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It’s only when flirting with another leftist that I suddenly wish there was a guillotine emoji, but alas there is none.

Unconditional Love vs The Ego - What’s The Difference?

We have all heard of the term ‘unconditional love’ but what does it mean exactly? It is defined as the type of love that has no limitations or restrictive boundaries between two people. It is the complete acceptance of one another, their past hurts and traumas, their quirks and their imperfections. When you love someone unconditionally, you are still affectionate, compassionate and forgiving towards them; even when they annoy or upset you. This is the kind of relationship that many of us crave throughout life at any age; young or old. The reason is because unconditional love is the purest and highest vibration that a human being can experience. For some, it is the ultimate goal in their life.

However, one needs to go on a journey of introspection and self love to be able to experience real unconditional love. I always believe that to really know someone on a deeper level, one has to know themselves as well. By doing this you will begin to understand yourself much more; your emotions, your insecurities, your fears and your thoughts, which will help you become more open with your partner. This helps with building vulnerability, intimacy and trust between two people, which are essential for developing healthy, long-term and stable relationships. However, when we love someone conditionally or by our ego, this is where problems start to arise to the surface.

Unhealthy attachments, obessions, shame, guilt, fear, clinginess, narcissism and codependency all stem from our ego. You will know when you are in a conditional love based relationship because you will feel constantly empty inside when they are away from you or even when you are in their presence, but yet you still stay with them because you don’t want to feel lonely and disconnected. This is why many relationships breakdown, as many people mistake this kind of behaviour and love as normal, when it completely isn’t. Looking for love shouldn’t come from a place of searching to fill an empty part of you, as it isn’t a romantic partner’s responsibility. They can guide you along the way, but only to a certain point. Everyone has their own insecurites and imperfections and that’s okay. What is important here - is acceptance not aiming to be complete or free from flaws and emotional scars.

You will find that ego based love is always focused on the outside, never from within. These kind of relationships can spark up feelings of self-doubt and denial as well. Many people live in a delusion of being in a happy relationship, but inside they feel totally dissatisfied, leading to anxiety and depression. This is very common with people who are in codependent and dysfunctional relationships. Superficial relationships like this often show incompatibility between two people, hence why many partnerships break up very quickly and have very short timelines. Feelings of lust are one of the strongest components for developing superficial love, as you need to be magnetically drawn to them on a sexual level.

This is the common type of relationship which many people fall into when they feel like there is something empty inside themselves, so they look for someone who will have the responsibility to fill up that hole. Sometimes this can be a wound that has been inflicted upon us since we we children; such as a craving for love, validation and affection that we didn’t receive from our parents. This kind of trauma is possibly the biggest causes for love addiction. When we are children we are dependent on our parents to keep us warm, safe, loved and appreciated. This is why neglect and loneliness can be incredibly damaging to us as we grow into adults.

To overcome this, you can practice unconditional love to yourself to help you understand that you are not perfect and it is totally okay to feel any emotion - whether that is positive or negative. I find the more you judge and criticise yourself, the more you will criticise others. Completely let go of resistance and judgement of yourself - as doing this serves you no purpose at all. All it does is make you live in a bubble of negativity and negative energy. Allow yourself to surrender and release the urge to always be in control. You deserve to be happy and experience healthy and fulfilling relationships.

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Quote of the Day: Wednesday, 18th April 2018

Quote of the Day: Saturday, 14th April 2018

I’m a lawyer, and you may ask me for free advice! But only dating and relationship advice I like the tea

‪The same event from two different points of view. We love pop perfection that declare cis women’s genitalia as powerful and associate them with omniscient beings.‬

‪i want someone to be so in love with me that they protect me from their own anger ‬

http://www.eharmony.com/dating-advice/about-you/15-reasons-to-date-a-paramedic/#.VNBoIULuBTP

15. Paramedics are strong. If you have fantasies of being carried over the threshold, your date is likely physically up to the task.

…Thank you eHarmony, I’m sure it is every man’s dream to be carried across the threshold by their Paramedic girlfriend.

*Calls for a lift assist* “Sorry, honey”

A little ode to giving up

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Hello lovebugs! After a muuuch needed break from social media (okay maybe it didn’t need to be 2 years long), I’m finally diving back into the world of social & what better place to start then tumblr. I used to post on here a few years back (at least I think it was this blog, although it may have been another).. & I made a ton of wonderful friends and people who became very important to me. I truly long for the feeling of being surrounded by mutuals who just seem to understand me, so here I am.. My name is Audriana (Audrey), & I’m a 24 y/o Aries. I was born & raised (for the most part), in shitty Pennsylvania.. which is sadly where I still live. I am currently taking a break from school (it’s a long story, but you can ask about it).. but I am hopefully planning on going back for Mass Communications & possibly English too. I work in the same little place I have since I was 15.. a bookstore, which is honestly my favorite thing.. but I one day hope to become a journalist & potentially write a few books too. For the last few years I have been very confused about my sexuality, even more so in the last few months - but I label myself as bisexual (with a lean towards females). It’s a very touchy subject for me, but I would honestly love to talk sexuality with you guys & maybe get a better understanding of who I am. That being said - my previous relationship was with a male partner & out of that there came only one good thing - my son. I’m a mama to a (almost) 8 month old little boy. He is my absolute world. I like spending my time outside with my son - gardening, watching the animals, or staring up at the clouds.. I enjoy reading & writing, & admittedly watching too much anime/TV in general. I play video games, advocate for 420 & I’m a huge foodie. I guess I’m looking for friends & possibly maybe someone to share my world with too. I love to chat, & would love to meet all of you. So pllllease, shoot me a message & give me a follow! Fun fact: Lmao, I met my previous ex before my social media hiatus here.. we ended up dating online for 2 YEARS & then I actually MOVED to Australia for a year. We broke up.. if you’re seeing this submission Samantha, you. (I’m so sorry this is so long, I was excited).

https://www.tumblr.com/almond-s❤️

One of the most unoriginal lines on dating app bios got me like:

Also, we ALL like food, traveling, and pretending to hike regularly. Write something else.