#demiromantic
Do I want a romantic relationship or do I just want someone to hold me and to be vulnerable with or do I just need to go to sleep
ASAW Day 3
This is a little comic I made about the journey I went through in discovering that I’m ace and coming out. It’s drawn in the same simple style I used for my hourlycomics, which is really only a step above thumbnails, but I wanted to go ahead and share it. At some point I plan to redraw it properly for my comic siteandTapastic account, and maybe even print it!
One thing about the comic’s timeline that I wanted to address… When I first came out as ace on social media last November, I actually did come out as demisexual. But since that time, I gained a greater understanding of both myself and the ace and aro spectrums, and realized that demiromantic ace was a much more accurate fit for me.
In the months that followed my coming out as ace on social media, I slowly began coming out to close family and friends in real life. I was worried about how the people closest to me would react, but it’s gone pretty well so far!
I made this comic to address the doubts, questions, and confusing aspects of myself that made it so hard to understand or explain how I felt before I found the ace community. I especially wanted to represent those who, like me, didn’t realize they were ace for years because they were misinformed or didn’t even know it was an option… who fall into the gray area of the ace spectrum or aren’t sure how to define their asexuality… who worry about whether they’re “ace enough” because they’re gray ace, sex favorable, or both. I hope this comic helps any fellow aces who feel like they can relate to it! :)
(And BTW… any flames from discoursers about my support for ace inclusion in the LGBTQIA+ community will be used to toast marshmallows and then deleted.) ;)
It’s National Coming Out Day, so I thought I’d give this comic a reblog! It tells the story of my journey of self-discovery, questioning, and coming out as demiromantic ace. :)
HAPPY PRIDE EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!!!!
friends to lovers but instead they’re just demiromantic
Bisexual Pride
[ID: a series of images of two pride flags fused together down the centre. The flags are: 1978 rainbow & bisexual, aromantic & bisexual, nblm & bisexual, nblw & bisexual, aro ace spec by @aroaceworms & bisexual, aro ace by @aroaceworms & bisexual, aroace & bisexual, aro allo & bisexual, greysexual & bisexual, greyromantic & bisexual. End ID.]
It’s June again! You know what that means?
Hehe, I updated my pride flags
✦ Demirom/Other, Demisexual/Other, Intersex/Other, Pan/Other, Polyamory/Other, Polysexual/Other Pride Saturn Icons ✦
For Pride Month, I made some Saturns! These are free to use with credit. They’re also available as stickers, links are in the replies!
Icons in order from left to right:
Demiromantic/Lesbian, Demiromantic/Gay, Demiromantic/Bisexual, Demiromantic/Agender, Demiromantic/Aromantic, Demiromantic/Aro spectrum, Demiromantic/Asexual, Demiromantic/Ace spectrum, Demiromantic/Aroace, Demiromantic/Bigender, Demiromantic/Genderfluid, Demiromantic/Genderqueer, Demiromantic/Intersex, Demiromantic/Nonbinary, Demiromantic/Pansexual, Demiromantic/Polyamory, Demiromantic/Polysexual
Demisexual/Lesbian, Demisexual/Gay, Demisexual/Bisexual, Demisexual/Agender, Demisexual/Aromantic, Demisexual/Aro spectrum, Demisexual/Asexual, Demisexual/Ace spectrum, Demisexual/Aroace, Demisexual/Bigender, Demisexual/Genderfluid, Demisexual/Genderqueer, Demisexual/Intersex, Demisexual/Nonbinary, Demisexual/Pansexual, Demisexual/Polyamory, Demisexual/Polysexual
Intersex/Agender, Intersex/Bigender, Intersex/Genderfluid, Intersex/Genderqueer, Intersex/Nonbinary, Intersex/Polyamory
Pansexual/Agender, Pansexual/Bigender, Pansexual/Genderfluid, Pansexual/Genderqueer, Pansexual/Intersex, Pansexual/Nonbinary, Pansexual/Polyamory
Polyamory/Agender, Polyamory/Bigender, Polyamory/Genderfluid, Polyamory/Genderqueer, Polyamory/Intersex, Polyamory/Nonbinary
Polysexual/Agender, Polysexual/Bigender, Polysexual/Genderfluid, Polysexual/Genderqueer, Polysexual/Intersex, Polysexual/Nonbinary, Polysexual/Polyamory
Halves:
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Aromantic, Asexual, and Aroace
Demialterous, Demipansexual, and Demiplatonic
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[ID: Each image holds multiple versions of an illustration of Saturn on a space background that fades to white at the corners. Saturn is comprised of wavy lines of varying thicknesses, heights, and amounts of hills, and lines of ovals at varying heights and amounts. All these are on a semi-transparent constellation and ghost background. End description.]
Alfred is the straight supportive grandpa, he is a great ally and everyone loves him, he makes the best rainbow cookies
Bruce is a disaster bisexual dad with a preference for women
Dick is a disaster pansexual icon, this man does not give two fucks about gender, he just loves to love everyone
Barbara is either bisexual or the best straight ally(second place to Alfred, of course)
Jason is pansexual and Polyamorous, his datemates are great and he loves them with all his heart
Tim is a chaotic gay with a coffee addiction and bad sleep habits, Kon always has to make sure that he takes care of himself
Steph is a raging chaotic bisexual, she’s like a Golden Retriver, must protect her at all costs
Cass is the best, I love Cass, she’s my smol bean and nobody’s allowed to touch her… she is either a lesbian icon or an asexual icon… or both… in any case Cassandra Cain is an icon
Damian is asexual and I also see him as demiromantic (also, I’m pretty sure him and Jon have something, it’s so pure and wholesome I just love it)
Duke Thomas, my baby is pansexual, another smol bean that must be protected at all costs… also, I think he is Non-Binary, but he uses he/him or he/they pronouns
Selina is the bisexual mom
And of course, as everyone should know this by now, Kate Kane, our lesbian wine aunt/gay cousin, honestly she’s the best, she will kick butt if someone tries to insult/disrespect you
people in the lgbtqia+ community, reblog and put in the tags all the labels you use.
if you don’t use labels but are lgbtqia+ just reblog and write none. (:
I’m demiromantic which means I’m attracted to no one and can’t see myself in a romantic situation at all, EXCEPT if it’s with this one person I’m really close to. I trust them with my life, they know me inside out and would absolutely let my romantic desires become true with them . Yes, I’m still part of the aromantic spectrums! To anyone else who has ever felt like they don’t belong or been told that they don’t belong in the aro spec bc they experience romantic feelings and desire: you are part of the aromantic community too . That’s literally why there’s a spectrum! You’re welcome ️
happy pride month reminder to tip aroaces 50 bucks.
i’m aroaces. i have venmo <3
romantic gestures and scenarios are uncomfortable to picture in my head with a person I don’t know anything about like celebrities or a cute person from my school, nope. crushes aren’t something I experience .
you can say I’m mostly romance indifferent. but being demiromantic means that when I do form that emotional bond with someone and the romantic feelings arise, then those romantic scenarios in my head make more sense to imagine with them, the person that I’m falling for… I guess that’s why now I feel more romance favorable, bc the romantic feelings are here. Maybe not as intense as an alloromantic person experiences it… but yeah. Shoutout to fellow romance favorable aros
Shoutout to romance favorable aros!
you know what’s better than being told you’re pretty and beautiful? someone telling you they love your brain and admire your intellect. you’ve bought me. I’m all yours now
but how could i not love you when you turned my whole life around, make me feel alive and spark something inside of me i have never felt before?
this but make it ✨ demiromantic ✨ for me
long conversations when you’re getting to know someone >>>>> . It’s all about that emotional connection, ya know?