#poems and poetry
i am a fighter even if my fight looks like
cowering in a black room because bleak thoughts
make the world spin, when i yearn to be motionless, anchored to ceramic tile—anchored to something.
i am a fighter even if my fight looks like
cradling my quivering body when the world says
i should wield it like machinery,
as if these soft hands could ever tear down anything besides myself.
i am a fighter even if my fight looks like
seeping blood, sweat and tears as i mourn the wounds instead of stitching them up.
i am a fighter even if my fight looks like
longing to surrender, but lingering for hope to trickle in like light through a cracked door.
- “another kind of fighter”
i buried the map to my body, my being, like it was something to grieve,
but you discovered it like treasure; you unearthed places only i knew of
with such tenderness i would swear we’ve swapped bodies through kisses
because how could anyone else find flowers in a wasteland?
how else could i be loved, as i have always ached to be loved,
if not through my own hands?
- “buried treasure”
you cannot tell me that time is an arrow, as i stand taller than my mother,
yet shrink in her shadow like it’s my first day of school and i am 6 years old.
and often i still am, as i transport worms out of gutters and mourn snails squashed on pavements.
but sometimes it’s 12 am and i’m 7, dissecting dark corners in my room like it’s a crime scene
and i’m now the investigator searching for ghosts
in place of monsters that once made me the victim.
other times it’s 6 am and i’m 10, but i’m not stirring from nightmares,
i’m slipping out of bed and into them, like shackles instead of slippers.
then i’m 14 with secrets that mark me in scratches, in bruises and insecurities,
but i mask them with lies and schoolwork and sweaters and smiles
that split my face in half to distract from the pit that is my chest.
suddenly—perhaps finally—i’m 16 in August and every hour is 3 in the afternoon;
the hospital bed feels like the precipice and everything that comes after is the descent
because time is not linear, it is not the arrow or the bullet.
sometimes it feels like the plunge before the collapse,
like forever pointing the gun, but never pulling the trigger,
or standing with the bow drawn, but never letting go because you’re always pulling back.
- “time is no arrow”
if turning water into wine
could make a man divine,
you must surely be sublime
the way you turn a February moon
into a waxing gibbous,
and a city sky’s dull stars
into clusters of wishes,
and the way you make
poetry from prosaic sentences,
and backseats and bedrooms
into replicas of heaven.
you change music of any genre
into gospel, of which i sing
in love and in reverence,
“you are divine,
you are divine!”
of this, i’m certain.
should you ever question your sanctity
or—god forbid—my worship,
may these poems be the proof,
the evidence,
the testament.
- “you are divine”
you were dollhouses and cartoons on Saturday afternoons, sleepovers and shenanigans and secrets our parents never knew, you were my first home away from home, the kind of sister you choose through love, not blood. you were swimming pools and root beer floats and amateur duets in the back seat of your mother’s car.
you were letters from California and loneliness in classrooms and school buses in Florida. you were open arms and ease and faith that friends can stay friends despite how they leave.
now you’re a birthday party i won’t attend, but you’re still a birthday i won’t ever forget. you’re a single picture posted on a screen, as i wonder what you sound like or if you still think of me.
you’re Sunday brunches with people i don’t recognize, but sometimes envy, because i wish they were me; they get to know who you are now and i’ll only know who you used to be.
- “you were dollhouses”
⚠️TW: domestic violence, intimate partner violence⚠️
they left you breathless,
and you swear it’s the kiss
before the punch,
or the kiss on the bruise
that was left after one
that proves it’s love.
the butterflies have left,
exhaled in every breath
you cannot catch,
but should chase after
with urgency.
i weep for the ones
still out of breath
and unable to move;
they mourn for butterflies
as they choke for monsters
that look like lovers
they once knew.
- “still out of breath”
we stood outside in the cold,
away from the restaurant,
just to take a moment or two alone
to kiss and to sway and to hold hands,
like two people who know how to love,
but not how to dance.
and the thought crossed my mind
in between the kisses and hugs
that made a crisp night cozy,
that this is love, backstage;
these are the moments others can’t see
or resent or reduce to a play,
like devotion is only a thing
that’s faked for accolades.
but the way i’d let myself
ice over in March
just to melt in your arms
on an empty sidewalk,
or a vacant parking lot,
must just be scenes they crop out
in films we use like soundtracks,
instead of movies to watch.
- “backstage love”
i sink in sadness
and often it is love
that pierces through
the fog,
the dark,
the dread,
like a lighthouse
unveiling the shore,
like something to swim to,
like something to swim for.
- “lighthouse”
may the ones i leave behind never lie in their journals, in their conversations, or to themselves and call me “too good for this world,” when the world and i have always been two of a kind. let it be known that not all unsuitable things are too perfect or too light to be ill-matched for the place you were born into; some of us are heavy, some of us are undoubtedly flawed. no, we were never ethereal, we were mere mortals straining to be.
- “ethereal”
i couldn’t say their name if i tried,
when there once was a time
i spoke it like a body takes a breath;
i never forgot how to breathe
like i never forgot what a person can mean,
despite how i avoid them by crossing the street.
-“like a body takes a breath”
tw // sexual abuse
a kiss without consent
is not a kiss you have to count
when a friend asks if you recall your first
and they ask how it felt.
a kiss that left an aftertaste
of shame and regret, like a scar,
is not a kiss at all
if it feels like you’re marred.
i beg a God who i often resent
that you learn how to kiss clean lips
without reproaching your own
for the time someone’s unwanted tongue
slipped through your mouth,
like a thief slinks through a home,
despite how many times you said no,
no, no, no.
-“a kiss without consent”
love has no fixed face, love has many.
i taste love on the lips of my lover.
i hear love amidst my family’s laughter.
i rest my head on love,
on the shoulders of my mother.
i feel love in my arms and beneath my palms,
and sometimes it looks like a purring cat
or a sleepy-eyed dog.
to truly appreciate the essence of love
is to recognize that it can be as diverse
as it is abundant—and then suddenly,
love is not merely somewhere.
it can be anywhere and everywhere.
-“Valentine’s Day”
you speak like a ballerina pirouettes
and the world listens like an audience
perched at the edge of their seats.
you make me want to sing,
but my tongue slides against my teeth
like a lush clings to a wall
once they forget how to use their feet.
the words tumble alongside my gums
and drop from my clumsy mouth
like an accident, like silverware
slipping through butter fingers.
and like a child gets bruised knees,
i get bruised cheeks,
but you’ll plant kisses where it’s blue
until everything turns pink.
- “clumsy mouth”
i can’t find heaven on the map,
but i’m too scared to ask for directions
because everyone’s got horns or fangs
or blood on their hands.
i saw wings on your back
and i’m still not sure if they’re real
or just feathers and wax.
you could be Icarus
though i’m hardly the sun.
it’s always why he plummets
and never where he sinks;
i sobbed that i’m the ocean,
the aftermath, the burial pit
but you just laughed.
so even if your halo’s plastic,
i’d still wear it like a ring
if you asked.
- “where Icarus sinks”
Everyday I wake up
I hope something will change
But all I see is more lines on my face
The demons are laughing at the angels
That are supposed to protect me
Time passes by
There is only decay
All of my prayers keep running away
The darkness has depression
And there is no escape
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If I stay one more day
Maybe it will all be ok
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Sunshine is such a good lover
I like the way she burns
She veils my body with her warmth
I am dressed only in her light
She opens me up like a flower
But she never spends the night
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Down
Down
Down she goes
Into that endless black hole
No ladder
No hand of a friend
Nothing can make the darkness end
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Love has softened me and molded me like clay
I have hit rock bottom so many times
But now when I fall
I don’t break
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Hurting and healing
Like the rise and fall of my breath
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