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paradise-was-always-lost:

I really hate having to ask, but I’m desperate. My first post lost traction so I’m starting anew. I have a job but it pays minimum wage and my stepdad has been stealing 50% of each of my paycheck since I was 16, for “rent.” He is physically and verbally abusive and makes my mental illnesses a million times worse. I cannot transition at all while in this house. If I put on makeup or fem clothes he screams how I’m a p*ssy or a f*ggot and threatens to kick me out on the streets. He slaps me around when he gets drunk, which is happening more and more often. I know it’s the holidays, but if someone could help me fund a safe living situation, it would be the best present I ever received. If you cannot donate, please share this post so it can reach people who can.

https://paypal.me/lizvren?country.x=CA&locale.x=en_US

I’m so sorry, I would donate if I could, but I don’t have anything to give. I really hope things get better.

counttfaggula:

trans gay men. you are not making it up. you are not “fetishing gay men”. you are not “a silly little girl”. you are allowed to love men. you are not dirty or lying or tricking anyone. it’s okay to love men. you are gay, and i love you.

depenismode:

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depenismode:

when t-rfs talk about “peaking” people what they’re talking about is grooming btw

they will for real dedicate/circulate entire threads detailing extremely specifically how to recruit people into their ideology, often through explicitly manipulative and sometimes even outright abusive means. they gloat and joke openly about doing it to friends and partners and coworkers and younger siblings and anonymously to young trans people on the internet. you see this happening pretty much everywhere regardless of whatever blog you’ve clicked on and are hate-reading, it’s integral to their entire ideology of which would probably honestly collapse without it yet they accuse trans people of being in a cult

look at any blog in the “des-sted dysphoric” community to see innumerable further examples of this. they wear that title like a badge, very conversion therapy-esque. i’ve seen these people openly discuss how to convince their trans male and transmasculine friends into detransitioning. threads upon threads of advice on how to do this. a lot of times they even journal about it on their blogs, like “omg my TIF friend wants top surgery how do i peak them asap”. this is innately unnatural and predatory behavior

sweetlydomme:

thats getting really boring now.

since you’re a pussy who won’t let me message you (i dont know why, since you said you’re not scared of me, even if you act like you are) i’m going to answer you here :)

i’m not a men. not being a women dosnt make me a men. you want me to use the term daddy? why? i can use daddy even if im not a men, but i can’t use mommy unless im a woman? what a shitty logic, dude.

chill out, its just a fucking tittle for horny times, my friend. why are you so bothered that my partners call me mommy in bed? lol, get a life and go find someone who would be willing to fuck your ugly body or something and leave people alone

YOU CAN PRY ME CALLING MYSELF A DILF OUT OF MY COLD DEAD, CHILDLESS ENBY HANDS

I’m never gonna be a good trans person to close-minded people who only have one idea about what transness should be. I’m always gonna like feminine things and I’m always gonna want to dress up in skirts and dresses. I don’t want to go on hormones or get top surgery. I don’t feel like a boy or a man, and yet I’ve found a new level of euphoria using he/him pronouns. I will always look like a woman and I accept that people are going to perceive me as one when they first meet me and as long as they respect my identity once I correct them, I’m fine with that. I don’t need validation from transmedicalists and I don’t need anyone to tell me whether or not they think I’m doing trans right. I am at peace being myself. For years I would picture my ideal form and I would picture a skinny androgynous person. Someone who was nothing like me. There’s always been a disconnect between the two- what I was and how I felt. I’ve spent so much of my life trying to be what others wanted me to be. First, I tried to be what I thought a woman should be: feminine, subdued, thin. I didn’t eat for a year, trying to become what people wanted me to be. And at the lowest point in my life, I got more compliments than ever before. Eventually, I got tired. I realized that life was so much more than being thin. I was unhappy and I didn’t care how fat I became I just wanted this to be over. So I got help. Around six months later, I realized I was nonbinary. And so I spent another year trying to be what I thought that was. I dressed masculinely and avoided clothing that showed my curves. I cut my hair short. I wore binders, even when no one else could see me. I thought I was happy. But my dysphoria persisted no matter what I did. I couldn’t shake the feeling that something was wrong. Now I wear princess dresses and elaborate makeup. I never leave the house without a pair of earrings. And I’m happier than ever. I used to try to justify my gender presentation. I compared it to drag and likened my femininity to putting on a performance. And in some ways, this is true. But femininity is so much more than that for me- it’s something I feel in my soul, inalienable from the rest of my being. My gender is complex and that’s okay. My gender is more than my presentation. My gender cannot be defined as female or male and cannot be put in a box of what androgyny should be. My gender is fluid and ever-changing and what makes me happy now will probably be different from what makes me happy in ten years. I have no plans on forcing myself into being one thing for the rest of my life. He/him pronouns make me happy right now, but in a year, I could identify more with she/her. But I’m done doing what I think I “should” do, or conforming to the expectations of whatever gender I identify with at the time. I am a biological female. I am nonbinary- not a man or a woman. I like color and bright things that make me happy. I like pink and I like to feel pretty. And when I look in the mirror, I’m the happiest I have ever been. Feminine, fat, nonbinary, and unapologetically me. My gender contains multitudes and so do I. And that’s something to celebrate.

Here’s some wonderful butch/femme relationships!! You all are loved

thats getting really boring now.

since you’re a pussy who won’t let me message you (i dont know why, since you said you’re not scared of me, even if you act like you are) i’m going to answer you here :)

i’m not a men. not being a women dosnt make me a men. you want me to use the term daddy? why? i can use daddy even if im not a men, but i can’t use mommy unless im a woman? what a shitty logic, dude.

chill out, its just a fucking tittle for horny times, my friend. why are you so bothered that my partners call me mommy in bed? lol, get a life and go find someone who would be willing to fuck your ugly body or something and leave people alone

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Free to use as long as u respect my dni <3

oh btw, if you misgender/deadname bad people who happen to be trans, your not only transphobic, but your also telling every single trans person around you that your respect for their identity is conditional, and that you are not a person that they can trust.

yes, even the despicable people.

i’m indeed aware my account gets constantly brigaded by terfs. i just want to say it’s never my intention to paint my community in a negative light, only to find girls who look and think like me, because all the visibility the hegemonic cisnormative culture will allow is of perfect, straight, passing girls. i don’t fit into that mold, neither do most of the girls i know, but we’re still valid, and still are women. i will, however, work towards including more diversity in my posts. 

also, please, if you’re following me, don’t to read the triggering comments or reply to them, your mental health is more important than owning a couple of basement dwelling bigots on the internet. terfs are nazis, literally, and arguing with them or reading their hateful posts is a waste of time. don’t let them live rent-free in your head, i know i don’t. terfs are narcissists in desperate need of supply, so don’t feed them any attention and they’ll go away.

sincerely,

your lovely autistic trans girl next-door

sundazesun:

trans “women” are men who are lying or deluding themselves.

No way! Expand your mind!


Men have invented SO many ways to be terrible! Autogynephilia, a sew of paraphelias…. shit I wish it was just cross dressing. Lets see if we can catch some :)

butchofthemoon:

just saw a post where someone put “detrans dni” and like… hey we should be supporting detransitioned people bc if we don’t terfs will

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