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I need help
There is this girl i met back near the end of October. Ill call her Suu. I met her off of a friend’s discord server. She is really shy when it comes to talking to new people, but she felt really comfy around me. She also has a boyfriend, ill call him Lance. Alot of things happend with me and Suu between the time we met each other and now. We’ve become best friends and basically spend all day together on calls, we live in two different states. She isnt really able to spend that much time with Lance because he lives in France. Ive given her the title of sister, which is not a title i give to others so willingly. I’ve also met Lance, hes really great too, a bit of a numbskull but he has a good heart. Me and him are also good friends. Suu loves talking to me, she loves my company, there have been a few days before where i was too busy to talk to her and when i was able to she tells me how much she missed me. Hell we even sleep on call together. Well… recently it finally snapped in my head that im basically playing third wheel. Somthing else that started to come up…is how… feelings have started emerge…for Suu…..and Lance….romantic feelings….
Just tonight i told her that i needed space and that tonight would be the last time i sleep on call for awhile. And the worst situation came out of this. Shes upset. Thinks she did somthing to upset me. And just….i cant tell her why i need space…idk what to do….shes been in a poly relationship before but…i know for a fact lance dosnt want a poly thing…idk what to do….if i keep my space she will think i hate her. And if i stay close it hurts me.
maybe its a good thing that people leave me early, ive noticed a trend with people that manage to put up with my depressed ass long enough to the point where serious feelings develop between the both of us.
i break their hearts, including mine, and its entirly my fault. i did it to my wife, and now i did it to my husband.
why, why do i cheat on them. its because im a whore, a leech, a slut. i dont deserve love. and they deserve so much more. idk if this is a cry for help or not. i just wanted to wollow in my own self pity.
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I’ve been looking through some blogs today and I’ve found some people who I feel like just need someone to talk to or someone to listen to them. I may be wrong in my assumptions, and I know that some people would rather be left alone or think that it’s none of my business, but…
If you wonderful people, my followers, have any questions, complaints, achievement that may be regarding your day, how things have been recently, or just want to have a conversation with me, feel free to message me in my ask box!
If it makes you feel more secure about telling a complete stranger about your struggles and achievements, just know that I’ve given advice many times to not only my friends (who are my age, 16-17), but I’ve also been able to help out those younger and older than me. I belong to a youth group outside of school where I’ve been able to do this a lot, and when I graduate, I do also plan on studying psychology. I am truly interested in understanding others and giving aid to them. I WILL try my best to help you out! I really want to have the opportunity make anyone’s day better, if I just could.
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