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Can we talk about Aziraphale’s rebellion? I want to talk about Aziraphale’s rebellion.
Like, obviously Aziraphale rebelling against Heaven started with giving away the sword. We all know this. He took his stand six thousand years ago and has, in his own quiet way, been defending his choice ever since. In the miniseries, we don’t see as much of how Aziraphale actually conducts his work on Earth as we do of Crowley’s half-hearted attempts at Being Bad, aside from that one line during the drunken bookshop scene about how he tries to influence humans to do the actual thwarting, but I think a lot about the line from the script book that was cut for time, about how he was hoping to influence Nero by getting him interested in music. Which… hoooooo boy is thata lot to unpack, but I digress.
Crowley gave humanity the opportunity to choose, and has continued to do so, allowing mankind to choose their fates. And Aziraphale? Aziraphale is doing just as he did in giving Adam and Eve his sword: giving humanity the tools with which to enact their own destiny, whatever that may be. Aziraphale’s methodology is a consistent defense of his original rebellion, but he still tries for six thousand years to tread the fine line of loyalty to Heaven, even as he makes it oh so very clear, with his misprint Bibles and his love of human culture and his clear discomfort in the face of Heaven’s other messengers, that he doesn’t like their ways or their attitude.
But that isn’t what I want to talk about. What I want to talk about is the moment that Aziraphale goes full loose cannon.
When Aziraphale first gets poofed back to Heaven, he starts out this confrontation with the Quartermaster with the same fumbling, almost unctious behavior he shows to the Archangels (feat. Sandalphon) up until this point. He doesn’t like these people, he barely evenrespects these people, but he feels he owes them his loyalty so he speaks courteously and very nearly obsequiously (but with a twinkle in his eye that says “I am mentally eviscerating every stupidass word out of your idiot mouth” the whole time). He makes light of having been discorporated because he knows he’s in trouble and he’s so in the habit of trying to downplay his slip ups, his tiny rebellions, and dress them up in humor, that it’s his go-to reaction when he suddenly finds himself bodiless and stuck in the absolute last place he wants to be.
But then the Quartermaster starts giving him a dressing down, and at first we see Aziraphale kind of wilting under his ire, shrinking back into himself (which is an amazing bit of physicality from Mr. Sheen, seriously, go rewatch, the body language he uses in this whole scene is amazing) and trying to compress himself down under Heaven’s rage… but then the final blow is delivered:
“You pathetic excuse for an angel!”
And Aziraphale just kind of goes still and absorbs this. He thinks it over. He straightens up. And he makes his choice.
“Well, I suppose I am, really.”
He knows what he is. He’s known from the beginning. His rebellion began six thousand years ago, and all these years with humanity and with Crowley, pushing and pulling at him and making him think and evaluate and question everything, has made him ready to own up to it.
Up until this point, Aziraphale’s rebellion— his misprint Bibles and his little white lies and his overindulgence in human things and the questions he keeps to himself for fear of Falling— has been so quiet. It’s been whispers behind closed doors and a hush-hush Arrangement with an Adversary he shouldn’t even speak to let alone have cozy dinners with. It’s all under lock and key and oh so very discrete.
Until now. Now Aziraphale is pissed.
He’s spent six thousand years teaching humans how to solve their own problems, giving them the tools they need to fight their own battles and actually make use of that power of choice Crowley gave them, even if he doesn’t actually realize that’s what he’s been doing all these years. He’s put literally all the Time there has ever been into guiding and caring for the Earth, and under absolutely no fucking circumstances is he going to let it all be blown to bits so Heaven and Hell can have their stupid pissing contest all over it.
And suddenly all that servile obedience to Heaven, all that soft-spoken pandering, just evaporates. Suddenly it’s “I have nointention of fighting in any war!” Suddenly it’s “Idemand to be returned [to Earth]!” Suddenly Aziraphale has absolutely run out of fucks to give and he’s ready to scream out everything that’s been coming to a slow boil inside him over the course of so many centuries. And he doesn’t know yet, he doesn’t yet understand that all the work he and Crowley have been doing for six thousand years has already given Adam and the Them everything they need to make their choice and defend it. As far as Aziraphale is concerned, he and
probablyCrowley are the only thing standing between the Earth and its imminent destruction, and he absolutely will not just stand back and let it happen.It doesn’t matter that his Quartermaster is berating him. It doesn’t matter that that whole line of angels has suddenly turned in eerie, perfect unison to stare him down with blank-eyed dispassion and unfeeling Judgment. It doesn’t matter that this is treason in Heaven’s eyes, that there’s a damn good chance he’s going to Fall for this. He’s chosen his side, and he’s making a stand.
And then the thought occurs to him that, well, why can’t he just go back to Earth? Why can’t he just possess a convenient human host? Demons can do that, and what are demons but fallen angels? Why can’the do what a demon can do? He knows damn well and good that angels and demons aren’t really all that far apart— he has six millennia worth of love and an Arrangement spanning nearly a thousand years to prove it. We talk about Crowley and his imagination and creativity, but Aziraphale is no slouch when it comes to thinking outside the box either. So once Aziraphale starts asking questions, reallyasking them and not just thinking them quietly to himself and then locking them up tight where no one is likely to see, he instantly becomes this unstoppable cannonball of chaotic energy. It’s the loudest, most brazen Rebellion since Lucifer himself, and it’s done in the service of Humanity, because Aziraphale’s defining character trait is his radical kindness.
Basically, Aziraphale backflips out of Heaven with both middle fingers in the air, and frankly I think it’s amazing.
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So in all that cringing away from the Quartermaster, I see Aziraphale’s eternity of being slowly chipped away by the emotional abuse of Heaven. He might question what’s right, he might question whether he even respects his superiors as he should, but deep down he is an angel and he WANTS so very much to be a good angel. He wants to be acknowledged. He wants to be told that his rebellions are ok because they’re done for the Right Reason (at the same time that he does NOT want to be found out).
And then…they push him too far. Hell is after Crowley (Who may or may not be leaving for ever) earth is about to be destroyed, humanity is going to be wiped out, NO ONE CARES, and now all his failures are laid bare and
And Aziraphale decides he just does not give a single care, s**t or f**k anymore.
It’s like, he hits rock bottom, and realizes in that second that he can actually stand on his own two feet.
It’s f***ing glorious.
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as everyone knows i have quit tumblr. i originally joined when I was closeted as an escape from my family who are not open minded. i had posted my early transition progress frequently including when I found out that I’m intersex. when i started this blog i had short blonde hair and walked around naked constantly because all of my male clothes made me super dysphoric. a year after i joined engaged to a guy named Luke who i never ever showed pics of or even introduced to any of my irl friends, mainly because he was physically and sexually abusive and i didn’t want pics of someone who i was terrified of on my blog. i used to make a bunch of awful jokes and even made a joke blog about not wiping my ass under the name of Mark Skidz as a coping mechanism with all the bullshit in my life. then my house caught on fire and shortly after i started getting sexually harrased by a distant relative on facebook then after that tumblr started to become toxic to me when i got cyberbullied by over 500 TERFs, i also got sexually harrased on tumblr in my anons (many of which i was stupid enough to answer instead of just deleting them). then i found out Luke was cheating on me constantly and that was basically the final straw for me which caused me to post a bunch of suicidal posts on here and basically caused my life to go completely downhill since, i did have a girlfriend for a brief period she was cute and supportive but it just didn’t work out because we had too many problems of our own. after that break up i decided to take a break from social media. but shortly after i quit without warning because i couldn’t post on here anymore because it was too painful for me. long story short this post is my final goodbye. thank you to everyone who supported me over the years until we meet again
- Princess River
I want to be on the receiving end of an abusive relationship with a bbw.
Why Covert Narcissist Use Triangulation?
One of the main symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder is a cognitive distortion known as black and white thinking. Narcissists generally lack “whole object relations” and only see things as black or white.
Black and white thinking doesn’t allow the narcissist to see that people at the same time have qualities and flaws; they believe that people are either good or bad. A covert narcissist doesn’t care about your feelings. They don’t respect others and have no empathy for other people’s emotions. They only want to control and use triangulation to protect their ego and maintain control.
How to React to Narcissist Triangulation?
Ending the manipulation in narcissist triangulation is the only way to escape the toxic relationship and maintain good mental health.
Here are the three essential steps in ending the narcissistic abuse and recovering from it.
1. Recognize that the Narcissist is Using Triangulation
The first step in ending the triangulation is becoming aware of it. Recognizing that triangulation is happening will empower you to stop feeling guilty. It will also help you realize that the problem is with the narcissist, not with you.
2. Cut Off the Contact with the Narcissist
The most effective way to end triangulation is to cut off the narcissist ties. Once you leave the relationship and stop providing attention to the narcissist, the triangle fails.
3. Set Clear Boundaries
If you must stay in touch with the narcissist (e.g., share children, work together, etc.), make sure to set firm boundaries. Boundaries are an essential aspect of self-care that allows you to stop the abuse cycle in narcissist triangulation.
Narcissistic Romantic Relationship Triangulation
Since most romantic relationships are between two individuals, triangulation would appear impossible. However, the narcissist will often bring in a third party for the purpose of playing their victims off of each other.
For instance, a married narcissist might start spending more time with a coworker or friend, which their partner would not reasonably object to. The narcissist then casually mentions how the coworker or friend exhibits a quality or behavior that is superior to their partner’s.
These comments make their partner feel inadequate, leading them to try harder to please the narcissist. This enhanced control is what the narcissist was looking for; it provides them with the admiration they crave. The coworker and friend will likely have no idea that they’re being used as a foil to the narcissist’s partner. They may not even express the qualities or behaviors that the narcissist is claiming. This idealized version of them is enough to torment and control the narcissist’s partner.
Triangulation is commonly used after a breakup or narcissistic discard and is a way for the abuser to wiggle their way back into the victim’s life. The narcissist might boast about their new relationship and how everything in it is better than with the victim.
They could also mention how their new love interest looks down on the victim, which directs anger away from the narcissist who may have fabricated everything about their new partner all along
Triangulation is considered a form of emotional abuse that can occur in any relationship. Your covert narcissistic partner may pull in a third person into your toxic relationship to create conflicts between the two of you so they can manipulate and take advantage of you. Your narcissistic partner then acts as a messenger between you and another person, making sure that there is limited or no communication between the two of you except through the narcissist.
Narcissists often invoke feelings of insecurity and jealousy to maintain control in a relationship. For example, they might tell you about a coworker who keeps flirting with them, creating an illusion that they are desirable. This may cause you to feel insecure and afraid that your partner may leave you.
Or they may tell you stories of how their ex treated them poorly to summon feelings of loyalty and get all your attention. A narcissist will also use triangulation to send you subtle messages of how you must behave to keep them. The covert narcissist will also use this form of emotional abuse once they have decided they don’t want to be with you anymore – they will pull in a third person and talk to them about their intentions.
This is a way of controlling your behavior.
Similarly, your narcissistic friend may use triangulation to manipulate you. He or she might lie and tell a third person things you have been saying about them (which you haven’t said) and vice versa, creating a rivalry and conflicts between the two of you. Typically, all communication would go via the narcissist, but you and the third person would both feel anger, hurt, and tension every time you see each other. For all this time, the narcissist will maintain their guiltlessness, acting empathetic to your issues.
The Three Traditional Parts of the Triangle:
The three specific parts within the triangle in relationships are the Persecutor, the Victim, and the Rescuer. Stephen Karpman first described the destructive model of the drama triangle in late 1960 to explain the dynamic in relationships of narcissistic abuse and other toxic relationships.
The Persecutor
This is the position a narcissist will take when they are on the attack – blaming, controlling, shaming, or aggressive. They will target you as a wrongdoer so they can criticize and blame you.
The Victim
Narcissists will use the ‘victim’ position typically to present themselves as helpless, hopeless, being taken advantage of – in short, being victimized. This allows them to waive any responsibility for their words or actions and blame you instead.
The Rescuer
In a toxic codependent relationship with a narcissist, you may quickly find yourself in the position of the ‘Rescuer’ – the fixer, helper, and pleaser. The ‘Rescuer’ typically accepts responsibility for the ‘Victim’s feelings or behavior, which is a core of dynamics in toxic codependent relationships.
While the narcissist can quickly shift from any of these positions, they most commonly play the persecutor’s or the victim’s roles. Then they pull others into one of the positions within the triangle to create drama, conflict, and other toxic patterns.
Narcissist Hoovering comes in so many different forms, which can make it incredibly difficult for those being targeted to know what’s happening in the moment. Often it’s only in hindsight that they see how the narcissist was manipulating them all along.
1. Making Threats
This might be the most straightforward hoovering tactic, and although it can be incredibly scary, it doesn’t leave any questions about the intentions of the narcissist. Most often they’ll use statements like:
“I’ll destroy you”
“I’m taking the kids”
“Without me, you’ll have nothing”
Those words are designed to make you think that life without the narcissist will be worse, much much worse. Frightening scenarios like losing your home, children, or finances prevent you from thinking clearly about how destructive life with a narcissist has been and how much power they actually have to enact their revenge upon you. Additionally, if you’re in danger physically, don’t assume that appeasing the narcissist will keep you safe. Extricating yourself from the toxic relationship is the only way to ensure that.
2. Using Children or Mutual Friends as a Foot in the Door
The simplest solution to dealing with a narcissist is to walk away and go no-contact. That’s easier said than done though; it’s near impossible if you share a close circle of friends and is unworkable if you share custody of a child with them.
The narcissist will invent problems for the person you care for and use them as an excuse to continue contact. The problem may be fictitious or exaggerated – anything to get your guard down so they can worm their way back into your life.
“Our son is struggling in school, have you been going over his homework with him?”
“I think (our friend) really needs someone with them right now. Do you want to come over with me?”
3. Faux Incidental Contact
Narcissists know that you want nothing to do with them after a discard. Many fabricate innocuous reasons for seeing or speaking to you, such as visiting places around town that you’re known to frequent or calling you by “accident”.
This form of hoovering feels very much like stalking, but it’s done in such a way that you can’t really prove the narcissist is intentionally contacting you. Once they’re in your presence or have you on the line, they’ll ask probing questions about how your life is going post-break-up. If they find a weakness, they’ll exploit it to keep you hooked and providing them with supply.
4. Holding on to Your Belongings
If you’ve ever been through a breakup where you had to move out, you know how awkward it can be to grab all of your stuff. You might send a friend over to do it or ask your former partner to not be around while you pack up, but those methods won’t fly with a narcissist. Not only will they remind you of everything you might have left at their house, they’ll make sure to note anything of theirs in your possession.
“You left some books over here, do you want to come get them?”
“You have one of my shirts, I need you to bring it back”
It’s never about the things though; they’re just an easy talking point that forces you to stay in contact with them. If you’ve recently broken up with a narcissist, make sure you sort out whatever property either of you might have so you can move on as quickly as possible.
5. Boosting Your Ego
The most common reason people fall in love with a narcissist is the intense flattery that occurs at the beginning of the relationship (love bombing). Narcissists can be charming and during the idealization phase, their love for you seems to know no bounds. Unfortunately, they only love how you make them feel through your supply, and that feeling is fleeting. When the feelings cool, devaluation, and discard occur. To pull you back into their circle, the narcissist reverts to that idealization phase, as they crave the initial supply you gave them and the feelings that came with it.
6. Reminiscing About the Past
Few of us would ever fall in love with an abuser – there’s usually at least a brief moment at the beginning of a relationship when everything is going well. When the narcissist wants to pull you back into their life, they’ll remind you of the good times, hoping you’ll forget everything that followed. It helps to keep in mind that the narcissist’s more recent behavior is a better predictor of their future actions than those warm moments from the beginning of the relationship.
7. Promising a Better Future
What’s the one thing we always hear from domestic violence survivors about their abusers? When they lash out, they say they’ll never do it again, only to repeat the same cycle over and over again. While people certainly can change, when the narcissist says that they will, it’s rarely a sincere commitment.
8. Calling on Memorable Dates
“I just thought I’ll give you a call since it’s your birthday, I hope you’re having a wonderful time”
“Today would have been our third anniversary and it got me thinking…”
On the surface this behavior actually actually seems kind of sweet – they’re thinking about you. Unfortunately, their concern for your well-being is just a veneer.
This is an opportunity for them to call you, look like a good person, and keep you on the line. While they’re at it, the narcissist might seek out information about how you’re doing/feeling, which they can use to manipulate you into further contact.
9. One Last Conversation
This is frequently used when you’ve gone no-contact after breaking up with the narcissist and they’ll use it to get their foot in the door.
“I just have a couple things I’d like to say, then we can go our separate ways”
“I really need to explain something”
The conversation that ensues doesn’t provide you with closure or help to clear up a misunderstanding. The narcissist is drawing you in with the possibility of some finality to their Narcissistic abuse – you just need to endure one last conversation. But it’s not the final call, and the content of the conversation will veer wildly from what you assumed it would be. It’s all about pulling you back into the relationship. A similar tactic would be the narcissist saying they “need to see you one last time.”
10. Subtly Reaching Out
Have you ever had an ex that kept liking your Facebook or Instagram posts long after you broke up and stopped talking? Notifications keep popping up with their name in them, and you can’t help but think about them and what their intention is for these likes. Narcissists are experts at this head game and they know the more time you spend wondering about them, the more likely you are to return to the relationship.
11. Appeals to Religious Beliefs
Narcissists frequently use their victim’s faith against them, twisting their beliefs to keep them in the relationship longer.
“I’ve been praying, and God has told me we should be together”
“Divorce is a mortal sin”
“You’ve turned your back on Jesus, I can help you find him again”
Our religious faith contains some of our most deeply held beliefs. When a narcissist hijacks the authority of those beliefs, and forces us to choose between staying with them or ostensibly going against our faith, it can be devastating. Fortunately, faith can also provide you with a community of people that care about you and provide much-needed perspective on your relationship with the narcissist.
12. Glossing Over Past Abuse
This is where the narcissist will pretend that nothing negative happened between the two of you or they’ll minimize it to the point of irrelevance. Their prior emotional abuse will be blown off as “a phase” or “minor argument”, when it was really a series of one-sided attacks. The narcissist has created a new reality where both of you were at fault. Such tactics also make you question the severity of the abuse and whether you overreacted to it. As such, you’re more likely to accept it in the future.
13. Destroying Your Self Worth
By definition, narcissists are highly-skilled at promoting themselves and all of their positive qualities. Many are also quite good at finding faults within you, and pointing out how you’ll never find someone better. They’ll attack the most vulnerable elements of your personality and pounce on the qualities you hold dearest.
“You’re a terrible mother, the kids would be better off without you”
“Everyone at your job hates you and knows you’re the worst employee”
14. Bringing In a Third Party
Narcissists are masters of manipulation and recruiting an army of flying monkeys is one of their most favored tactics. The narcissist will seek out your mutual friends, family members, or even work acquaintances if they can, and use them to pressure you to return to the relationship. The narcissist might mention how much they miss you, how good things had been, or even pin the blame for the break up on you. Using your unwitting contacts against you is particularly damaging as it starts to feel like you have no one who can empathize with your problems. The narcissist’s hope is that you’ll eventually return to them rather than be ostracized by friends and family that believed the relationship was going swimmingly.
15. Threatening to Harm Themselves
One of the quickest ways for a narcissist to get your guard down is by threatening to hurt themselves. It places their victim into a position of responsibility, where walking away would feel immoral.
“I’ll kill myself if you leave me”
“I’ve been cutting ever since we broke up”
This tactic is particularly damaging because you can’t be sure if the narcissist is using these threats to control you or if there is a real possibility of self-harm. If suicide is mentioned, call the police. Though you should never feel responsible for the actions of the narcissist, this is a good way to take the responsibility off of yourself, without feeling guilty about walking away.
How to Combat Hoovering?
There are so many forms of hoovering that there’s really no one-size-fits-all solution. The best thing you can do for yourself is simply recognizing that it’s happening. If it feels like you’re being manipulated in some way, you almost certainly are and it’s best to break contact as quickly as possible.
no one :
no one at all :
Guy who cheated on me 24/7: “seen a heart shaped cloud, it made me think of you”
Me, a dumb cunt : “babe you’re the best ”
Sorry I haven’t been posting lately I’ve been dealing with a skin disease that will scar my face and body for the rest of my life because of the pain full blisters all over my body.
I got this illness from my exboyfriends dirty house. We broke up after he cheated on me then I was diagnosed with this illness the day after … I don’t know what I did to deserve this but I’m trying to remain hopeful that my body will heal and I can go back to normal. Until then no face pics . He cheated on me with my exfriend I told him I hated because she’s a slut and what did he do, he slept with her . Now I’m stuck living with him until I can afford to move out in febuary . He’s a constant painful reminder of the betrayal… I wish I could afford face laser surgery and be beautiful again.
I’m doing everything I can to prevent scars . Using vitamin e oil, Aztec secret clay mask calcium benotinite, benzoyl peroxide face wash, some perscribed toner, and many more products. I just hope people will still find me beautiful. My mom told me at least I don’t have to worry about people using me for my looks so I guess I’m never going to be as beautiful as I was before . And I only just realized my beauty…
Today my applications for SNAP, medical assistance, and cash assistance were denied. So that’s great.
In case you missed it, I am currently trying to raise money to escape my abusive father and move in with my disabled mother upon the finalization of her divorce. Neither my mother nor I can afford to live on our own. I moved back in with my parents at the start of the pandemic after suffering an unrelated mental breakdown. This was a mistake.
I do have a redbubbleshop, where I sell mostly stickers (Fruits Basket, Haikyuu!!, and Persona) and some wallpapers I’ve made as my only source of income, as well as a paypal - Laurrante@ gmail. com (no spaces). I am trying to raise at least $2,000 to cover the initial costs of moving into an apartment with my mother (rent, car insurance, utilities, groceries, and medication for both of us) without my father finding out. He doesn’t know about the divorce and we don’t want him getting wind of it.
My father is abusive emotionally, verbally, and financially. Some of the things he’s done to us include: Refusing to put in the window AC units during a heat wave which almost put me and my mother in the hospital for heat stroke, threatening to poison, kill, or throw out our animals, insults the animals almost daily (calling them stupid, ugly, disgusting, etc, and threatening to eat them), constantly berate and insult us for not being able to work or “not doing anything” during the day, completely control every penny spent and meticulously monitor mail for packages, berate and insult us whenever he has a bad day at work or is annoyed, scare the shit out of our cats by screaming and stomping around and then yell at the cats for not wanting to be near him, and every day undermine everything we say, act like we’re stupid and don’t know what we’re talking about. My father also cheats on my mother, and has since the last time she got out of the hospital after heart surgery. He expects her to do all the housework, yard work, and grocery shopping with no help, and if I attempt to help or do it myself he yells at us both. He’s called me a failure as a daughter, an adult, and a human being.
My father is extremely racist and attempted to disown me several years ago for dating a black man. The only reason I was allowed back in the house was because my mother begged. Our only relationship is his abusive commentary and my trying to ignore it.
Please help my mother, myself, and our cats escape my father. Any amount helps at all. The last time I posted we received $175! I am adding more stickers to my redbubble shop, and am accepting donations through Paypal. It’s my goal to raise at least $2,000 without alerting my father.
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We’ve received $375 in total since Thanksgiving. Thank you so much to the people who donated, and please, if you can spare anything, even just a dollar, consider sending it our way. You can also check out my redbubble if you’re uncomfortable/don’t know how to just send money through Paypal.
We’ve received another $10 bringing the total up to $385.
Yesterday my father announced that we’re not doing Christmas because “I hate Christmas.” This means we aren’t going to the family’s holiday party (my dad’s decision was not influenced by COVID, which he thinks it’s a hoax), no Christmas dinner, no presents. I know my mother has already bought some small presents, and if this is anything like in years past, me receiving them will have my father screaming that I’m ungrateful, selfish, and a drain on his resources, and my father getting presents will have him screaming that my mother wasted money and he hates this day.
The truly fucked up thing is that if she doesn’t buy him presents, or if she and I exchange without him, he also pitches a fit about how we’re excluding him and hate him.
I’m hoping for this to be our last Christmas as a family. Please donate if you can so we can escape this hell.
I’m sorry to keep spamming your feeds. I’ve been denied government assistance again, and finances are extremely tight. My father controls every single penny my mother spends so she’s been saving small amounts from her grocery allowance to try and save for an apartment. On top of this, I also have my own bills to pay, and have an upcoming one of $100 that I don’t know if I’ll be able to pay.
We are both disabled women trying to escape from an abusive situation. To get a little more cash, I have a redbubble shop and we scan all of our receipts in Ibotta, but this has still only brought us up to $402 this month. I am trying to raise at least $1600 more to be able to move into a new apartment with my mother away from my father.
Here’s a link to my redbubble shop
PayPal: Laurrante(at)Gmail)dot(com)
Today my applications for SNAP, medical assistance, and cash assistance were denied. So that’s great.
In case you missed it, I am currently trying to raise money to escape my abusive father and move in with my disabled mother upon the finalization of her divorce. Neither my mother nor I can afford to live on our own. I moved back in with my parents at the start of the pandemic after suffering an unrelated mental breakdown. This was a mistake.
I do have a redbubbleshop, where I sell mostly stickers (Fruits Basket, Haikyuu!!, and Persona) and some wallpapers I’ve made as my only source of income, as well as a paypal - Laurrante@ gmail. com (no spaces). I am trying to raise at least $2,000 to cover the initial costs of moving into an apartment with my mother (rent, car insurance, utilities, groceries, and medication for both of us) without my father finding out. He doesn’t know about the divorce and we don’t want him getting wind of it.
My father is abusive emotionally, verbally, and financially. Some of the things he’s done to us include: Refusing to put in the window AC units during a heat wave which almost put me and my mother in the hospital for heat stroke, threatening to poison, kill, or throw out our animals, insults the animals almost daily (calling them stupid, ugly, disgusting, etc, and threatening to eat them), constantly berate and insult us for not being able to work or “not doing anything” during the day, completely control every penny spent and meticulously monitor mail for packages, berate and insult us whenever he has a bad day at work or is annoyed, scare the shit out of our cats by screaming and stomping around and then yell at the cats for not wanting to be near him, and every day undermine everything we say, act like we’re stupid and don’t know what we’re talking about. My father also cheats on my mother, and has since the last time she got out of the hospital after heart surgery. He expects her to do all the housework, yard work, and grocery shopping with no help, and if I attempt to help or do it myself he yells at us both. He’s called me a failure as a daughter, an adult, and a human being.
My father is extremely racist and attempted to disown me several years ago for dating a black man. The only reason I was allowed back in the house was because my mother begged. Our only relationship is his abusive commentary and my trying to ignore it.
Please help my mother, myself, and our cats escape my father. Any amount helps at all. The last time I posted we received $175! I am adding more stickers to my redbubble shop, and am accepting donations through Paypal. It’s my goal to raise at least $2,000 without alerting my father.
(Pleasereblog this post, rather than like. Only reblogs spread posts through this platform. Likes only bookmark it for yourself and no one can see them.)
We’ve received $375 in total since Thanksgiving. Thank you so much to the people who donated, and please, if you can spare anything, even just a dollar, consider sending it our way. You can also check out my redbubble if you’re uncomfortable/don’t know how to just send money through Paypal.
We’ve received another $10 bringing the total up to $385.
Yesterday my father announced that we’re not doing Christmas because “I hate Christmas.” This means we aren’t going to the family’s holiday party (my dad’s decision was not influenced by COVID, which he thinks it’s a hoax), no Christmas dinner, no presents. I know my mother has already bought some small presents, and if this is anything like in years past, me receiving them will have my father screaming that I’m ungrateful, selfish, and a drain on his resources, and my father getting presents will have him screaming that my mother wasted money and he hates this day.
The truly fucked up thing is that if she doesn’t buy him presents, or if she and I exchange without him, he also pitches a fit about how we’re excluding him and hate him.
I’m hoping for this to be our last Christmas as a family. Please donate if you can so we can escape this hell.
Today my applications for SNAP, medical assistance, and cash assistance were denied. So that’s great.
In case you missed it, I am currently trying to raise money to escape my abusive father and move in with my disabled mother upon the finalization of her divorce. Neither my mother nor I can afford to live on our own. I moved back in with my parents at the start of the pandemic after suffering an unrelated mental breakdown. This was a mistake.
I do have a redbubbleshop, where I sell mostly stickers (Fruits Basket, Haikyuu!!, and Persona) and some wallpapers I’ve made as my only source of income, as well as a paypal - Laurrante@ gmail. com (no spaces). I am trying to raise at least $2,000 to cover the initial costs of moving into an apartment with my mother (rent, car insurance, utilities, groceries, and medication for both of us) without my father finding out. He doesn’t know about the divorce and we don’t want him getting wind of it.
My father is abusive emotionally, verbally, and financially. Some of the things he’s done to us include: Refusing to put in the window AC units during a heat wave which almost put me and my mother in the hospital for heat stroke, threatening to poison, kill, or throw out our animals, insults the animals almost daily (calling them stupid, ugly, disgusting, etc, and threatening to eat them), constantly berate and insult us for not being able to work or “not doing anything” during the day, completely control every penny spent and meticulously monitor mail for packages, berate and insult us whenever he has a bad day at work or is annoyed, scare the shit out of our cats by screaming and stomping around and then yell at the cats for not wanting to be near him, and every day undermine everything we say, act like we’re stupid and don’t know what we’re talking about. My father also cheats on my mother, and has since the last time she got out of the hospital after heart surgery. He expects her to do all the housework, yard work, and grocery shopping with no help, and if I attempt to help or do it myself he yells at us both. He’s called me a failure as a daughter, an adult, and a human being.
My father is extremely racist and attempted to disown me several years ago for dating a black man. The only reason I was allowed back in the house was because my mother begged. Our only relationship is his abusive commentary and my trying to ignore it.
Please help my mother, myself, and our cats escape my father. Any amount helps at all. The last time I posted we received $175! I am adding more stickers to my redbubble shop, and am accepting donations through Paypal. It’s my goal to raise at least $2,000 without alerting my father.
(Pleasereblog this post, rather than like. Only reblogs spread posts through this platform. Likes only bookmark it for yourself and no one can see them.)
We’ve received $375 in total since Thanksgiving. Thank you so much to the people who donated, and please, if you can spare anything, even just a dollar, consider sending it our way. You can also check out my redbubble if you’re uncomfortable/don’t know how to just send money through Paypal.
Today my applications for SNAP, medical assistance, and cash assistance were denied. So that’s great.
In case you missed it, I am currently trying to raise money to escape my abusive father and move in with my disabled mother upon the finalization of her divorce. Neither my mother nor I can afford to live on our own. I moved back in with my parents at the start of the pandemic after suffering an unrelated mental breakdown. This was a mistake.
I do have a redbubbleshop, where I sell mostly stickers (Fruits Basket, Haikyuu!!, and Persona) and some wallpapers I’ve made as my only source of income, as well as a paypal - Laurrante@ gmail. com (no spaces). I am trying to raise at least $2,000 to cover the initial costs of moving into an apartment with my mother (rent, car insurance, utilities, groceries, and medication for both of us) without my father finding out. He doesn’t know about the divorce and we don’t want him getting wind of it.
My father is abusive emotionally, verbally, and financially. Some of the things he’s done to us include: Refusing to put in the window AC units during a heat wave which almost put me and my mother in the hospital for heat stroke, threatening to poison, kill, or throw out our animals, insults the animals almost daily (calling them stupid, ugly, disgusting, etc, and threatening to eat them), constantly berate and insult us for not being able to work or “not doing anything” during the day, completely control every penny spent and meticulously monitor mail for packages, berate and insult us whenever he has a bad day at work or is annoyed, scare the shit out of our cats by screaming and stomping around and then yell at the cats for not wanting to be near him, and every day undermine everything we say, act like we’re stupid and don’t know what we’re talking about. My father also cheats on my mother, and has since the last time she got out of the hospital after heart surgery. He expects her to do all the housework, yard work, and grocery shopping with no help, and if I attempt to help or do it myself he yells at us both. He’s called me a failure as a daughter, an adult, and a human being.
My father is extremely racist and attempted to disown me several years ago for dating a black man. The only reason I was allowed back in the house was because my mother begged. Our only relationship is his abusive commentary and my trying to ignore it.
Please help my mother, myself, and our cats escape my father. Any amount helps at all. The last time I posted we received $175! I am adding more stickers to my redbubble shop, and am accepting donations through Paypal. It’s my goal to raise at least $2,000 without alerting my father.
(Pleasereblog this post, rather than like. Only reblogs spread posts through this platform. Likes only bookmark it for yourself and no one can see them.)
We’ve received $375 in total since Thanksgiving. Thank you so much to the people who donated, and please, if you can spare anything, even just a dollar, consider sending it our way. You can also check out my redbubble if you’re uncomfortable/don’t know how to just send money through Paypal.
Today my applications for SNAP, medical assistance, and cash assistance were denied. So that’s great.
In case you missed it, I am currently trying to raise money to escape my abusive father and move in with my disabled mother upon the finalization of her divorce. Neither my mother nor I can afford to live on our own. I moved back in with my parents at the start of the pandemic after suffering an unrelated mental breakdown. This was a mistake.
I do have a redbubbleshop, where I sell mostly stickers (Fruits Basket, Haikyuu!!, and Persona) and some wallpapers I’ve made as my only source of income, as well as a paypal - Laurrante@ gmail. com (no spaces). I am trying to raise at least $2,000 to cover the initial costs of moving into an apartment with my mother (rent, car insurance, utilities, groceries, and medication for both of us) without my father finding out. He doesn’t know about the divorce and we don’t want him getting wind of it.
My father is abusive emotionally, verbally, and financially. Some of the things he’s done to us include: Refusing to put in the window AC units during a heat wave which almost put me and my mother in the hospital for heat stroke, threatening to poison, kill, or throw out our animals, insults the animals almost daily (calling them stupid, ugly, disgusting, etc, and threatening to eat them), constantly berate and insult us for not being able to work or “not doing anything” during the day, completely control every penny spent and meticulously monitor mail for packages, berate and insult us whenever he has a bad day at work or is annoyed, scare the shit out of our cats by screaming and stomping around and then yell at the cats for not wanting to be near him, and every day undermine everything we say, act like we’re stupid and don’t know what we’re talking about. My father also cheats on my mother, and has since the last time she got out of the hospital after heart surgery. He expects her to do all the housework, yard work, and grocery shopping with no help, and if I attempt to help or do it myself he yells at us both. He’s called me a failure as a daughter, an adult, and a human being.
My father is extremely racist and attempted to disown me several years ago for dating a black man. The only reason I was allowed back in the house was because my mother begged. Our only relationship is his abusive commentary and my trying to ignore it.
Please help my mother, myself, and our cats escape my father. Any amount helps at all. The last time I posted we received $175! I am adding more stickers to my redbubble shop, and am accepting donations through Paypal. It’s my goal to raise at least $2,000 without alerting my father.
(Pleasereblog this post, rather than like. Only reblogs spread posts through this platform. Likes only bookmark it for yourself and no one can see them.)
We’ve received $375 in total since Thanksgiving. Thank you so much to the people who donated, and please, if you can spare anything, even just a dollar, consider sending it our way. You can also check out my redbubble if you’re uncomfortable/don’t know how to just send money through Paypal.
Today my applications for SNAP, medical assistance, and cash assistance were denied. So that’s great.
In case you missed it, I am currently trying to raise money to escape my abusive father and move in with my disabled mother upon the finalization of her divorce. Neither my mother nor I can afford to live on our own. I moved back in with my parents at the start of the pandemic after suffering an unrelated mental breakdown. This was a mistake.
I do have a redbubbleshop, where I sell mostly stickers (Fruits Basket, Haikyuu!!, and Persona) and some wallpapers I’ve made as my only source of income, as well as a paypal - Laurrante@ gmail. com (no spaces). I am trying to raise at least $2,000 to cover the initial costs of moving into an apartment with my mother (rent, car insurance, utilities, groceries, and medication for both of us) without my father finding out. He doesn’t know about the divorce and we don’t want him getting wind of it.
My father is abusive emotionally, verbally, and financially. Some of the things he’s done to us include: Refusing to put in the window AC units during a heat wave which almost put me and my mother in the hospital for heat stroke, threatening to poison, kill, or throw out our animals, insults the animals almost daily (calling them stupid, ugly, disgusting, etc, and threatening to eat them), constantly berate and insult us for not being able to work or “not doing anything” during the day, completely control every penny spent and meticulously monitor mail for packages, berate and insult us whenever he has a bad day at work or is annoyed, scare the shit out of our cats by screaming and stomping around and then yell at the cats for not wanting to be near him, and every day undermine everything we say, act like we’re stupid and don’t know what we’re talking about. My father also cheats on my mother, and has since the last time she got out of the hospital after heart surgery. He expects her to do all the housework, yard work, and grocery shopping with no help, and if I attempt to help or do it myself he yells at us both. He’s called me a failure as a daughter, an adult, and a human being.
My father is extremely racist and attempted to disown me several years ago for dating a black man. The only reason I was allowed back in the house was because my mother begged. Our only relationship is his abusive commentary and my trying to ignore it.
Please help my mother, myself, and our cats escape my father. Any amount helps at all. The last time I posted we received $175! I am adding more stickers to my redbubble shop, and am accepting donations through Paypal. It’s my goal to raise at least $2,000 without alerting my father.
(Pleasereblog this post, rather than like. Only reblogs spread posts through this platform. Likes only bookmark it for yourself and no one can see them.)
We’ve received $375 in total since Thanksgiving. Thank you so much to the people who donated, and please, if you can spare anything, even just a dollar, consider sending it our way. You can also check out my redbubble if you’re uncomfortable/don’t know how to just send money through Paypal.
Today my applications for SNAP, medical assistance, and cash assistance were denied. So that’s great.
In case you missed it, I am currently trying to raise money to escape my abusive father and move in with my disabled mother upon the finalization of her divorce. Neither my mother nor I can afford to live on our own. I moved back in with my parents at the start of the pandemic after suffering an unrelated mental breakdown. This was a mistake.
I do have a redbubbleshop, where I sell mostly stickers (Fruits Basket, Haikyuu!!, and Persona) and some wallpapers I’ve made as my only source of income, as well as a paypal - Laurrante@ gmail. com (no spaces). I am trying to raise at least $2,000 to cover the initial costs of moving into an apartment with my mother (rent, car insurance, utilities, groceries, and medication for both of us) without my father finding out. He doesn’t know about the divorce and we don’t want him getting wind of it.
My father is abusive emotionally, verbally, and financially. Some of the things he’s done to us include: Refusing to put in the window AC units during a heat wave which almost put me and my mother in the hospital for heat stroke, threatening to poison, kill, or throw out our animals, insults the animals almost daily (calling them stupid, ugly, disgusting, etc, and threatening to eat them), constantly berate and insult us for not being able to work or “not doing anything” during the day, completely control every penny spent and meticulously monitor mail for packages, berate and insult us whenever he has a bad day at work or is annoyed, scare the shit out of our cats by screaming and stomping around and then yell at the cats for not wanting to be near him, and every day undermine everything we say, act like we’re stupid and don’t know what we’re talking about. My father also cheats on my mother, and has since the last time she got out of the hospital after heart surgery. He expects her to do all the housework, yard work, and grocery shopping with no help, and if I attempt to help or do it myself he yells at us both. He’s called me a failure as a daughter, an adult, and a human being.
My father is extremely racist and attempted to disown me several years ago for dating a black man. The only reason I was allowed back in the house was because my mother begged. Our only relationship is his abusive commentary and my trying to ignore it.
Please help my mother, myself, and our cats escape my father. Any amount helps at all. The last time I posted we received $175! I am adding more stickers to my redbubble shop, and am accepting donations through Paypal. It’s my goal to raise at least $2,000 without alerting my father.
(Pleasereblog this post, rather than like. Only reblogs spread posts through this platform. Likes only bookmark it for yourself and no one can see them.)
Today my applications for SNAP, medical assistance, and cash assistance were denied. So that’s great.
In case you missed it, I am currently trying to raise money to escape my abusive father and move in with my disabled mother upon the finalization of her divorce. Neither my mother nor I can afford to live on our own. I moved back in with my parents at the start of the pandemic after suffering an unrelated mental breakdown. This was a mistake.
I do have a redbubbleshop, where I sell mostly stickers (Fruits Basket, Haikyuu!!, and Persona) and some wallpapers I’ve made as my only source of income, as well as a paypal - Laurrante@ gmail. com (no spaces). I am trying to raise at least $2,000 to cover the initial costs of moving into an apartment with my mother (rent, car insurance, utilities, groceries, and medication for both of us) without my father finding out. He doesn’t know about the divorce and we don’t want him getting wind of it.
My father is abusive emotionally, verbally, and financially. Some of the things he’s done to us include: Refusing to put in the window AC units during a heat wave which almost put me and my mother in the hospital for heat stroke, threatening to poison, kill, or throw out our animals, insults the animals almost daily (calling them stupid, ugly, disgusting, etc, and threatening to eat them), constantly berate and insult us for not being able to work or “not doing anything” during the day, completely control every penny spent and meticulously monitor mail for packages, berate and insult us whenever he has a bad day at work or is annoyed, scare the shit out of our cats by screaming and stomping around and then yell at the cats for not wanting to be near him, and every day undermine everything we say, act like we’re stupid and don’t know what we’re talking about. My father also cheats on my mother, and has since the last time she got out of the hospital after heart surgery. He expects her to do all the housework, yard work, and grocery shopping with no help, and if I attempt to help or do it myself he yells at us both. He’s called me a failure as a daughter, an adult, and a human being.
My father is extremely racist and attempted to disown me several years ago for dating a black man. The only reason I was allowed back in the house was because my mother begged. Our only relationship is his abusive commentary and my trying to ignore it.
Please help my mother, myself, and our cats escape my father. Any amount helps at all. The last time I posted we received $175! I am adding more stickers to my redbubble shop, and am accepting donations through Paypal. It’s my goal to raise at least $2,000 without alerting my father.
(Pleasereblog this post, rather than like. Only reblogs spread posts through this platform. Likes only bookmark it for yourself and no one can see them.)
Today my applications for SNAP, medical assistance, and cash assistance were denied. So that’s great.
In case you missed it, I am currently trying to raise money to escape my abusive father and move in with my disabled mother upon the finalization of her divorce. Neither my mother nor I can afford to live on our own. I moved back in with my parents at the start of the pandemic after suffering an unrelated mental breakdown. This was a mistake.
I do have a redbubbleshop, where I sell mostly stickers (Fruits Basket, Haikyuu!!, and Persona) and some wallpapers I’ve made as my only source of income, as well as a paypal - Laurrante@ gmail. com (no spaces). I am trying to raise at least $2,000 to cover the initial costs of moving into an apartment with my mother (rent, car insurance, utilities, groceries, and medication for both of us) without my father finding out. He doesn’t know about the divorce and we don’t want him getting wind of it.
My father is abusive emotionally, verbally, and financially. Some of the things he’s done to us include: Refusing to put in the window AC units during a heat wave which almost put me and my mother in the hospital for heat stroke, threatening to poison, kill, or throw out our animals, insults the animals almost daily (calling them stupid, ugly, disgusting, etc, and threatening to eat them), constantly berate and insult us for not being able to work or “not doing anything” during the day, completely control every penny spent and meticulously monitor mail for packages, berate and insult us whenever he has a bad day at work or is annoyed, scare the shit out of our cats by screaming and stomping around and then yell at the cats for not wanting to be near him, and every day undermine everything we say, act like we’re stupid and don’t know what we’re talking about. My father also cheats on my mother, and has since the last time she got out of the hospital after heart surgery. He expects her to do all the housework, yard work, and grocery shopping with no help, and if I attempt to help or do it myself he yells at us both. He’s called me a failure as a daughter, an adult, and a human being.
My father is extremely racist and attempted to disown me several years ago for dating a black man. The only reason I was allowed back in the house was because my mother begged. Our only relationship is his abusive commentary and my trying to ignore it.
Please help my mother, myself, and our cats escape my father. Any amount helps at all. The last time I posted we received $175! I am adding more stickers to my redbubble shop, and am accepting donations through Paypal. It’s my goal to raise at least $2,000 without alerting my father.
(Pleasereblog this post, rather than like. Only reblogs spread posts through this platform. Likes only bookmark it for yourself and no one can see them.)
Today my applications for SNAP, medical assistance, and cash assistance were denied. So that’s great.
In case you missed it, I am currently trying to raise money to escape my abusive father and move in with my disabled mother upon the finalization of her divorce. Neither my mother nor I can afford to live on our own. I moved back in with my parents at the start of the pandemic after suffering an unrelated mental breakdown. This was a mistake.
I do have a redbubbleshop, where I sell mostly stickers (Fruits Basket, Haikyuu!!, and Persona) and some wallpapers I’ve made as my only source of income, as well as a paypal - Laurrante@ gmail. com (no spaces). I am trying to raise at least $2,000 to cover the initial costs of moving into an apartment with my mother (rent, car insurance, utilities, groceries, and medication for both of us) without my father finding out. He doesn’t know about the divorce and we don’t want him getting wind of it.
My father is abusive emotionally, verbally, and financially. Some of the things he’s done to us include: Refusing to put in the window AC units during a heat wave which almost put me and my mother in the hospital for heat stroke, threatening to poison, kill, or throw out our animals, insults the animals almost daily (calling them stupid, ugly, disgusting, etc, and threatening to eat them), constantly berate and insult us for not being able to work or “not doing anything” during the day, completely control every penny spent and meticulously monitor mail for packages, berate and insult us whenever he has a bad day at work or is annoyed, scare the shit out of our cats by screaming and stomping around and then yell at the cats for not wanting to be near him, and every day undermine everything we say, act like we’re stupid and don’t know what we’re talking about. My father also cheats on my mother, and has since the last time she got out of the hospital after heart surgery. He expects her to do all the housework, yard work, and grocery shopping with no help, and if I attempt to help or do it myself he yells at us both. He’s called me a failure as a daughter, an adult, and a human being.
My father is extremely racist and attempted to disown me several years ago for dating a black man. The only reason I was allowed back in the house was because my mother begged. Our only relationship is his abusive commentary and my trying to ignore it.
Please help my mother, myself, and our cats escape my father. Any amount helps at all. The last time I posted we received $175! I am adding more stickers to my redbubble shop, and am accepting donations through Paypal. It’s my goal to raise at least $2,000 without alerting my father.
(Pleasereblog this post, rather than like. Only reblogs spread posts through this platform. Likes only bookmark it for yourself and no one can see them.)
Hey everyone, I really need help. I had to move back into my parents’ house during the pandemic when I became very sick, and my depression skyrocketed. I am disabled and chronically ill and I can’t work, and I only recently got health insurance (Medicaid) but cannot afford a therapist or medication (none near me take Medicaid).
My parents are divorcing, which is good for them because my father is an absolutely awful, abusive piece of shit, but bad for me. I don’t have a place to go, and I used all my savings to scrape through the pandemic. I am trying to afford to be able to move in with my mom (also disabled) to split rent because I cannot stay in this house without her protection, and she can’t really afford an apartment without a roommate.
My father has on numerous occasions threatened to kill my animals, refused to let me use the air conditioning in a heat wave (nearly went to the hospital for heat stroke and inability to breathe), threatens to kick my cats out or hit them at least once a week, and constantly berates, belittles, and insults me because I’m disabled, autistic, and mentally ill. If I’d been able to support myself I never would have moved in during the pandemic because I’ve been trying my whole life to get away from him. He doesn’t want anything to do with me and had called me the worst daughter and a failure as a human being, and also told me I deserved every bad thing that’s ever happened to me (being raped, being in an abusive relationship, losing my child). My father never does anything for himself and when my mom leaves he’s said I can only stay if I wait on him hand and foot like my mother did, and there’s no guarantee he won’t throw me out anyway when he moves his girlfriend in. He’s also threatening to sell my car, meaning I will be trapped in the house until he decides to come home at the end of the night.
I don’t have anywhere to go and I feel bad asking for help but even a dollar would help immensely. I need to be able to find a therapist and get medication, and then start the process of applying for disability, and find some way to get rent to my mom so I can move out with her and get away from my father.
My PayPal is laurrante @ Gmail(.) com. Please, every little bit helps. I just want to get me, my cats, and my mom away from this man.
This is from my main blog. Please, if you can spare even a dollar, my mom and I are trying to escape financial and emotional abuse
I’ve gotten a few reblogs but most are from me and my side blogs. Please, please, if you can’t donate, reblog to spread the word. You can donate directly to my PayPal at laurrante@ Gmail(.)com (no spaces). I don’t want to risk my father stumbling over something public like a GoFundMe because he doesn’t know my mother is divorcing him and trying to leave.
Please reblog this post to spread out around. Likes are appreciated but the way Tumblr works its nobody can see your likes. Please reblog if you can’t donate. My mom and I really appreciate it.
Thank you so much to S (I don’t know if you want your name out there) - so far they’re the only person who’s been able to donate but that’s still more money than my mom and I had! We appreciate it!
We’re looking at roughly $2,000 to be able to move out away from my father, and that’s just for rent (first, last, deposit) and some groceries, and that’s if my father complies with the divorce terms and pays his alimony. Please, even a dollar would help. Thanks to S, we need $1980! Please reblog if you can’t donate, every dollar helps so much.My mother and I have received very few donations. We are unable to find a place to live and both of us are disabled. I’ve started looking into cashback apps like Ibotta just for some change on things we already buy, so please, if you’re able to, even a dollar would help immensely. To put it in perspective, I have two thousand followers. A single dollar from each of you would help my mother and me reach our goal of $2,000. Every little bit helps and is greatly appreciated.
Hey everyone, I really need help. I had to move back into my parents’ house during the pandemic when I became very sick, and my depression skyrocketed. I am disabled and chronically ill and I can’t work, and I only recently got health insurance (Medicaid) but cannot afford a therapist or medication (none near me take Medicaid).
My parents are divorcing, which is good for them because my father is an absolutely awful, abusive piece of shit, but bad for me. I don’t have a place to go, and I used all my savings to scrape through the pandemic. I am trying to afford to be able to move in with my mom (also disabled) to split rent because I cannot stay in this house without her protection, and she can’t really afford an apartment without a roommate.
My father has on numerous occasions threatened to kill my animals, refused to let me use the air conditioning in a heat wave (nearly went to the hospital for heat stroke and inability to breathe), threatens to kick my cats out or hit them at least once a week, and constantly berates, belittles, and insults me because I’m disabled, autistic, and mentally ill. If I’d been able to support myself I never would have moved in during the pandemic because I’ve been trying my whole life to get away from him. He doesn’t want anything to do with me and had called me the worst daughter and a failure as a human being, and also told me I deserved every bad thing that’s ever happened to me (being raped, being in an abusive relationship, losing my child). My father never does anything for himself and when my mom leaves he’s said I can only stay if I wait on him hand and foot like my mother did, and there’s no guarantee he won’t throw me out anyway when he moves his girlfriend in. He’s also threatening to sell my car, meaning I will be trapped in the house until he decides to come home at the end of the night.
I don’t have anywhere to go and I feel bad asking for help but even a dollar would help immensely. I need to be able to find a therapist and get medication, and then start the process of applying for disability, and find some way to get rent to my mom so I can move out with her and get away from my father.
My PayPal is laurrante @ Gmail(.) com. Please, every little bit helps. I just want to get me, my cats, and my mom away from this man.
This is from my main blog. Please, if you can spare even a dollar, my mom and I are trying to escape financial and emotional abuse
I’ve gotten a few reblogs but most are from me and my side blogs. Please, please, if you can’t donate, reblog to spread the word. You can donate directly to my PayPal at laurrante@ Gmail(.)com (no spaces). I don’t want to risk my father stumbling over something public like a GoFundMe because he doesn’t know my mother is divorcing him and trying to leave.
Please reblog this post to spread out around. Likes are appreciated but the way Tumblr works its nobody can see your likes. Please reblog if you can’t donate. My mom and I really appreciate it.
Thank you so much to S (I don’t know if you want your name out there) - so far they’re the only person who’s been able to donate but that’s still more money than my mom and I had! We appreciate it!
We’re looking at roughly $2,000 to be able to move out away from my father, and that’s just for rent (first, last, deposit) and some groceries, and that’s if my father complies with the divorce terms and pays his alimony. Please, even a dollar would help. Thanks to S, we need $1980! Please reblog if you can’t donate, every dollar helps so much.My mother and I have received very few donations. We are unable to find a place to live and both of us are disabled. I’ve started looking into cashback apps like Ibotta just for some change on things we already buy, so please, if you’re able to, even a dollar would help immensely. To put it in perspective, I have two thousand followers. A single dollar from each of you would help my mother and me reach our goal of $2,000. Every little bit helps and is greatly appreciated.
Hey everyone, I really need help. I had to move back into my parents’ house during the pandemic when I became very sick, and my depression skyrocketed. I am disabled and chronically ill and I can’t work, and I only recently got health insurance (Medicaid) but cannot afford a therapist or medication (none near me take Medicaid).
My parents are divorcing, which is good for them because my father is an absolutely awful, abusive piece of shit, but bad for me. I don’t have a place to go, and I used all my savings to scrape through the pandemic. I am trying to afford to be able to move in with my mom (also disabled) to split rent because I cannot stay in this house without her protection, and she can’t really afford an apartment without a roommate.
My father has on numerous occasions threatened to kill my animals, refused to let me use the air conditioning in a heat wave (nearly went to the hospital for heat stroke and inability to breathe), threatens to kick my cats out or hit them at least once a week, and constantly berates, belittles, and insults me because I’m disabled, autistic, and mentally ill. If I’d been able to support myself I never would have moved in during the pandemic because I’ve been trying my whole life to get away from him. He doesn’t want anything to do with me and had called me the worst daughter and a failure as a human being, and also told me I deserved every bad thing that’s ever happened to me (being raped, being in an abusive relationship, losing my child). My father never does anything for himself and when my mom leaves he’s said I can only stay if I wait on him hand and foot like my mother did, and there’s no guarantee he won’t throw me out anyway when he moves his girlfriend in. He’s also threatening to sell my car, meaning I will be trapped in the house until he decides to come home at the end of the night.
I don’t have anywhere to go and I feel bad asking for help but even a dollar would help immensely. I need to be able to find a therapist and get medication, and then start the process of applying for disability, and find some way to get rent to my mom so I can move out with her and get away from my father.
My PayPal is laurrante @ Gmail(.) com. Please, every little bit helps. I just want to get me, my cats, and my mom away from this man.
This is from my main blog. Please, if you can spare even a dollar, my mom and I are trying to escape financial and emotional abuse
I’ve gotten a few reblogs but most are from me and my side blogs. Please, please, if you can’t donate, reblog to spread the word. You can donate directly to my PayPal at laurrante@ Gmail(.)com (no spaces). I don’t want to risk my father stumbling over something public like a GoFundMe because he doesn’t know my mother is divorcing him and trying to leave.
Please reblog this post to spread out around. Likes are appreciated but the way Tumblr works its nobody can see your likes. Please reblog if you can’t donate. My mom and I really appreciate it.
Thank you so much to S (I don’t know if you want your name out there) - so far they’re the only person who’s been able to donate but that’s still more money than my mom and I had! We appreciate it!
We’re looking at roughly $2,000 to be able to move out away from my father, and that’s just for rent (first, last, deposit) and some groceries, and that’s if my father complies with the divorce terms and pays his alimony. Please, even a dollar would help. Thanks to S, we need $1980! Please reblog if you can’t donate, every dollar helps so much.
My mother and I have received very few donations. We are unable to find a place to live and both of us are disabled. I’ve started looking into cashback apps like Ibotta just for some change on things we already buy, so please, if you’re able to, even a dollar would help immensely. To put it in perspective, I have two thousand followers. A single dollar from each of you would help my mother and me reach our goal of $2,000. Every little bit helps and is greatly appreciated.
Hey everyone, I really need help. I had to move back into my parents’ house during the pandemic when I became very sick, and my depression skyrocketed. I am disabled and chronically ill and I can’t work, and I only recently got health insurance (Medicaid) but cannot afford a therapist or medication (none near me take Medicaid).
My parents are divorcing, which is good for them because my father is an absolutely awful, abusive piece of shit, but bad for me. I don’t have a place to go, and I used all my savings to scrape through the pandemic. I am trying to afford to be able to move in with my mom (also disabled) to split rent because I cannot stay in this house without her protection, and she can’t really afford an apartment without a roommate.
My father has on numerous occasions threatened to kill my animals, refused to let me use the air conditioning in a heat wave (nearly went to the hospital for heat stroke and inability to breathe), threatens to kick my cats out or hit them at least once a week, and constantly berates, belittles, and insults me because I’m disabled, autistic, and mentally ill. If I’d been able to support myself I never would have moved in during the pandemic because I’ve been trying my whole life to get away from him. He doesn’t want anything to do with me and had called me the worst daughter and a failure as a human being, and also told me I deserved every bad thing that’s ever happened to me (being raped, being in an abusive relationship, losing my child). My father never does anything for himself and when my mom leaves he’s said I can only stay if I wait on him hand and foot like my mother did, and there’s no guarantee he won’t throw me out anyway when he moves his girlfriend in. He’s also threatening to sell my car, meaning I will be trapped in the house until he decides to come home at the end of the night.
I don’t have anywhere to go and I feel bad asking for help but even a dollar would help immensely. I need to be able to find a therapist and get medication, and then start the process of applying for disability, and find some way to get rent to my mom so I can move out with her and get away from my father.
My PayPal is laurrante @ Gmail(.) com. Please, every little bit helps. I just want to get me, my cats, and my mom away from this man.
This is from my main blog. Please, if you can spare even a dollar, my mom and I are trying to escape financial and emotional abuse
I’ve gotten a few reblogs but most are from me and my side blogs. Please, please, if you can’t donate, reblog to spread the word. You can donate directly to my PayPal at laurrante@ Gmail(.)com (no spaces). I don’t want to risk my father stumbling over something public like a GoFundMe because he doesn’t know my mother is divorcing him and trying to leave.
Please reblog this post to spread out around. Likes are appreciated but the way Tumblr works its nobody can see your likes. Please reblog if you can’t donate. My mom and I really appreciate it.
Thank you so much to S (I don’t know if you want your name out there) - so far they’re the only person who’s been able to donate but that’s still more money than my mom and I had! We appreciate it!
We’re looking at roughly $2,000 to be able to move out away from my father, and that’s just for rent (first, last, deposit) and some groceries, and that’s if my father complies with the divorce terms and pays his alimony. Please, even a dollar would help. Thanks to S, we need $1980! Please reblog if you can’t donate, every dollar helps so much.
Hey everyone, I really need help. I had to move back into my parents’ house during the pandemic when I became very sick, and my depression skyrocketed. I am disabled and chronically ill and I can’t work, and I only recently got health insurance (Medicaid) but cannot afford a therapist or medication (none near me take Medicaid).
My parents are divorcing, which is good for them because my father is an absolutely awful, abusive piece of shit, but bad for me. I don’t have a place to go, and I used all my savings to scrape through the pandemic. I am trying to afford to be able to move in with my mom (also disabled) to split rent because I cannot stay in this house without her protection, and she can’t really afford an apartment without a roommate.
My father has on numerous occasions threatened to kill my animals, refused to let me use the air conditioning in a heat wave (nearly went to the hospital for heat stroke and inability to breathe), threatens to kick my cats out or hit them at least once a week, and constantly berates, belittles, and insults me because I’m disabled, autistic, and mentally ill. If I’d been able to support myself I never would have moved in during the pandemic because I’ve been trying my whole life to get away from him. He doesn’t want anything to do with me and had called me the worst daughter and a failure as a human being, and also told me I deserved every bad thing that’s ever happened to me (being raped, being in an abusive relationship, losing my child). My father never does anything for himself and when my mom leaves he’s said I can only stay if I wait on him hand and foot like my mother did, and there’s no guarantee he won’t throw me out anyway when he moves his girlfriend in. He’s also threatening to sell my car, meaning I will be trapped in the house until he decides to come home at the end of the night.
I don’t have anywhere to go and I feel bad asking for help but even a dollar would help immensely. I need to be able to find a therapist and get medication, and then start the process of applying for disability, and find some way to get rent to my mom so I can move out with her and get away from my father.
My PayPal is laurrante @ Gmail(.) com. Please, every little bit helps. I just want to get me, my cats, and my mom away from this man.
This is from my main blog. Please, if you can spare even a dollar, my mom and I are trying to escape financial and emotional abuse
I’ve gotten a few reblogs but most are from me and my side blogs. Please, please, if you can’t donate, reblog to spread the word. You can donate directly to my PayPal at laurrante@ Gmail(.)com (no spaces). I don’t want to risk my father stumbling over something public like a GoFundMe because he doesn’t know my mother is divorcing him and trying to leave.
Please reblog this post to spread out around. Likes are appreciated but the way Tumblr works its nobody can see your likes. Please reblog if you can’t donate. My mom and I really appreciate it.
Thank you so much to S (I don’t know if you want your name out there) - so far they’re the only person who’s been able to donate but that’s still more money than my mom and I had! We appreciate it!
We’re looking at roughly $2,000 to be able to move out away from my father, and that’s just for rent (first, last, deposit) and some groceries, and that’s if my father complies with the divorce terms and pays his alimony. Please, even a dollar would help. Thanks to S, we need $1980! Please reblog if you can’t donate, every dollar helps so much.
Hey everyone, I really need help. I had to move back into my parents’ house during the pandemic when I became very sick, and my depression skyrocketed. I am disabled and chronically ill and I can’t work, and I only recently got health insurance (Medicaid) but cannot afford a therapist or medication (none near me take Medicaid).
My parents are divorcing, which is good for them because my father is an absolutely awful, abusive piece of shit, but bad for me. I don’t have a place to go, and I used all my savings to scrape through the pandemic. I am trying to afford to be able to move in with my mom (also disabled) to split rent because I cannot stay in this house without her protection, and she can’t really afford an apartment without a roommate.
My father has on numerous occasions threatened to kill my animals, refused to let me use the air conditioning in a heat wave (nearly went to the hospital for heat stroke and inability to breathe), threatens to kick my cats out or hit them at least once a week, and constantly berates, belittles, and insults me because I’m disabled, autistic, and mentally ill. If I’d been able to support myself I never would have moved in during the pandemic because I’ve been trying my whole life to get away from him. He doesn’t want anything to do with me and had called me the worst daughter and a failure as a human being, and also told me I deserved every bad thing that’s ever happened to me (being raped, being in an abusive relationship, losing my child). My father never does anything for himself and when my mom leaves he’s said I can only stay if I wait on him hand and foot like my mother did, and there’s no guarantee he won’t throw me out anyway when he moves his girlfriend in. He’s also threatening to sell my car, meaning I will be trapped in the house until he decides to come home at the end of the night.
I don’t have anywhere to go and I feel bad asking for help but even a dollar would help immensely. I need to be able to find a therapist and get medication, and then start the process of applying for disability, and find some way to get rent to my mom so I can move out with her and get away from my father.
My PayPal is laurrante @ Gmail(.) com. Please, every little bit helps. I just want to get me, my cats, and my mom away from this man.
This is from my main blog. Please, if you can spare even a dollar, my mom and I are trying to escape financial and emotional abuse
I’ve gotten a few reblogs but most are from me and my side blogs. Please, please, if you can’t donate, reblog to spread the word. You can donate directly to my PayPal at laurrante@ Gmail(.)com (no spaces). I don’t want to risk my father stumbling over something public like a GoFundMe because he doesn’t know my mother is divorcing him and trying to leave.
Please reblog this post to spread out around. Likes are appreciated but the way Tumblr works its nobody can see your likes. Please reblog if you can’t donate. My mom and I really appreciate it.
Thank you so much to S (I don’t know if you want your name out there) - so far they’re the only person who’s been able to donate but that’s still more money than my mom and I had! We appreciate it!
We’re looking at roughly $2,000 to be able to move out away from my father, and that’s just for rent (first, last, deposit) and some groceries, and that’s if my father complies with the divorce terms and pays his alimony. Please, even a dollar would help. Thanks to S, we need $1980! Please reblog if you can’t donate, every dollar helps so much.
Hey everyone, I really need help. I had to move back into my parents’ house during the pandemic when I became very sick, and my depression skyrocketed. I am disabled and chronically ill and I can’t work, and I only recently got health insurance (Medicaid) but cannot afford a therapist or medication (none near me take Medicaid).
My parents are divorcing, which is good for them because my father is an absolutely awful, abusive piece of shit, but bad for me. I don’t have a place to go, and I used all my savings to scrape through the pandemic. I am trying to afford to be able to move in with my mom (also disabled) to split rent because I cannot stay in this house without her protection, and she can’t really afford an apartment without a roommate.
My father has on numerous occasions threatened to kill my animals, refused to let me use the air conditioning in a heat wave (nearly went to the hospital for heat stroke and inability to breathe), threatens to kick my cats out or hit them at least once a week, and constantly berates, belittles, and insults me because I’m disabled, autistic, and mentally ill. If I’d been able to support myself I never would have moved in during the pandemic because I’ve been trying my whole life to get away from him. He doesn’t want anything to do with me and had called me the worst daughter and a failure as a human being, and also told me I deserved every bad thing that’s ever happened to me (being raped, being in an abusive relationship, losing my child). My father never does anything for himself and when my mom leaves he’s said I can only stay if I wait on him hand and foot like my mother did, and there’s no guarantee he won’t throw me out anyway when he moves his girlfriend in. He’s also threatening to sell my car, meaning I will be trapped in the house until he decides to come home at the end of the night.
I don’t have anywhere to go and I feel bad asking for help but even a dollar would help immensely. I need to be able to find a therapist and get medication, and then start the process of applying for disability, and find some way to get rent to my mom so I can move out with her and get away from my father.
My PayPal is laurrante @ Gmail(.) com. Please, every little bit helps. I just want to get me, my cats, and my mom away from this man.
This is from my main blog. Please, if you can spare even a dollar, my mom and I are trying to escape financial and emotional abuse
I’ve gotten a few reblogs but most are from me and my side blogs. Please, please, if you can’t donate, reblog to spread the word. You can donate directly to my PayPal at laurrante@ Gmail(.)com (no spaces). I don’t want to risk my father stumbling over something public like a GoFundMe because he doesn’t know my mother is divorcing him and trying to leave.
Please reblog this post to spread out around. Likes are appreciated but the way Tumblr works its nobody can see your likes. Please reblog if you can’t donate. My mom and I really appreciate it.
Thank you so much to S (I don’t know if you want your name out there) - so far they’re the only person who’s been able to donate but that’s still more money than my mom and I had! We appreciate it!
We’re looking at roughly $2,000 to be able to move out away from my father, and that’s just for rent (first, last, deposit) and some groceries, and that’s if my father complies with the divorce terms and pays his alimony. Please, even a dollar would help. Thanks to S, we need $1980! Please reblog if you can’t donate, every dollar helps so much.
Hey everyone, I really need help. I had to move back into my parents’ house during the pandemic when I became very sick, and my depression skyrocketed. I am disabled and chronically ill and I can’t work, and I only recently got health insurance (Medicaid) but cannot afford a therapist or medication (none near me take Medicaid).
My parents are divorcing, which is good for them because my father is an absolutely awful, abusive piece of shit, but bad for me. I don’t have a place to go, and I used all my savings to scrape through the pandemic. I am trying to afford to be able to move in with my mom (also disabled) to split rent because I cannot stay in this house without her protection, and she can’t really afford an apartment without a roommate.
My father has on numerous occasions threatened to kill my animals, refused to let me use the air conditioning in a heat wave (nearly went to the hospital for heat stroke and inability to breathe), threatens to kick my cats out or hit them at least once a week, and constantly berates, belittles, and insults me because I’m disabled, autistic, and mentally ill. If I’d been able to support myself I never would have moved in during the pandemic because I’ve been trying my whole life to get away from him. He doesn’t want anything to do with me and had called me the worst daughter and a failure as a human being, and also told me I deserved every bad thing that’s ever happened to me (being raped, being in an abusive relationship, losing my child). My father never does anything for himself and when my mom leaves he’s said I can only stay if I wait on him hand and foot like my mother did, and there’s no guarantee he won’t throw me out anyway when he moves his girlfriend in. He’s also threatening to sell my car, meaning I will be trapped in the house until he decides to come home at the end of the night.
I don’t have anywhere to go and I feel bad asking for help but even a dollar would help immensely. I need to be able to find a therapist and get medication, and then start the process of applying for disability, and find some way to get rent to my mom so I can move out with her and get away from my father.
My PayPal is laurrante @ Gmail(.) com. Please, every little bit helps. I just want to get me, my cats, and my mom away from this man.
This is from my main blog. Please, if you can spare even a dollar, my mom and I are trying to escape financial and emotional abuse
I’ve gotten a few reblogs but most are from me and my side blogs. Please, please, if you can’t donate, reblog to spread the word. You can donate directly to my PayPal at laurrante@ Gmail(.)com (no spaces). I don’t want to risk my father stumbling over something public like a GoFundMe because he doesn’t know my mother is divorcing him and trying to leave.
Please reblog this post to spread out around. Likes are appreciated but the way Tumblr works its nobody can see your likes. Please reblog if you can’t donate. My mom and I really appreciate it.
Thank you so much to S (I don’t know if you want your name out there) - so far they’re the only person who’s been able to donate but that’s still more money than my mom and I had! We appreciate it!
We’re looking at roughly $2,000 to be able to move out away from my father, and that’s just for rent (first, last, deposit) and some groceries, and that’s if my father complies with the divorce terms and pays his alimony. Please, even a dollar would help. Thanks to S, we need $1980! Please reblog if you can’t donate, every dollar helps so much.
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