Films - The Lady from Shanghai, Black Swan, A Fantastic woman, The Potrait of a lady on Fire Climax, The Metamorphosis of birds, Cleo from 5 to 7, Phoenix, The Unbearable Lightness of Being,The Double Life of Veronique
Being drained by a narcissist is the absolute worst feeling. To be discarded so hastily…. It is terrible. I feel violated. It doesn’t happen just once; it’s over and over and over. Narcissists are like a drug to the energy supply, like the supply is a drug to the narcissist. They can read, understand, and control your inner most thoughts and weaknesses. The emotional withdrawals after you’re thrown away are like withdrawing from a class A drug and can even cause physical symptoms. It is mind-blowing to me that these emotionless humans incapable of emotions really do exist. The entire mental disorder is baffling and terrifying. I only wish I would have known what it was before I was so carelessly caught in the path of one.
The nymph Echo was condemned to repeat the words that other people were saying. She fell in love with Narcissus, but Narcissus had only eyes for his own reflection in the water. As a result of this unfulfilled love, Narcissus turned into the well-known flower and Echo disappeared in the mountains where her voice can still be heard.
The melancholy of unfulfilled love is probably what makes Waterhouse’s works so popular these days. After his death in 1917, in the midst of a cruel war, his works soon became forgotten. Interest revived only in 2009, when the Royal Academy of Arts and the Montreal Museum of Fine Arts organized a major exhibition of his works that travelled around the world.
Some general information for the setting of this little arc:
The story takes place in 47 AD - Claudius is the emperor, Messalina is still around, Agrippina wasn’t much in the public eyes and nobody really cared about the boy, who would eventually become the emperor.
That is until the games started…
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The smallest of the narcissus has been the first to open its flower, but the taller ones are about to do it too! The pink hyacint seems also eager to display its colours. Today there was a sale on succulents at the same store and mom brought some, they are very pretty! I’ll check their names later.
My driving teacher brought me an aloe today, he told me his had a lot of sprouts growing around and brought some for his students. Look how much have grown the hyacints and narcissus in less than a week!
The amaryllis opened the 5th flower! Sadly the other ones are beginning to wrinkle, but it still looks super pretty. Most of the autumnal bulbs I planted around the 1st of November sprouted already and are doing fine, I changed their place in the greenhouse so they get more sunlight.
Today there was a sale of small flowers and bulbs in a nearby market, I bought african violets, pink chrisanthemums (I gave one to mum for her office), a pink kalanchoe, blue and pink hyacints and narcissus.
How to toast the health of your Narcissus with Vodka
When you’re pouring a drink this Christmas, make sure you give one to your paperwhites, too
In the darkest days of midwinter, one plant never fails to lift my spirits: the delicate paperwhite narcissus, with its pure white trumpets and a scent as uplifting as its flowers are elegant. Watching something grow and burst into flower indoors, when everything outdoors is winding down, is to me a real horticultural happy pill. The best news? There is perhaps no winter plant that is as easy and affordable to grow – and right now is the perfect time to start.
Bulbs are available through any catalogue or from every garden centre at this time of year. Plant them up straightaway in a container of potting mix or bulb fibre. Place the bulbs about 3-5cm apart, with the pointy end just below the surface.
Once the bulbs grow and bloom you will find they are a real showstopper, especially if planted in a large porcelain bowl which you can place near your front door so you get a burst of welcome fragrance every time you come home.
Put the newly planted bulbs in a bright location in a cool room with an ambient temperature of about 20C and you should see the first signs of growth in as little as a week, with the plants beginning to flower within 4-6 weeks of planting.
Originally hailing from the Mediterranean, paperwhites aren’t hardy enough to grow outdoors in the UK, so they are traditionally always grown as houseplants. However, with the lower light levels and cosy warmth of most UK living rooms compared to their natural habitat, plants can grow long and leggy, with the flowers often toppling over. This is the only tricky thing about growing them – and it can be really heartbreaking when blooms you have been waiting for expectantly for weeks fall over just as they start to open.
Planting them close together (my recommendation of 3-5cm is much denser than standard advice) helps prevent this, as does siting them in a cooler room. However, there is one surprising trick, according to the Flower Bulb Research Program at Cornell University, that could give you the edge.
To do it, you need to go to your liquor cabinet and take out the vodka. The alcohol is toxic to the plants but, with the right dilution, instead of killing them, it merely stunts their growth.
Weirdly, this doesn’t affect the size, quantity or smell of the blooms, just the length of their stem. The alcohol leads to the growth of stouter, stockier plants which are between a half to a third the normal length.
Once the plant’s green shoots reach 5cm tall, start swapping the plain water in your irrigation for a cocktail of 1 part vodka (40% alcohol) mixed with 7 parts water. This will give you a 5% alcohol solution, which is within the 4-6% range used by the Cornell team. Don’t add more, as according to their researchers, solutions above 10% can result in damage to the plants. Not to mention that wasting good vodka in the countdown to Christmas is just bad manners, according to me.
