#youarevalid
let’s talk about trauma.
just because someone’s trauma seems worse than yours does *not* minimize your pain.
just because someone’s experiences seem more “traumatic” //by societies standards//, does not invalidate your suffering.
everyone’s hard is different. &everyone experiences hard differently.
you are //guilt-free// valid.
It’s gonna be a good day today
Heya, I’ve been offline for a little bit. Heh, the Squid is having some struggles ^^’
So, I wanted to ask…
What makes you happy? What or who, brings a smile to your face, a warm feeling inside? What makes you love life?
Tell me! I want to hear your story <3
-SelfcareSquid
Happy bday to me! ^^
-Squid
Today is a good day! And if it’s not, perhaps tomorrow will be ^^
Never lose hope, for the light is always there, even if all you can see is your own shadow
-selfcaresquid
(Can you tell I got to talk with one of my fave persons on this planet? Oh, they’re so wonderful, my heart is dancing)
It seems I am a little late, but still; happy new year! It’s going to be a good one ^^
-squid
Happy holidays everyone!
And if this season is not very merry for you, take care. The new year is coming, and it’s going to be okay. It’s going to be good ^^
-best wishes from me, Squid
Your anger knows that your mistreatment and abuse are unacceptable. Your anger knows you deserve to be treated well, and with kindness.
Your anger is a part of you that LOVES you.
I think that is a good reminder for some people. You’re always angry with a reason. Find out what it is, and change it. That’s how you’ll find peace of mind <3
-selfcaresquid
Reblogging my most popular post of 2021!
I present to you: Tumblr 2021 Year in Review
Thank you all for this wonderful year! I am so happy to have built this little corner of the internet for you ^^ for all of us!
Let’s keep going and growing next year too <3
-selfcaresquid
“Getting mad at yourself for slipping back into old habits is like getting mad at yourself for shivering when it’s cold. It’s just what we’re wired to do. It’s not a failing.
New habits are new because we don’t have a lot of practice YET. We are not good at them YET.”
So, don’t beat yourself up over it. You’ll get better. It just takes time.
-selfcaresquid
hello teenagers of tumblr dot com. especially the like 13-15 year old ones. I know like none of us have good role models in our lives and are desperate for adult approval but just because your mutual is older than you that doesn’t mean they’re right about everything and like necessarily someone you should look up to or view as an authority figure
Reblogging because… yes. Not everyone who acts like a potential role model for you is a good role model for you.
-Squid
Be a good person, but don’t waste time proving it.
Solid advice 10/10. I know you are a good person, and you’re doing everything you can. That’s good <3
Luctor et Emergo
-Selfcaresquid
It’s a misty day today… time for some self-reflection; tomorrow is a new moon in Scorpio, a new beginning!
How are you? Be honest with yourself, but don’t be harsh
Is there anything you can do to make things better? Remember that not everything is in your control
Scorpio means transformation, let the true you shine, you’re worth it <3 I got you
Luctor et Emergo
-Selfcaresquid
(And a happy belated Halloween/Samhain to those who celebrate!)
Did I post this already? Anyway.
It’s okay to fail. In front of others. You’re not meant to be perfect. You’re human.
Personal news!
I am going to make an appointment next week by the way guys! I am going to be talking to someone about my mental health -not necessarily a therapist, as I wanted before (some of you may have read my parents basically said I didn’t need therapy) but I did go to speech therapy (for swallowing/feelings of being ill and stressed and not being able to eat)
And well, my speech therapist said it might help me to talk to someone… I am so incredibly happy. I’m going to get help, after knowing for so long that I needed it.
So, for you too, I want you to know things WILL get better. A brighter future is on the way.
I hope you read this little thing… story of hope, I think? And I hope it helps you too.
-Selfcaresquid
Take a break, the moon is in sleepy and dreamy Pisces ^^
Question: how do you handle a cold? I’ve been coughing for two days straight (tested negative for Covid) but I can’t seem to shake this…. any tips? <3
-selfcaresquid
“Don’t look back, you’re not going that way.”
Go forward, even if it’s one step at the time.
-selfcaresquid