Saying that transgender men can identify as lesbians but cis men cannot reinforces the idea that trans men aren’t really men. That they’re some sort of subcategory of a man and that they’ll never be man enough. It’s just fucking transphobic. They’re men. Straight men. Not lesbians.
I’m a lesbian trans man and you can never take my identity away from me
Oh cool so you’re lesbophobic and transphobic alright.
Ugh no. I’m diagnosed as trans and I’m biologically female . I’m attracted to women.
You’re singlehandedly giving me depression.
Not everyone has to obey the label police. It’s transphobic to be telling me, a transman what identify as.
It’s transphobic and lesbophobic to claim you can be a man and a lesbian at the same time.
It’s actually TERF rhetoric to claim that transmen can be lesbians.
I mean they seem to be a TERF who doesn’t understand dysphoria at all
Can y’all stop forcing celebrities to have to say that they’re actually not non-binary and instead they’re just gnc.
Whenever a celebrity is gnc, instead of initially celebrating it, people are like ‘this celebrities comes out as non-binary? This celebrity is now trans?’
And then they have to explain that they don’t see clothing as guys clothing or girls clothing and they just want to wear whatever they want
And THEN people celebrate it, even though some people online think they just haven’t realized they’re trans yet.
With how minuscule the probability of someone being trans is, can people just appreciate the initial thought that a celebrity is breaking free of gender norms therefore helping younger kids realize they can be gnc too.
Let gnc people EXIST
Y'know, there’s actually quite a few sex researchers now who believe that the number of trans individuals is actually a lot lower than the current number. What they believe is that individuals are actually gnc, get depression when they aren’t accepted as a boy or a girl, and then develop body dysmorphia as a symptom of their depression. Which actually makes a lot of sense because some brain scans of trans individuals look like “this is the other gender’s brain,” but some brain scans look like “this is just a regular person with depression.”
I’m not saying that all transgender people are just gnc with bad experiences, but according to the research, a lot are. And this may be why the trans community has such high suicide rates. So instead of insisting that people are trans or bi when they do something that isn’t stereotypical of their gender (whether it’s wearing clothes, having a hobby, behaving Butch/effeminately) like people on this site are wont to do, you should just accept people like! they! are!
You’re not gonna like it when you find out about how the LGBT community treats cross dressers. People are actively witch hunting them, telling them they’re just in the closet because wearing a dress for fun totally means that you have to be a girl right??? It’s not like cross dressing is a performance similar to drag or cosplaying where people get dressed up and put on a different persona…
On another note, can we please stop with the “If you have to question if you’re trans, then you absolutely are trans, sweaty!!!” bullshit? Questioning our identity is how we solidify it and grow more comfortable with it. Pestering people that the slightest bit of doubt about their gender identity is undoubtedly evidence that they are trans, is just furthering their misery. You are not “saving” people, you are actively contributing to the raising numbers of detransitioner and suicide cases.
Cross dressing, drag, and gender non conformity, while it may have some ties, is not lgbt. People who identity with or participate in those things mentioned may be lgbt, but doing those things doesn’t make them lgbt.
So if a cis/het person wants to participate? Let them. They’re allowed. It’s not rude or ignorant or appropriation. They’re not hurting anyone by having fun like the rest of the people there. Stop forcing them to think they’re something they’re not.
that’s terf rhetoric fam sorry :/ saying that a lot of trans people are just gnc ppl being pressured into being trans :// is like PEAK terf rhetoric :/ you’re a terf now :/ sorry :/
If you take a quick peak at my blog you’d see I absolutely despise TERFs.
Nothing wrong with being confused and thinking you’re trans, happens to plenty of people and hey gender identity can be weird and difficult.
It’s toxic to pressure GNC/crossing dressers to identify as trans. I’m not saying most trans people are that case, but there are handfuls of people who are simply just a non conforming cis person. That’s okay. Nothing wrong with it at all.
I love trolling TERFs and watching them fall for it. Y’all asked for it by interacting and here we are. Cry about it LMAOO. Merry Christmas to me this is amazing.
How about instead of putting trans women in men’s prisons we put TERFs in there instead.
That’s so funny! Putting women in spaces with dangerous men rather than men who call themselves ladies?? Could you imagine the hilarity when a female inmate gets raped to death by a crowd of biological males because she committed the sin of knowing where babies come from? I can’t contain my laughter isn’t male violence against women so funny when it’s being used as a punishment against women you don’t like??
@enbycourse can you elaborate on why you believe rape is a suitable punishment for women you disagree with?
OP can’t elaborate, the unshowered entity is too busy calling other trannoids invalid and trying to fuck Kalvin Garrah probably
I don’t like Kalvin Garrah. Also your response made my day being called a trannoid is so funny. What other “insults” do you guys have? I love hearing them they’re hilarious.
Also never said they deserve to be raped. You just want to be a victim. Maybe don’t be a disgusting piece of scum? You wanna put women in prisons but wahhh wahhh the mean tranny said the same thing about me
How about instead of putting trans women in men’s prisons we put TERFs in there instead.
Ugly ass terf bitches please keep getting angry at this post it’s my current source of joy seeing you useless transphobic cunts pissed
ur misogyny is showing luv x
I don’t hate women. I hate TERFs. Y’all just happen to be really shitty women.
If hating a group of horrible people is misogynistic because you happen to all be women, then you’re a misogynistic as well since you guys hate transgender women. A trans misogynist, specifically.
How about instead of putting trans women in men’s prisons we put TERFs in there instead.
Ugly ass terf bitches please keep getting angry at this post it’s my current source of joy seeing you useless transphobic cunts pissed
You’re right. This is exactly what I wanted. Seeing this many angry terfs in my notifications is a Christmas miracle. You guys are awful people so seeing this brings me so much joy. Stay mad.
Out of curiosity, how many transmeds here actually believe that you need debilitating gender dysphoria in order to be a valid transgender person. Tucutes always explain transmedicalism to me (a transmed) by saying we think that you need to absolutely hate yourself to be seen as valid. I know I don’t believe that and I don’t think any of you (minus possible radicals, but radicals are always shit) actually think that.
July 5th, 2021: A TERF-run historical girlboss account mysteriously fails to mention the French Resistance killed Violette Morris because they were a fucking Nazi.
Terfs are all basically Nazis now, is the takeaway.
All terfs are, and have anyways been, racists, sexists, eugenicists, and nazis.
I probably shouldn’t be surprised about this, but a lot of people missing the point here. the joke isn’t “terfs calling Sigourney weaver, a hot woman, unattractive” and tbh I think seeing this post and going “terfs are so stupid because Sigourney weaver is obviously gorgeous” is even potentially harmful or at least hurtful
the joke here is terfs seeing a picture of Sigourney Weaver, famous actress and cis woman, but because they were told its a picture of a trans woman they’re immediately yakking about how ‘clockable’ she is
Our system is probably going to be having a conversation with our doctor about starting T for some of the issues we’ve been dealing with and are like 98% sure we are going to start it and like, our system is a group of nerds and like to be prepared due to both memory issues and just enjoying being over the top.
So Riku was doing some literature reading on HRT, PCOS, general practices, and a lot of the minutia on how things work with T and then like highlighted things from the general practices for me to fill in since I am the part that feels the most raw blunt of the dysphoria and jesus christ
I’ve been writing it for an hour and half and keep having to take time away to stop writing ever so often so I don’t fully spiral into a dysphoria driven breakdown when I am just factually reporting the facts. Our system types at like 60-80 wpm and don’t really need to think when we are writing things down since we write a lot. I’m reaching two hours and we are at like, 1000 words. Like we are at like 1/10th the usual speed of writing cause I keep stopping to try not to barf.
I’m mostly alright, because honestly, this is nothing compared to how badly this has been murdering me for the past like, two months or so - but I really, really don’t have time or space for people that think I should just live like this because of their god or because…. the patriarchy????
Literally you are either a transactivist / ally / supporter / etc, or you are pro fucking suicide. And I’m sorry, but if you are in support of children, teens, adults and people in general killing themselves for things that are relatively easy to manage for any stupid reason, then you are honestly a piece of shit person and really deserve no respect.
This is literally just the same “hate the sin love the sinner” shit I saw for decades from religious conservatives that tried to claim they didn’t hate gay people just disagreed with the Gay Agenda.
It’s what happens when you reduce an aspect of people’s lives to an ideology. Trans people aren’t an ideology, we’re people with a totally disperate set of beliefs and ideologies. The only thing that ties all of us together is being trans, something it seems like all of us have a different idea and concept of. Unlike terfs who do have a coherent political ideology. It’s a way of deflecting the cognitive dissonance of bigotry against a group from people who see themselves as against bigotry. A way to turn their bigotry against a marginalized group into an ideological conflict.
Is also reads like “I can’t be racist I have a black friend!”
since you’re a pussy who won’t let me message you (i dont know why, since you said you’re not scared of me, even if you act like you are) i’m going to answer you here :)
i’m not a men. not being a women dosnt make me a men. you want me to use the term daddy? why? i can use daddy even if im not a men, but i can’t use mommy unless im a woman? what a shitty logic, dude.
chill out, its just a fucking tittle for horny times, my friend. why are you so bothered that my partners call me mommy in bed? lol, get a life and go find someone who would be willing to fuck your ugly body or something and leave people alone
YOU CAN PRY ME CALLING MYSELF A DILF OUT OF MY COLD DEAD, CHILDLESS ENBY HANDS
seeing some Bad comparisons in my notes so I gotta make something clear.
reading Dracula does not give support to the author. he is dead. he cannot make money off your enjoyment of the novel, it is in the public domain!! it is also a really important historical novel, and reading it bit by bit is a great opportunity to really analyse it, including the biases present in the novel that are still prevalent in modern depictions of vampires. reading it gives the skills to spot things like antisemitism in modern media, as well as just a general good context for the beginnings of this genre
reading Harry Potter directly supports jk rowling. she is still fully alive and profits off any financial or verbal support you give her books. she then funnels that directly into removing the rights of actual transgender people. those books are also not historically important, and there are a million other similar books that are better
Petition to refer to TERFs as FARTs, which stands for Feminist Appropiating Reactionary Tranaphobe
“Trans-Exclusionary-Radical-Feminist,” when you think about it, is a VERY kind term. To be called a TERF is for the person to admit that they still consider you a feminist.
But what kind of feminist excludes so many women from their movement? If you hate so many women for what they are, you really don’t deserve to be called anykind of feminist, radical or otherwise.
Anti-trans people: Stop calling us terfs it’s insulting
fattyatomicmutant, about to coin a new term: ‘K
Feminist Appropiating Reactionary Transphobe is far far more accurate too.
ima just spread this
I’m legitimately going to use this, everyone hop on board, we have to do this
FARTs, unfollow me!!
I like this new term better. It accurately captures the implicit bigotry of excluding trans people while also not dignifying hateful people with the epithet “feminist”, which they do not deserve.
since you’re a pussy who won’t let me message you (i dont know why, since you said you’re not scared of me, even if you act like you are) i’m going to answer you here :)
i’m not a men. not being a women dosnt make me a men. you want me to use the term daddy? why? i can use daddy even if im not a men, but i can’t use mommy unless im a woman? what a shitty logic, dude.
chill out, its just a fucking tittle for horny times, my friend. why are you so bothered that my partners call me mommy in bed? lol, get a life and go find someone who would be willing to fuck your ugly body or something and leave people alone
Reminder that if you think people can’t become intersex/perisex through medical transition you believe to the TERF/GC conception of sex as an immutable thing and/or that you are defined by your natal characteristics and not by your present material characteristics (again a GC/TERF thing) you basically align yourself with their beliefs.
It’s important to note that believing Intersex is immuable, knowing that intersex is relative to male and female also imply male and female are immutable things.
Sex & intersex aren’t static, unchangables but rather things that can be modified with our consent or not. Refering to medically transitioned trans ppl who were born perisex as perisex is materially false and sex-statism (GC/TERF belief) and imply for a trans woman that she is still a male and for a trans man that he still a female.
Medically transitioned trans ppl no loger have their perisex privilege since they no longer have sexual characteristics that corresponds to typical binary definitions of male or female.
We have terfs who admit that ace discourse was their first step towards radfem ideas. We’ve had multiple break downs of how terfs and radfems try to radialize other people by using ace/bi/pan/nb/queer/etc. discourse. We’ve had multiple break downs of how popular exclusionist arguments use the same faulty logic and arguments that radfems use.
Can exclusionists maybe finally admit that this is a problem and either drop the discourse entirely or try to come up with arguments that aren’t copied from radfems?
This is really important to recognize, because exclusionists don’t often want to recognize this dirty little truth about their community.
note how the “queer is(always)a slur (and should never be used, even to talk about yourself or the queer community or queer academia)” nonsense is directly mentioned as point 2 on the aphobe to TERF pipeline
TERFs really out here thinking that male privilege comes from like. The overwhelming aura of the penis and being told not to wear skirts as a kid, and not the fact that manhood is an in-group that trans women are absolutely stricken from.
Male privilege comes from men in power treating me with respect and, well, privilege. And sweetie, that’s not something that happens once they catch the scent of tranny on me. I am not going to be hired before a cis woman. I am not going to be allowed to talk over men, god forbid cis women. I am not going to get a “boys will be boys” if I hurt someone, because the minute I challenged my own manhood I turned in that “boy” card.
Maybe I do act “manly” sometimes. Let’s assume that for argument. The fact is, even if I did that, I do not have patriarchy backing me up; I’m just a not-man not-woman that no one will defend if I step out of line.
Funny thing about this post is a couple of TERFs got their hands on it and apparently the best argument they can come up with is “You fucking moron, work discrimination and sexual harassment isn’t sexism, REAL sexism is seat belts and doorknob heights.”
To be clear, I am certain that they don’t actually believe that sexual harassment doesn’t matter but doorknob heights do, they’re just consciously trying to define feminism in such a way as to exclude trans women which results in them focusing on either stuff that has specifically to do with vaginas (which to be clear our society has a ton of issues to do with ppl with vaginas, but that’s only one facet of feminism) or grasping at straws to assign the highest importance to skeletal structure.
One of them in the notes even slipped up and blamed office thermometers on “xy skeletal structures” which is like. First of all that skeletal structure is associated with testosterone during puberty, second of all bone structure??? You genuinely believe it has to do with bone structure and not hormones and body fat distribution? They don’t, of course, but they know that’s something that trans women have in common with cis women so their ideology of “you can’t change biology” requires that they pretend it doesnt exist.
It’s just so clear as to be comical that TERFs define what feminist issues they do and do not care about by whether or not they can be used to draw a line between them and trans women.
