#loyalty
When someone helps you & they struggling too, that’s not help, that’s love.
In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
️ Question: If your husband had four wives, what kind of co-wife would you be?
Answer: Allah the Almighty knows best.
If my husband, with Allah’s Will and Qadr/Decree, was legally married to four women, with me being one of his wives, I would:
1] Try my best to frequently remind him to take care of all his wives as fairly and lovingly as he can for Allah’s sake, avoiding intentional injustice and unjustified negligence towards any of the women whom he is lawfully married to.
2] Advise the other wives to have patience with our husband whenever he is financially struggling or emotionally unwell.
3] Occasionally visit the residence of each co-wife, if we’ve learned to become close friends, and similarly welcome them to the place where I stay whenever I’m in the mood to receive visitors.
4] Consistently make effort to develop the friendship and sisterly love for Allah’s sake with the wives of our husband, while staying away from favoritism and insecurely teaming up against one wife or two wives.
5] Treat the children of my husband’s other wives as if they were my own kids - with patient empathy and understanding. If one wife is infertile, I’d do what I can to avoid mentioning topics which I sense could upset her.
6] Invite all co-wives or one co-wife on different timings for shopping, attending Islamic lectures together, or dining outdoors to strengthen our sisterhood for Allah’s sake, while reminding one another to stay steadfast regarding showing respect to our dear husband.
7] Act as an unbiased referee whenever two or three co-wives are quarreling, and calmly attempt to resolve the dispute, instead of coaxing them to aggravate avoidable drama.
8] Inspire each co-wife to diligently educate their loved ones and other individuals about the virtues and wisdom of why Allah the Most Wise legalized capable and willing Muslim males to be wed to up to four loving wives.
9] Coach my husband to always forgive his wives, including myself, if ever any of them behaves in a way that he finds disappointing. Motivate him to never quit trying to keep the family strong and united for Allah’s sake, reminding him as well as the co-wives that our foe shaytan is the only one who truly gets satisfied upon witnessing the number of broken Muslim families increasing due to pride/kibr, selfishness, impatience, unjust suspicion, and irrational attachment to this fleeting dunya.
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Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu ‘anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes.”
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 4252
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife.”
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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Stupid, silly girls…
I tried to be a good friend, but I really had doubts on this one.
One of my best friend’s boyfriend is cheating on her. She knows from his past that he was cheating his ex too, because he cheated on her with my friend. So I found out this because “someone” (another one of my best friends) heard him saying this. So I told her, because she was like my sister but nowadays we don’t talk as often as we used to.
The result was getting in trouble because they know it was me who told her, and she is still blind because she believes in him. But I knew this from the beggining, I know that even though she is 100% sure he is cheating on her and he says sorry, she is going to forget about it and do as if anything happen.
Revolution,loyalty,love ❤️
The Lebanese revolution 10/17/19
Credit to Rami_rizk89 on Instagram
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When you have your priorities in order, it’s hard for them to question your loyalty.
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Every one of us is losing something precious to us. Lost opportunities, lost possibilities, feelings we can never get back again. That’s what part of it means to be alive. But inside our heads — at least that’s where I imagine it — there’s a little room where we store those memories. A room like the stacks in this library. And to understand the workings of our own heart we have to keep on making new reference cards. We have to dust things off every once in a while, let fresh air in, change the water in the flower vases. In other words, you’ll live for ever in your own private library.
— Haruki Murakami, Kafka on the Shore
I think you stand by the people you love.
The Great Alone.
Discipline is far away from our hearts for we don’t want to be corrected or to be learned. So many seeking for gain but not the heart for God. Desperate fool will say “I want to be loved but not corrected” if you don’t want to be corrected then that means you know all the answers… fine ! walk ignorantly and you should die ignorantly. Did not The Spirit say through Paul “But if any man be ignorant, let him be ignorant”
Matthew 24:42-43
Watch therefore, for you do not know what hour your Lord is coming. But know this, that if the master of the house had known what hour the thief would come, he would have watched and not allowed his house to be broken into
Those who have relationship with Christ will know when He comes, the ones who satan has blinded to not read The Word & to be ignorant will not know when the thief comes and he will break into their house and they won’t be ready.
Some people can’t pass through gentle Jesus, listen next time when Jesus comes there will be fire ! That’s why relationship with Him is necessity ! Repentance is today not tomorrow!
I Thessalonians 5:9
For God did not appoint us to wrath, but to obtain salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ
Isaiah 66:15
For behold, the LORD will come with fire And with His chariots, like a whirlwind, To render His anger with fury, And His rebuke with flames of fire.
Keep it simple, follow Christ and everything He says and The Father will have you in His heart as He have always had Christ. Remember there is no inheritance without Him for none is worthy!