#toxic frienship
I want you to know that You were very important for me. You were my missing piece, my soulmate. I really loved everything about You. I am glad that you destroyed that.
Some things are better left unsaid. Some paths are better not crossed.
How can parents confidently yell at their children for no reason? I can’t even raise my voice while talking to anyone.
What are the types of toxic traits?
Unjust Mischaracterizarion
I am tired of being misunderstood.
I am so sick of people making me out as the bad guy or assuming the worst of my character because it fits their narrative.
Grow up and take some responsibility. I’m just trying to live my life too, and I don’t make it a point to intentionally do anything malicious to anyone.
I just want to live peacefully and become a better person, yet somehow, there seem to be people that always expect the worst from me, and purposefully find ways to misread my intentions.
They forget all the times I did anything to try to help or support them. All the times I went out of my way to extend an olive branch, or try to please them. Instead, they only remember what’s convenient for them to remember, like all the times I didn’t meet their expectations because- surprise! I am an imperfect person too, trying to live my life, and balance everything on my plate.
Guess what: I wasn’t born to meet and fulfill your expectations. No one was, so what more do you want from me?
I’m just trying to make it in this world, trying to find a place to belong- with other imperfect people, who try to make an attempt to understand me, and I, them.
I learn somethIng Nice recently on a New year fight….
FIRST:
If someone start to trow slurs and Bad words, get the fuck out
If someone start to be mean , get the fuck out
If You leave a clear message of boundarie and this person decide to ignore it , get THE FUCK OUT
You cant reason whit someone who start to yell and scream, disrespect and trow Bad words
Just get out, You owe no one an explanation
SECOND:
Don’t waste time explaining somethIng to someone that isnt going to listen, EVER.
You can explain whit apples, and they Will still won’t listen
Save it for the people who Will listen
THIRD:
Don’t waste time hating people, You don’t have to forgive them , but u don’t have to hate them either, don’t waste energy on holding a grudge, on hate stalking or Even looking at old pics of them
Invest that energy and time on people that is worth it
Fourth:
NEVER TAKE THINGS PERSONAL
You live in a world whit thousand of dificulties, disease and illnesses ,physical and mentall
Some people won’t get sarcasm, others talk harsh, much others doesnt Even care if they sound Bad, comunication is complex and Even whit tone indicators , we all process things diferently
And people don’t usually go around offending You on purpose, maybe by accident, but thats why Words exist, to talk about it, we all deal whit alot of shit like to waste time offending others on purpose, talk like an adult, don’t Say slurs or Bad words of u get angry, look for clasifiying the issue not making it worse
Don’t start fights where Theres non
Comunicate, if You don’t understand theres always The option to ask like :
Excuse me did You said this because u think My dress is ugly ? (When someone said :Nice dress)
Don’t asume everyone wants to offend You, because if another person talking sound rude to You, for them is normal, believe it or not, not everyone talk sweet or calm and still won’t mean they’re being disrespectfull
But is up to You if You want to waste energy, selfsteam and motivation on a dumb fight that nobody but You provoque
Lastl FIFTH:
In this world ,there is people who suck at recognizing boundaries, jokes, methaphors, sarcams and more, mental illnes can cause that, SO again, don’t take things personal because we all deal whit heavy shit like to add more
