I always feel guilty that I dont reach out to past friends… but then I realize it’s a two way street, I’m not solely responsible to keep a relationship alive.

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love yourself for your flaws, not in spite of them.

i have never loved bits and pieces of a person, wishing i could just discard the rest. my love is whole, given to an entire person, everything included. our flaws and our beauty come together as a package, inseparable; no one should ever be expected to sieve out parts of themselves for anyone else.

in truth, it’s the tiny imperfections that make a person who they are. i find it endearing that my boyfriend often speaks just a little too loud indoors, or that he beats an egg with a spoon (why not use a fork you big buffoon?). i love how my best friend fails to notice details and is one big unobservant, gullible mess, because it makes surprising her so much easier.

and in turn, i try to give that same love to myself, for all of my curves and divets i wish i could just trim off, for my clumsy hands that are always capable of breaking something (always), for the chaotic but beautiful mind i can never seem to switch off. i love myself wholeheartedly, and that includes all of my flaws, each and every one of them.

remember that you don’t have to accept things you are not okay with.

you are still learning, growing and healing. you are more than enough, and that’s what really matters :)

you deserve peace.

walk away from people or things that prevent you from attaining it. ♡

it’s okay to miss who you once were while still being excited about who you are becoming ♡

self-love begins when you realize that you, too, deserve to be happy :)

to anyone feeling unloved, I love you ! ♡

there is hope and positivity around every corner of the day. it’s always there, you just have to look ! :)

I want to be surrounded by people who can reciprocate the same love and support that I have to offer ♡

you are not a failure no matter what your head tells you ! ♡

hi guys!! sorry i’ve been a bit absent, i just wanted to ask you all, what’s one positive thing that happened to you today?

i’ll go first, i bought strawberries today got the first time in 2 months!! i was very excited about them

hi here’s your daily reminder that life and recovery aren’t linear, there are no set times in life that you have to achieve things by. society obsesses over the idea of a perfect life, but that’s complete nonsense, everyone’s life is different and everyone’s life is beautiful.

hiiii so it’s megan, i’m hoping to be back on here more regularly and i just wanted to ask what you guys wanted to see from this blog any suggestions are welcome

i know that personally the start of this year was a bit of a mess, but i wanted to congratulate every single one of you for making it to 2021, even when things got tough we made it together and i hope we can find happiness and good things this year and make it to 2022 together

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✧･ﾟplaylists to help pass the time *:･✧

hi everyone! it’s been a while since i made a huge playlist masterpost, but i thought that right now when we’re all stuck inside wondering what to do with our time i would make a list of all my playlists. listening to music is so calming and definitely helps me pass the time…so enjoy! - cam

1. songs that remind me of a fashion show 
2. a mix of songs that remind me of driving down the coast 
3. a playlist dedicated to paris 
4. songs that inspire me 
5. a dreamy mix
6. songs to listen to when you feel carefree
7. a super fun workout/running playlist to keep you pumped up 
8. songs to listen to during golden hour 
9. a mix of songs to listen to on a sunny day 
10. a playlist full of songs that make me feel alive 
11. songs that remind me of my teenage years 
12. a study/coffee shop playlist to keep you calm 
13. songs to listen to on the weekend 
14. songs that make me feel like living in the moment 
15. a friday kinda mix !
16. songs that remind me of a warm spring evening 
17. a mix dedicated to nature 
18. my all-time favorite songs all in one playlist 
19. songs that remind me of flowers and sunshine 
20. a 12-hour long playlist of songs that make me feel nostalgic 
21. songs that remind me of going back to school 
22. my ultimate summertime playlist 
23. songs that make me feel like i’m in a movie 
24. upbeat songs to get ready to in the morning 
25. songs i’m currently loving & listening to right now
26. a playlist dedicated to italy and all its wonders 
27. songs that are soft and delicate 
28. a mix to listen to while watching the sunrise / sunset 
29. a playlist for a rainy and stormy day 
30. songs to listen to when you wake up ! 
31. another nature playlist because why not?! 
32. a monday playlist to make your monday more enjoyable 
33. my springtime playlist 
34. songs that are bittersweet 
35. my girl power anthems playlist 
36. for the daydreamers 
37. songs that remind me of the spirit of traveling & exploring 
38. a mix to listen to before bed 
39. songs to listen and dance to in your kitchen 
40. a super fun 70s playlist 
41. relaxing songs for a sunday 
42. songs that remind me of wintertime 
43. for people who love the east coast 
44. for people who love the west coast 
45. a mix of lo fi beats 
46. songs to listen to in your car at night 
47. fresh finds (new songs every monday!)
48. the ultimate sing along playlist 
49. an indie playlist 
50. the perfect road trip / daily commute mix 
51. a super studious playlist to keep you extra focused 
52. songs that remind me of the beach 
53. a mix of songs to listen to when you’re j chillin
54. songs that remind me of a trip to outer space !
55. listen to this when you’re in love 
56. songs for stargazing…
57. the perfect autumn playlist 
58. songs that make my heart flutter 
59. a mix of carefree & happy tunes 
60. the grooviest 80s playlist around 
61. a mix of golden oldies 
62. listen to this if you like rap / r&b 
63. another workout playlist !
64. a mix of fun, upbeat songs to dance to 
65. a playlist inspired by call me by your name
66. a coming of age playlist 
67. a mix of songs that deserve more hype 
68. songs for all the main characters out there 
69. a mix inspired by the king harry styles
70. songs that make me feel angelic 
71. a dark academia playlist 
72. a spooky halloween mix !
73. a playlist inspired by dystopian novels
74. a special cottagecore playlist 
75. a light academia playlist
76. songs to listen to while looking at the moon

hi cuties it’s been a while hasn’t it! i’ve been talking briefly to a lovely person who has spent so much time creating spotify playlists that people enjoy!! i’d really appreciate it if you guys would give it a listen and boost this post

i am hoping that at some point throughout these next few months i can start posting on here again and get to know you guys a bit better

a quick reminder

hey guys i know everyone is talking about all the amazing things they’re going to do and learn in isolation. i just want to remind you all that if the only thing you can do some days is get out of bed that’s ok. you don’t have to accomplish something spectacular, just existing and being alive is enough.

you’re doing amazing and i’m so proud of you.

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It’s that time of year again! Do not feel compelled to spend time with family if you feel that they are toxic. You do get to choose who you allow in your life. You can always choose what’s best for you, never forget that ❤️ And as the year comes to an end, I hope that your boundaries will be respected and you’ll have some peace. A new year is coming, a new chapter in your life, let’s make it great!

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you got through everything you thought you weren’t strong enough for

✨ You can & will get through so much more! You will be okay ✨