#dissociation
nothing is real, there are no consequences
i’m never not dreaming, reality doesn’t exist to me
do you feel safe here?
Cyril recovers in anonymity for a week, relearning how to accept Esme’s presence even as their body relearns how to handle comfort. They spend long, lazy mornings in bed, twining first fingers with their fiancé, and then sometimes words, soft and slow and never quite winding around to where Cyril has been, what they have done, or what happened that day five years ago. Instead, they lean into Esme’s loose and ready words, pressing gently - gently is all it takes, with him - to hear what he has been up to since they’ve been gone.
His father’s business is flourishing. Esme is taking on more responsibility, being groomed to take over when Armani D'Angelo eventually - not soon, but inevitably - steps back from the forefront of operations. Cyril offers encouragement and interest, and Esme requires little prodding to continue to allow them to steer the conversation back to his life. Five years leave many tales untold, and Esme is - has always been - eager to share every moment with his love.
One pale evening as the dying light flares in a last attempt at silver-gold, Cyril tries for the first time to begin the monumental task of giving him their own five years. They haven’t spoken yet that day, trying to store up enough words to give Esme enough of a piece to feel like a beginning.
You know what breaks my heart? The fact that so many protectors in DID systems did downright heroic shit protecting the host as a child, but all the singlets want to see is an ol “evil split personality” stereotype.
Like… Of course I wish all of you lovely people didn’t have to be adults in like a 5 yo body just cause the outside world adults were monsters, but damn, man, I’ve seen so many protectors who bust their ass trying to keep the system together, and that deserves so much acknowledgment and praise.
Things Fictional Introjects are:
- A real and valid part of having DID/OSDD.
- Dissociated parts, just like the rest of their system.
- Created by trauma, stress, overwhelming experiences, or the system’s inability to integrate new materials into existing alters/parts.
- Centered around a “substitute belief” and can be based on characters and media that you have no strong attachment to or may not even like.
- Worthy of the same care and support everyone in the system deserves.
- Capable of growth beyond their source material.
Things Fictional Introjects are not:
- The same thing as “kins” or “kinning” with something.
- Createdjustby liking, identifying with, being strongly attached to, or being attracted to a character.
- A completely different “type” of alter that should be treated differently than the rest of the system.
- An exact copy of their source.
- Incapable of growing beyond their source.
[ This post is about Fictional Introjects as experienced by people with DID and OSDD. Please keep reblogs and replies relevant to DID/OSDD and dissociative experiences. ]
that dissociation feel when your eyes unfocus, everything goes fuzzy and every sound your hear is muffled, distorted and changing frequencies and you don’t even know if you’re real anymore