Not getting a match? Keep swiping.

Went on a date and it sucked? Keep swiping.

Went on a date and it was great but it’s been a few days and you haven’t heard from them? Keep swiping.

A big part of me really hates the never-ending swipe - it’s problematic to modern dating. But the unfortunate truth is, it’s also really helpful when you feel stuck in a dating rut. 

“You can stop swimming now, Lily. We finally reached the shore.”

It Ends With Us,Colleen Hoover

I love sharks and whale sharks are super duper cute and now you can carry a tiny one with you!! This little guy is available on my Etsy ❤️

Seriously, I had multiple Finding Dory band-aids across my butt today so I didn’t stain my dress :( 

Finding Dory, the sequel to Finding Nemo, is coming out today, June 17th 2016. A few years ago, Finding Nemo was such a massive success that it drove demand for pet clownfish through the roof, and resulted in hurting the wild population, instead of fostering an appreciation for marine animals in their natural habitats. Over 90% of the clownfish sold came from the big, blue sea! Let’s avoid doing the exact same thing with Dory, shall we?

The case of Dory, or the case of blue tangs, is a bit different from clownfish. A “Finding Nemo effect” and a similar pet-trade boom could have catastrophic results for this species.

First of all, blue tangs aren’t bred in captivity. Blue tangs are pelagic spawners, meaning that they need sufficient space to breed and mate in mid-water columns. Once the eggs are hatched in captivity, it is extremely difficult to keep them alive. This means that every blue tang you will see in tanks or at the pet store has been taken from the wild. 

Second of all, chances are they were taken illegally.Regulations and their enforcement vary from country to country, but live saltwater fish like Dory are too often illegally collected using sodium cyanide as a liquid stun gun. For clownfish, scientists have witnessed local extinctions in areas they were collected in, and to the destruction of reefs and other species with this method.

Moreover, very little is actually known about the species. Subsequently, researchers don’t know if the blue tang population would be able to withstand increased demand after the movie release.

Behavioral ecologist Culum Brown works on fish cognition and welfare, and he reveals what is known about the species in an interview with NPR:

“You’ll be shocked to discover that we actually know very little about cognition in blue tangs. Correction … make that nothing. But that is true for the vast majority of the 32+ thousand species of fish out there.

"We know that their skin reflects light at 490nm (deep blue) and they tend to get lighter at night (this is under hormone control). They have very sharp spines on either side of their tail which erect when [the fish are] frightened. They have a huge distribution (Indo-Pacific) but are under threat from illegal collection. They graze algae on coral reefs, which is a very important job because it prevents the corals from being over-grown.”

So what can you do to save Nemo and Dory?

If you must have a clownfish in your tank, make sure it was bred sustainably in captivity and not taken from the wild. As for having a Dory, you get it, it’s a big no-no. Keep Dory on the reef.

The aquarium industry harvests more than 1 million clownfish from their natural habitats every year so they can be sold as pets. This overharvesting, along with other stressors like global warming, is likely leading to the depletion of clownfish populations in places like the Philippines and the Great Barrier Reef.

Captive breeding has proved to be a sustainable alternative that can meet the demands for ornamental fish like Nemo, without hurting the reef’s populations. Tank Watchis also an app that helps you identify the captive-bred (good) from the wild-caught (bad) fish. 

While you go out and see this movie over the weekend, remember to educate yourself on the many species represented (including a whale shark and a beluga whale!). Many of them are under some sort of threat in the wild. All of these species are better off out in the sea, so if you fall in love with one of them and instead of taking Dory out of the ocean, I hope you moviegoers will support research, education and conservation!

Finding Luca

I loved this movie

Instagram: @wandering_nicky

It’s been thirteen years since wee clownfish Nemo first waggled his little mismatched fins our way, and frankly a sequel feels long overdue.

The original ended with eponymous Nemo found and rescued all happily and whatnot (spoilers? Whatever, it’s been over a decade so get over it) so the sequel swims its way in a different direction, following lovable sidekick (and arguably the real star of the original) Dory and her quest to get reunited with her parents.

It’s a good idea to spin the focus from Marlin to Dory in the second outing, and Ellen Degeneres is great in the role; enthusiastic, loveable, sweet and funny. Her personality captures all of the traits of our sapphire heroine beautifully.

Her mission to find her long lost (and almost forgotten, obviously, because it’s Dory) family helps to wrap together everything we associate with all the good bits in the Pixar cannon: adventure, fun, humour and warmth, and as Pixar sequels go it’s thankfully more Toy Story than Cars.

Ok, so I will admit that it doesn’t really have the same emotional punch as its predecessor, but it’s nonetheless an enjoyable sequel that’s sweet and funny enough to keep fans of the original just happy enough.

☆☆☆.5

PS baby Dory is freaking adorable.