i swear to sappho, i really do be acting like the toughest wlw in my city, then my gf comes into the picture and suddenly cant help but yearn that she runs her fingers through my hair and cuddle
HEY FAM ❤ I’m sorry but I have to take a break from this blog for a little while. I have serious financial and health issues going on. Every single one of you that has reached out over the last six months; I consider a true life friendo ❤ I really do. I call you all fam, cuz if you’ve never seen me mention it; I don’t have any family of my own. Take care of eachother. Be kind to people; you never know what they’re up against. And if you want to contribute to my work, or even just my wellbeing; contact me here. I’ll check msgs, and I’ll be back soon; but not for a little while. I have to take care of stupid, unfair life stuff.
Jeremy; A Voice Of My Own
Yes I’m crying, love you all ❤
Oh and NORD’s album officially dropped ❤ super happy for this dork
N Very Best you should go check them out!
Ken Funaki played Shizusumi in Kizu Natsuki’s live stage production of Given He’s an incredible dancer and has the voice of an angel !!
You’re really missing out on some funny and cool ish if you’re not following him just saying.
Sunaga Futa is super excited for the Given live stage 2 day event coming up ❤ Of course he is!! I’ve missed him
Also^^Nakagawa Taishi is my new fave person❤
Since I said before I’d write a review on some his movies, but won’t be able to now; I figured I should at least mention him, before I go.
He does a wickedly sexy Kibutsuji Muzan^^
Today’s Kira Kun was a million times better than the manga, for his performance! You should go watch that and ReLife!! Since they’re no longer on streaming services; you can find them in full length and decent quality, on YouTube
Current status til further notice so wish me luck…
We talk a lot about “mental health,” but what can we actually DO about it?
Luckily, it’s #MentalHealthAction Day, so we’ve got some ideas:
Remind yourself that you and your identity are valid, no matter what anyone else may think. Understand that coming out, choosing a label, or transitioning is a journey that you don’t have to figure out all at once! Reach out to a friend, guidance counselor, or trusted teacher when you feel like you can’t handle everything yourself (online friends count)! Put the phone down and do something you love when the news gets too overwhelming - to be good activists, we have to fill our cup first! Take a walk, pat a pet, put on your favorite outfit, listen to your favorite song, say no to something you can’t take on right now - “self care” shouldn’t have to cost money. Save and share the Get Help page on our website and in our bio - a database of over 1,000 orgs that support LGBTQ+ youth around the country that you can filter by issue and location. Watch hundreds of It Gets Better stories on our Youtubeand TikTokto remind yourself that there are plenty of people who have been where you are right now, and it gets better.
And tune in live tonight on our TikTok at 8pm EST/5pm PST for an interview with queer artist X. ARI as we chat about how music can impact your mental health! ️
Since@inafried started #Letters4TransKids in defiance of this recent wave of anti-trans and LGBTQ+ legislation, we knew we HAD to write one, too! Read the letter from our ED, Brian Wenke, and join in to write your own letter using the hashtag #Letters4TransKids:
“Dear Rockstar,
Adults seem to have an easy time forgetting what it’s like to be young. I am dumbfounded daily by the vitriol adults are purposely casting at LGBTQ+ youth, particularly our beloved trans community.
Despite what may appear to be a rising tide of negative sentiment directed at you and your peers, I can’t help but see it as the dying breath of an outdated form of conditioning. We’ve been here before. It won’t last, but it won’t go down without a fight.
If any of the individuals trying to limit your freedoms met you, they would understand how important you are. You elevate the world’s understanding of what it means to be human - a beautiful sentient being with an experience so complex modern language cannot describe it. Your value transcends the hateful rhetoric of a loud minority. I promise you, there are more people in this world who will fight for your existence than those who seek to diminish it.
I will fight for you. The It Gets Better Project will fight for you. Countless millions will fight for you without question. Open yourself up to the love coming your way. Be you, unapologetically, and show by example of your life the joy that can come from it. You are loved, and you are a f***ing rockstar!
Thank you all for the prayers and positive vibes! We got everything done and we have our baby boy! He’s currently still in the hospital! Hopefully we get him home soon.
Our sweet Lennyx was born 9.26. We thought we had all of our ducks in the roll! Bio mom left the hospital and then we was told the paper work we had wouldn’t work to keep him and leave the hospital with him! State came in and took our baby boy! Saying he was abandoned which he was not he had care lined up since day one!!! Please please help bring our baby home!!! If you can’t donate that’s fine just share our go fund me!!! Please and thank you all !
so i am very obviously her first enby client because when i came out to her as non-binary, she asked me to forgive her for her not knowing what it was and if i didn’t mind explaining what that meant, which i happily did
that was several sessions ago - like about a month and a half now.
and here are some things she has done so far for me as a client since coming out (which blows me away tbh because remember SHE’S FUCKING 69 so if she’s getting it then i don’t want to hear the BS excuse that i hear from some people of ‘well people of that generation are too old so they just can’t understand’ NO THEY ABSOLUTELY CANsome of them just DON’T):
- she didn’t want to take up session space by me explaining for too long what being non-binary was, and told me she could educate herself after session, and instead asked how my experience was and if i was getting the proper support i needed in that experience
- came back after educating herself with like jafieowjfoeiwf FIVE different websites of online support groups just in case i needed them or felt too awkward going in person
- has corrected herself every time she’s accidentally referred to me as 'she,’ 'her,’ 'girl’ etc., which is one of the biggest things i am always told: 'old people can’t learn that’ LIKE SHUT UP TALK TO MY THERAPIST ABOUT IT THEY OBVIOUSLY CAN
- HAS MADE UP A LISTOFALTERNATIVE FILLER-NAMES TO USE INSTEAD OF LIKE’GIRL,’ 'GIRLFRIEND,’ ETC. (you know, like when you would say to someone who identifies as female, 'right on girlfriend’) YEAH WELL SHE HAS COME UP WITH HER OWN (some of these are: 'pal-friend,’ sometimes simply - 'friend’ MY HEART GUYS)
she’s just like. all around wonderful and i’m very grateful for her. i could go on forever but bless you, [redacted], you’re a wonderful therapist and i’m grateful for you
Intersex people, you don’t have to change for the world. Right now, in this very moment, the way you exist is perfect. No matter what anyone has told you, no matter what society has made you think; you are living proof of the beauty of nature. You are allowed to do whatever you want or need with your body. You can express your gender (or lack thereof) in whatever way feels right.
This is your life, no one else’s, and you deserve all the kindness and joy the world has to give. Intersexness is good. I am so happy you exist.
Just like how you aren’t made to fit clothes, you aren’t made to fit labels; labels are made to fit you. Just like how some people are most comfortable in oversized clothes or fitted clothes, you can be most comfortable using a label in a different way than others do. Because that’s the whole point.
Queer identities are conveyed by labels - these labels don’t determine the very specific way a person experiences their queerness. If we want queer liberation, the labels that express that queerness can’t be restricted. That goes against the whole purpose of liberation.
Don’t let bigotry - from nonqueers or other queers - stop you from being & expressing who you are. Your queerness is beautiful. You deserve to shine.
