#break ups
Log on to Twitter or any form of social media this week and you’ll see the term ‘Ghosting” being thrown around a lot. It’s being touted as the latest break-up fad, with Charlize Theron pushed into the ‘poster girl’ position thanks to her apparent decision to ‘ghost’ Sean Penn. But ghosting, my friends, as DailyEdge.ie rightly pointed out, is nothing new. And it’s far from a ‘trend’ or a process…
Every mistake I made with you.. Only turned me into a stronger person.
Kylie vs Blac Chyna, Nick vs D’Angelo, Batman vs Superman – Whyne Wednesday 01
Each Wednesday you can join us as we review a glass of wine while we hope to find answers by questioning current affairs, pop culture, life as we know it and more…. This week we discuss the engagement of Blac Chyna to the only Kardashian son, the state of Iggy Azalea and Nick Young’s relationship and the Caped Crusader’s showdown with Superman (not quite a movie review, just a little whine) in ”…
Does Social Media Ruin Relationships?
For those who don’t know me I LOVE social media. I had a myspace page back in the early 2000’s and was so reluctant to join a new social media site called “Facebook” back in 2005 because I was pretty sure Myspace was better. I recently celebrated my 6-year Twitter anniversary; I happily left the land of blackberry to get an iPhone and use Instagram- and I had a hi5, and friendspring account way…
Its almost the end of the year and we’re all ‘reflecting’ at the end of another 365 days.
At the beginning of 2016 I made the decision to not set a list of resolutions to accomplish by the end of the year because quite frankly setting such resolutions for the end of the year only sets you up for failure. Instead, I decided that each morning I wake up I will write a list of things to accomplish…
“Why don’t you be you,
And I’ll be me.”
—James Bay, Let it Go from Chaos and Calm.
You were everything I knew would hurt me, yet I still fell for you anyway.
MK Ireland #256 : fuck boy
We shouldn’t talk about it. We shouldn’t talk about it because we might ruin it. We might ruin everything we have, everything we might’ve been. The memories are just memories, the feelings just feelings. But if we start to label them, untangle them, we might not like what we’re left with. Things get tainted and complicated, and the waters might be murky now, but at least our desires are clear and I’d rather love you in private than avoid you in public. We shouldn’t talk about it because talking about it might mean the end of it, might mean goodbye. And I don’t want to say goodbye- to this, to you. If I could, I would pull you in my arms and hold you and hug and love you and kiss you forever, for the rest of my life, for the rest of my days. I’m saying I love you and I want you and I’d choose you, if only you could choose me. But you’re leaving, and I’m gonna miss you like I’d miss breathing. So right now can we not talk about it? Can we not talk about all the girls after you and guys after me or anyone who lays in your bed that isn’t me? Can we act like it’s just me? Like it’s just me and you and life never got in our way and we’ll never have to say goodbye? That’s the paradise I’m living in- please don’t make me leave.
MK Ireland #255 : stolen paradise
You hurt me so quietly, I confused it with love.
MK Ireland #252 : pain & suffering
I think I’ve finally let you go.
Nothing feels more refreshing.
MK Ireland #249 : f r e s h || a i r
One thing I’ve learned:
Everything hurts worse at night.
Go to sleep my love, things will be clearer in the morning.
MK Ireland #248 : midnight pains
You deserve the
love you keep
trying to give
everyone else.
She gave me a look
“Don’t worry,” she said, “I’ve spent my whole life falling in love with people who didn’t love me back.
"It’s nothing new.”
“
- S.Z
A relationship ending does not mean:
- that you’re a failure
- that you’re unlovable
- that you’re not good enough
- that you’re unworthy of being chosen
- that love isn’t for you
- that you’re a villain
- that you gave up
- that you didn’t take your commitment seriously
Vienna Pharaon | @mindfulmft