[ID: two different polyamory pride flags with the active wheelchair user symbol in the center. the first is the older/more classic blue, red, and black flag with the gold pi symbol and the second is the pink, purple, and white flag with the infinity heart. the active wheelchair user symbol color has been coordinated with the flag color scheme and the center stripe has been widened to underlay the entire symbol.
a banner at the bottom reads “do not interact if: ableist, anti-BLM, anti-LGBTQ+, exclusionist, cgl (as a kink), (no)map, nsfw, racist, terf/swerf, transmed, or have a problem with Mod I’s dyslexic ass using Comic Sans because he needs to read what he’s typing here.” end ID]
[image description: there is a stick person lying in bed with a blush on their face and hearts around their head with a thought bubble that says “polyamorous sapphics” next to them. end id.]
I’ve been in the poly scene for about 5 years now and I want to make something absolutely clear to any old timers and up and comers.
There is NO WAY* to do poly wrong.
Some poly centric communities would have people believe there is only one way to do poly.
These communities are toxic cess pools who exist exclusively for sexual gratification.
That is not what poly is.
If you are uncertain about what poly is, allow me to direct you to the following:
Can you form a romantic bond with more than one individual? Then you are poly
That’s it. That’s the whole thing. Anything beyond that is personal preference and open communication.
* Unless of course you’re not communicating or lying. Then it’s not poly. It’s called cheating. And you’re an asshole.
A solid point. Wanted to share and add. There is not wrong way to do poly, only unhealthy or toxic behaviors. These exist in all form of relationships. Rock on my poly folk.
I’ve started posting on #webtooncanvas ! If you like my bebs go have a look! As always, thank you so much for your support ily uwu • • • #webtoon #wlw #polyam #triad #asexual #comic #webcomic #witches #magic #fantasy #sliceoflifechallenge #sliceoflife #supernatural (at Lebanon County, Pennsylvania) https://www.instagram.com/p/COaf_dKnDYy/?igshid=rt8cbwsb6s96
I’m traveling without my Farm Girl and I admit its taking a toll. It’s been a really big week for Farm Girl and I’m so proud of the things she’s doing and accomplishing but I also wish very much I was at home to snuggle and love on her and show her just how very proud I am of her bravery and self-empowerment.
Colorado isn’t bad. I love to travel. This trip is just particularly hard. And that’s the price of polyamory at times, not being able to be in two places at once.
I’m looking forward to getting back home with little old Wisconsin and my farmer girl.
Exclusive Cover Reveal: In the City of Time by Gwendolyn Clare
Exclusive Cover Reveal: In the City of Time by Gwendolyn Clare
Today on the site we’re revealing the cover of Gwendolyn Clare’s speculative YA, In the City of Time, which releases from Feiwel & Friends on November 29th and stars two queer POV characters, one pansexual and polyamorous and the other a trans lesbian! Here’s the story: In 1891, Willa Marconi’s life falls apart when her mentor at the University of Bologna unexpectedly dies, but Willa refuses to…
…..so I think my fiancé, @kattylovesreylo , and I had a date with a friend of ours tonight???? Like…..both of us have said multiple times if we weren’t together that we’d date him and we’ve also joked that if we were poly that he’d be our third. We’ve even joked about that to him and he said he’d be “honored.” He’s been very complimentary towards us and our looks and personalities. Tonight he came over and he brought us a gift of alcohol and he also made us drinks??? And I made us all dinner???? Was this a date???? Omg tumblr please. HAAALLLLLPPPPP
