#oracle
Nightwing (2016) #79
Batgirl (2000) #51
A quick lil rant because I am feeling mildly annoyed right now:
Some of you in this spiritual/tarot/divination community need to stop pressuring people into rushing their healing process. I’m talking about when y'all just assume someone hasn’t taken their time to deal with the aftermath of something that left them severely distressed if not traumatized just because they still have some toxic habits, have their bad days, have a negative mindset.. fuck even for feeling rightfully upset about something horrible that happened to them. The truth is that healing takes so much time, you can’t erase months/years worth of trauma by just being positive. No one is going to heal from a traumatic childhood just because they repeat a few affirmations every morning, practice mindfulness, meditate everyday, etc.
What you’re doing by invalidating people’s struggles, all of the terrible things they had to go through, and all of the effort they’ve put into healing is teaching them that they’re a failure because they have yet to be “fixed”. You’re teaching them that they shouldn’t feel their feelings, that they should bury them deep within. Which prolongs the process of healing, making it take longer to heal than if they were told that sometimes the only thing you cando is cry, be sad, feel everything. You need to feel and release these feelings in order to move on with your life and actually heal.
Spirituality is an amazing tool to helpone in their healing journey but it should -never- replace therapy or professional help.
au where everything is the same but Sven lives in the woods with his tits out I guess
Ask questions
Like what if it all turns out alright?
What if people see me in a kinder light than the one I’ve grown to expect?
What if I am my harshest critic?
I decided to love myself as I was even when there were things I wanted to be better at. At some point you realise that you are worthy of love regardless of not being your ideal self. That’s what basic human kindness and dignity / respect for life is about
Nurture yourself water your roots and soak your bones in the sun ☀️ wear a pretty flower in your hair
Experienced witches, witches who have made the same mistakes, witches trying to maintain an honest and informative community - please tell me which are the main authors/publishers to avoid while reading up on witchcraft (any topic, we’re not specializing too much here) and which are your personal recommendations
Thanks y’all
Know thyself and thou shalt know all the mysteries of the gods and the universe.