#soulmate
Why are the majority of people on dating sites either:
- Only on there to promote their Instagram.
- Twice the size of me.
- Look 10 years older than they are.
- Think alcohol and drugs are personality traits (and that’s somehow a good thing??).
- Have tattoos/piercings covering their whole body.
- Super overly religious, to the point of wanting to marry God/Jesus instead??
- Want hook-ups or not serious at all about a relationship.
- Fake/scammer/spammers/liars.
- Don’t know how to hold a conversation.
Are there any normal people out there like me who actually want a serious long term relationship??
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I want true love.
The kind where:
- We look forward to seeing and talking with each other.
- We can do nothing together, but it’s still the best day for both of us.
- We can cling to each other and feel the love flowing through each other.
- We can talk openly about anything and everything without being worried about saying too much.
- We hold hands while going for walks together.
- We can say “I love you” over and over again, yet it still makes us feel full every time.
- We stay together after hard times, and work together to get through it.
- The sex is from the love we have for each other, not from a temporary want.
- It’s based entirely on connection and the love for each other, not just material things.
- We can trust each other completely, knowing that we’ll be together for a lifetime.
And other things like that…
I want true love. I want my soulmate. I want the One for me.
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I’ve been unloved far longer than I’ve ever been loved.
I hope one day it will be the opposite.
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Everyone says you should love yourself before you can love anyone else.
Well, I do.
I love myself enough to know that:
- I deserve better.
- I shouldn’t have to be alone.
- I would be a very loving boyfriend/husband to the right girl.
- I shouldn’t have to suffer and have to continue this unfair life where I only see everyone else (even shitty assholes) get love besides me.
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I’m considering just ending my life if I don’t find my soulmate in a year or so. Maybe less.
I’ve waited long enough.
All I’ve gotten is pain. No matter what I do. I’ve been lied to too often also.
I just want to find the right person. I don’t want to have to continue being hurt in this unfair life.
All I want is love. But it’s the only thing I can’t get.
Why bother living? There’s no point in life without love, as least that’s how I feel. I’ve felt that way my whole life.
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Why am I always:
The one waiting for someone.
The one who misses them more.
The one who loves them more.
The one who does more for them.
The one who’ll do everything for them.
?????
Why do I always feel like an afterthought?
I want what I give.
I deserve better.
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Have yall met your soulmate or nah?
I was once with a man who yelled at me, after I worked 20 straight days and was on my couch in a terrible amount of pain, telling me that I was useless and didn’t do enough around the house and yard. I just took it and cried silently staring at the ceiling because at that point I just didn’t have the energy to fight back anymore.
Now I’m with a man who sings me to sleep whenever I feel sick. A man who makes me know that he loves and appreciates me. A man who constantly reminds me of how excited he is to marry me and actually says ideas for our wedding.
I was once in a man who told me that I looked better with makeup. On my days off from work even if we weren’t going anywhere he would make me feel awful about myself if I didn’t do my hair and makeup, and then would just go into the office and play video games all day.
I’m now with a man who says how beautiful I look right when I wake up, unshowered with my hair in a sloppy bun. He just stares at me at times and smiles while telling me what he loves about me.
I was once with a man who would turn off the radio when I was singing along. Specifically there was once a time when I put on a song to sing to him and he turned it off and he changed the subject.
I’m now with a man who SINGS WITH ME and puts aside nights for us to specifically sing for hours. He sings along with me while I play the guitar (which I’m learning so it isn’t the greatest) and will compliment my playing while enjoying the music.
DO NOT STAY WITH SOMEONE JUST BECAUSE YOU’VE BEEN WITH THEM FOR YEARS AND IT’S COMFORTABLE. Leave your abuser. Stop rationalizing their behavior. FIND YOURSELF. FIND YOUR SOULMATE. FIND HAPPINESS.
It means so much to me that I can be all that to you❤ youve made my life so warm and full of joy. I’m the happiest I’ve ever been because of you, you really are the love of my life! I can’t believe someone as wonderful as you can love me❤ I will be forever yours, forever and ebers and eberss!!! Alsoooo you look gorgeous in the morning so shhh❤
I love date nights, especially our anniversary ones!! They are always so much fun and so wonderful!!❤❤❤ I love my babyyy!!!
I just wanna wish my baby a happy 30th birthday and our six months anniversary!!!! I love you so so sooo incredibly much! I can’t wait to spend our lives together! I’m so in love with you!❤ You have really changed my life for the better and I’m so lucky to have you. You showed me that true love is real and ours is so pure. The happiness and love I have for you grows stronger by the day!❤❤❤ I love you my peach scone☺☺
Video chatting with my baby is the best thing in the world. I love her so much❤ and I can’t believe I’m so lucky to have her❤❤
Every morning with you is a gift of warmth, love, and snug snugss (clothed or not❤)
just look at this pure beauty
insta: @innaatom
This is the type of stuff my boyfriend sends me at 7:30 in the morning and I am very happy.