#acearo
guys… my friend told me she imagines what her life would look like with every guy she meets, no matter how briefly
Is this for real? What sort of allo culture-????
The thing about lack of sexual attraction is that you’ll have friends who say things like, “Omg did you see that person’s *assets*?”
and you’ll stand there like, “….was I supposed to?”
As a child, I never understood why anime characters got a nosebleed when they saw someone attractive.
…..I still don’t. Allosexuals explain
at this point is so obvious I’m asexual. people around me would notice if they were educated, seriously
this.
cw: mentions of smex and stuff
Had a sexologist come to our auditorium yesterday and, as a sex-repulsed ace, I thought I was going to hate every second of it.
Oddly enough, I didn’t?? I actually had a blast and learned a lot of things. That woman changed my whole perception on so much. And I have to say this.
Allos and all you non-repulsed aces: don’t be ashamed of your sexual nature. Talk about it, be gross and “not proper”, fight against the shaming, demand your sexual rights because did you know there was a World Congress of Sexology held in Hong Kong, 1999 that established the Declaration of Sexual Rights? If you want to know more, here.
ALSO!! Aces who still m@ stürb@ te and have sexual fantasies: YOU’RE SO VALID! Don’t hide it thinking that you’re “betraying” the asexual community like I did. I promise that you’re not. The community is here for you and there’s little (regarding your sexuality) that you can do to harm it in any way.
ace and aro and so on and so forth
cw: mentions of seggs and self-ple@ süre
Signs I should have known I was ace: M*sturb*t¡0n edition
Before I dive into this rant, can we all just agree that even asexuals m-bate? Yes, even girls. Idk and idc when or how or why society ever began to believe that only straight, allosexual men are allowed to do it, I just don’t want to see that crap on my blog, okay? Great.
Now, one might argue about the exact time I started “engaging in self pleasure”.
I remember exploring my body since I was 8, I don’t know if that counts. But I only actually began “getting that pleasure” when I was almost 15 that I learned what the thing I had been doing was called.
Ever since then, I’ve had all sorts of “experiences” regarding how I see m**tûrb*t¡on.
For example, you know how I started reading fanfiction almost two years ago. And I’m guessing you know what kind of ~f i l t h~ can be found there.
I read all about these h0rny teens tossing one off while thinking of someone!!
Honestly, I thought it was far-fetched, written to attract readers because THERE’S NO WAY-
until…. I got on Omegle a couple of months ago and had a brief, highly uncomfortable conversation with this dude who didn’t know what asexuality meant. After I explained it to him, he went, “but do you m-bate?”
And I’m there like…. Not that that’s any of your business, but yea? What’s that got to do with anything?
He said, “well who do you think of when you…?”
I’m sitting there, staring at my screen like…. huh?
I said as much, “no one? Who tf am I supposed to think of?”
Then he went on about p0rn, and didn’t I watch and imagine myself being in the place of the girl on screen?
I’m like what?!?! No, why would I?
Needless to say, I see that allosexuals don’t watch p**n to m-bate by listening to the sounds or just projecting that feeling of ar0üsal. No, allos actually picture themselves in those videos. Good heavens…
Listen, I don’t shame anyone, ever. Otherwise, me making this post would contradict everything.
It was just a shock for me to learn that, that’s all. Is it really okay to picture someone you know… in bed with you? Or is it like, what they don’t know doesn’t hurt them?
I have tried it, trust me. But the second I attempt to picture someone else touching me, it’s like turning a switch off. I could never. What does work for me, is the feeling. Focusing on my senses, and getting that stress-relief. P**n only works when I’m watching a sole person and projecting what they’re feeling into my own body.
But yeah, this should have been a major sign towards my sexuality for a couple of years. I just didn’t know I was supposed to feel that way about self-pl**süre.
Meh, better late than never I guess ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
GIVEAWAY of some of my ACE/ARO DESIGNS
PRIZES: ONE SHIRT: black, unisex, size S-3XL. It says “NOPE” in Helvetica bold, colored with either the asexual,aromantic, or acearo flag, your choice (click those link for an example). AND FOUR STICKERS:
- My ace/aro version of “HUMAN,” example here
- One of these: interlocking gender symbols. You pick which genders and color (I don’t currently have any aro or acearo ones, but I will make one, and if you’re unoriented or in questioning, we can pick something else)
- One of my “queer mountains” designs, either ace that says “I’d rather eat cake,” aro which says “no romo,” or acearo that says “I’m all good”
- Andthis black heart that reads “nope”
RULES
- Reblog this, as many times as you want
- Like don’t count
- You don’t have to follow me, but you can if you want
- International shipping: I’m going to order it from my Redbubble, and they ship worldwide
I will use some randomizer-generator thing to pick a winner on 12 December, 12noon CST. I will message the winner, I’ll give you like, 24 hours to respond. (it might go without saying, but I’d prefer to give this to an asexual and/or aromantic but friends exist; I’ll only change the winner if you’re like, a terfs, transcums, whitesupremacists, a robot, etc.). I’ll give you a tracking number once I have it but I cannot guarantee arrival before 24 Dec, sorry.
If you don’t win or want something else for you or a friend, you can find all these and other acearo designs here. You can get them as shirts, stickers, mugs, posters, notebooks, everything.
That’s it! Let me know if you have any questions.
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HUMAN, variations
three posters, each displaying the word “human” with various lgbt flags superimposed over each letter
It’s BLACK FRIDAY and the holidays and Cyber Monday are coming. Get these as posters, tote bags, shirts (adults and kids), stickers, etc.
- Left: including the lesbian, gay/lgbt, bisexual, intersex, and asexual flags
- Center: including asexual, bisexual, gay/lgbt, transgender, and pansexual flags
- Right: including asexual, demiromantic, acearo, quoisexual, greysexual, and aromantic flags
I have like, 25 other variations of it here. The rest of my gay-as-hell art is here.
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NEW ACE/ARO “HUMAN” DESIGNS
now available in the flags for asexual, aromantic, greysexual, greyromantic, demisexual, demiromantic, acearo, quoi, and one with a combination with six of them.
You can buy them here.
They’re available as stickers, shirts (adults and children), posters, mugs, and like twenty more.
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From one of your friends on the ace spectrum. (me)
reblog this if your blog is safe space for asexuals and aromantics and think they have and deserve a rightful place in the lgbt community
we have a duty to respect our siblings and help them feel safe. one of the most frightening things about this whole thing is not knowing who is on our side until people, friends, suddenly say hurtful things that leave us shaken and feeling utterly without support. so please, reblog this, put something to this effect in your blog description or links, because it is important. we are important.
I love him more everyday :’)
@hayleykiyoko, savior of the gays
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Lesbian Jesus defined on QueerUndefined.com
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Adyskia is a world in which magick, known as Raiken, is a rare skill. Rarer still is Cosma Raiken, a more wide ranging magick in which the user can control all energy.
Aeli may not be the best student, but she does have Cosma Raiken. And she’s discovered this gives her a unique ability: the ability to open portals to other worlds. This is a secret she shares only with her closest friends as they explore other exciting, and potentially dangerous, worlds.
Coming Soon!
Yep, you’re reading that right!
I have finished my first draft of Raiken Student!
Still have a ways to go though. Editing and the like.
Him: Let’s go out.
Me: No.
Him: Ahh!? BUT I LIKE YOU!!
Me:
