little wagon rides to a baby around the backyard one day and all of a sudden she hops off and slaps the seat of the wagon telling me to get on because it was my turn and i was like no it’s ok im too heavy and she was like NO ITS UR TURN and kept tugging on my hand so i would sit down. eventually i got on and it was just a little 2 year old trying so hard to push me around on a wagon not understanding why it wouldn’t budge but still so determined to let me have my turn lol
I don’t think I’d realised how many casual compliments we pay to our toddler until she started casually complimenting us back, because experience has taught her that’s How Social Interaction Is Done, and there’s nothing quite like a very earnest three-year-old solemnly and sincerely informing you that you look wonderful and smell nice to make you feel really good about yourself
I tell her she’s my best girl. She tells me I’m her best auntie. Then we both feel good about the world!
Teach them kindness.
be kind.
juyeonrk:
juyeon only hopesshe vibes with her solo song. luda was right. she couldn’t imagine being given a song that she hated. it would be hard to debut with a song that doesn’t feel like yours. after all, people liked authenticity. not liking something, not vibing with it, not connecting with it would be a dead giveaway. juyeon sometimes likes to imagine what her solo might actually sound like. she hopes it’s cool, maybe a little more boyish than feminine. she doesn’t want to get her hopes up orvisualize it too much. just in case of it being polar opposite to what she visions. but still, she knows she would begrateful for whatever she was given. after all, it would behers.
the casting call, asking for girl crush had juyeon on the edge of her seat. girl crush was more her thing than pure and sweet. it has her a little hopeful for the future of the group. maybe she really would have a place in heartz, somewhere. “i can’t believe we’re at this point already! it feels like we all just started practicing our first evaluation.” juyeon exclaims, resting her head atop of a fist. she sighs. “but hearing they want girls who can do girl crush has me feeling a little betterabout this in the long run.” she adds with a smile.knowing sphere, they would end up surprising not only the girls, but fans and everyone else inbetween.
there probably was a method to their picks, but juyeonhadn’tthe brain power to connect their dots. to her, the picks were random and left her on the edge of her seat. it was funthat way, but also a little stressful, especially since her future was on the line. “yeah,maybe!” juyeon shrugs. “i mean, at least we’re not heavily criticized at the end of every eval, right?” most evaluations, at the end of them at least, were usually met with some form of criticism. juyeon was used to biting her tongue and trying not to jump orstumble at the slightest bit of tension, even if it wasn’t at her. “i think that’s why it’s hard to see what comes next. well, at least that’s how it is for me.”
Indeed it felt like they’d just started practising together a couple weeks ago, but here they were. Changing images, she thought, could both make or break the group, people either liking all the different styles or being disappointed that they strayed from what one liked. Personally, she liked changes like these, finding them much more interesting.
“I’m sure hoping for the best,” she said, careful not to say anything that could potentially give the other too much hope, as nothing was really certain when it came to the debuts. If at least twelve girls had been chosen first, it would only be a matter of who getting which solo, but like this… who knew. “I hope they can see in you what I see,” she smiled.
“It’s always more than enough criticism though,” she made a face. Of course, criticism was important to improve, but as a rather sensitive person, it wasn’t easy for her to deal with, sometimes having kept her up at night, though this didn’t only count for Sphere, but in general.
“I can’t tell at all either. Do they criticise those most, that already have been chosen or who they are considering? Or are they simply criticising most where most is due?” Looking behind the scenes really would be interesting, though she also felt as though there were many things she didn’t really want to know.
Sad to hear that Trans icon April Ashley passed away on 27 Dec, aged 86. A former model, she was one of the first British people to undergo gender reassignment in the early ‘60’s. Outed by the press, her marriage annulment in 1969 on the grounds that she had been born a man and therefore couldn’t legally marry one, had consequences for Transwomen in the UK for decades; only getting overturned when the Gender Recognition Act was passed into law in 2004. RIP.
One in three trans people are bi+ ️⚧️
(via@biresourcecenter)
please, please and please.