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Toxic society

I dont understand this world at all, people are brought into this world and their automatically forced to be something resembling perfection. Kids being put in a position where they have to be “perfect and socially acceptable” in a world that isnt perfect. “My child is a perfect darling he never acts up and makes perfect grades”. “My daughter is cheer captain with a 4.0 gpa shes the perfect child”. People brag about their good children and because of this idea of the “picture perfect kid and family” parents end up comparing their child or children to this seemingly perfect kid that does no wrong. And then the parents and family wonder why that child grew up to dislike them. What epic cluster fuck of a failed society are we living in if people do shit like that and its considered normal?

I was getting better, I was finally getting better…then I stopped.

Today I realised what I thought I wanted wasn’t what I wanted at all…

I want me. Just me. I have accepted that it will come with some heartache, more problems and a lot of questions but I will finally be me…and free

You call yourself my best friend but I only come to your mind when YOU feel bad when I need you you don’t give a fuck about me. I am a secret when you are happy, a burden when I’m sad. You let me rot alone and betrayed me, but now

You’redeadtome

I wanna hurt the person who thought that making you suffer was just party

Obsession prompts


1. “I need you more than I need the function to breathe air !”

2. “You have to believe me, I would DIE for you - just say the word and I’ll do it !”

3. “You’re truly my everything, I don’t care about anything else except you”

4. “I would kill the whole world if it meant the two of us would be together”

5. “You’re so beautiful when you’re asleep, I’m so glad you are unaware even if someone like me is watching you”

6. “You’re so naive, it makes you so much more desirable”

7. “I need you, I need you more than life, I need you more than any necessities could hold of value - nothing compares to a god/dess like you !”

8. “I will treat you like god if you tell me to”

9. “I will worship the ground you stand on, everyone should feel as blessed as I to be graced with your presence”

10. “You’re so beautiful/handsome/hot when you’re even doing nothing”

11. “I have a shrine just for you of things you leave behind”

12. “I love taking pictures of you doing everyday tasks, adds to my multiple photo albums dedicated to you”

13. “We will get married someday and you’ll see how much I’m dedicated to you”

14. “Everyone else is so disgusting compared to a pure being like you”

15. “You can punch me, hurt me, burn me, torture me all you want - take your anger out on me - I don’t care, as long as it’s you and no one else”

16. “I want to be the one you have eyes for, you’re so perfect”

17. “I can’t let anyone else have you ! No one !!”

18. “You’re an angel, you’re a saint, I want to hold you and love you till the day I fucking die”

19. “I don’t deserve to share the same air you breathe”

20. “Thank you for blessing me with a passing glance, (Nickname) !”

21. “Everyone should know your name and say it with adoration as much as I - if not they will be punished !”

22. “I will cut through every flesh and bone of anyone who dares disrespect you”

23. “No one should have your name smeared in the dirt unless they want to be smeared in their own blood and tears”

24. “You’re truly above this species of (human/man, or whatever species you choose)”

25. “I would starve if it meant you could eat, just to see you smile”

26. “I will treat you like the god/dess you are !”

27. “I will fight for your honor forever, even if it means blood will stain my hands”

28. “I have no remorse for who I hurt if they disrespect or hurt you”

29. “You’re more precious than any jewel, and I’ll protect you no matter what, (royal title/ or nickname)

30. “If anyone were to look at you different, say the word - I’ll kill them like cattle”

31. “They don’t deserve to breathe your air, I don’t deserve to have eyes to look at your magnificence”

32. “You’ll never leave me right ? I wouldn’t be able to live without you ! I wouldn’t be able to function without you !”

33. “You’re the only great thing to this cruel, dull world, the only color I wanna see is on you”

34. “You’re someone everyone wants and I will protect you from those..heathens”

relationships are like glass. sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together….

saddest thing in the world is watching someone’s true colors ruin the picture they painted in your head..

Bruh I hate that toxic masculinity shit it pisses me off…‍♀️

I learn somethIng Nice recently on a New year fight….

FIRST:

If someone start to trow slurs and Bad words, get the fuck out

If someone start to be mean , get the fuck out

If You leave a clear message of boundarie and this person decide to ignore it , get THE FUCK OUT

You cant reason whit someone who start to yell and scream, disrespect and trow Bad words

Just get out, You owe no one an explanation

SECOND:

Don’t waste time explaining somethIng to someone that isnt going to listen, EVER.

You can explain whit apples, and they Will still won’t listen

Save it for the people who Will listen

THIRD:

Don’t waste time hating people, You don’t have to forgive them , but u don’t have to hate them either, don’t waste energy on holding a grudge, on hate stalking or Even looking at old pics of them

Invest that energy and time on people that is worth it

Fourth:

NEVER TAKE THINGS PERSONAL

You live in a world whit thousand of dificulties, disease and illnesses ,physical and mentall

Some people won’t get sarcasm, others talk harsh, much others doesnt Even care if they sound Bad, comunication is complex and Even whit tone indicators , we all process things diferently

And people don’t usually go around offending You on purpose, maybe by accident, but thats why Words exist, to talk about it, we all deal whit alot of shit like to waste time offending others on purpose, talk like an adult, don’t Say slurs or Bad words of u get angry, look for clasifiying the issue not making it worse

Don’t start fights where Theres non

Comunicate, if You don’t understand theres always The option to ask like :

Excuse me did You said this because u think My dress is ugly ? (When someone said :Nice dress)

Don’t asume everyone wants to offend You, because if another person talking sound rude to You, for them is normal, believe it or not, not everyone talk sweet or calm and still won’t mean they’re being disrespectfull

But is up to You if You want to waste energy, selfsteam and motivation on a dumb fight that nobody but You provoque

Lastl FIFTH:

In this world ,there is people who suck at recognizing boundaries, jokes, methaphors, sarcams and more, mental illnes can cause that, SO again, don’t take things personal because we all deal whit heavy shit like to add more

9/17/19

Don’t let the person you love run hot and cold toward you.

Don’t let someone keep you on a fence and in permanent limbo.

Don’t settle for luke warm.

Don’t ignore the red flags of a toxic relationship.

Love yourself enough to walk away.

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