So good news: the monthly payments I was making on some of the old loans finished paying them off this month, so in June I’ll have at least $200 of my own money to put towards bills.
I need $100 to help pay my rent (due May 3rd), $294 to pay my storage unit (due by May 9th), $200 to make payments on my mom’s catalog orders (most of which was medical stuff and things for the home to help with organizing; due at various points in May) and $159.93 for the car insurance (due May 9th). I also need to cover two $300 loans I need to pay off by June 3rd, and we need gas because I have a mammogram and an ultrasound and back x-rays I need to do this month, and my mother has an appointment with her plastic surgeon on Friday.
Even tiny amounts help! Most of the catalog bills are $25 - $40 a pop, and I can pay the loans and car insurance in small batches.
If you can help with money, here’s how to send it:
Got the $100 for rent! But after getting my new laptop charger ordered, my account is overdrawn $21, and I also need to buy cold supplies for me and my family, as my mother and son have come down with my cold and the OTC stuff was what the doctor I saw today recommended. If I can get $40, that would be a huge help.
Hey I’ve had 8 seizures. I usually work with kids and due to what they believe is now epilepsy I can’t. If anyone needs more proof I will screenshot and upload everything! .
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I hate to this and I cant believe I have to resort to this and I am so sorry but I need your help. The covid crises has hit me and my family hard and I pray there will be an end in sight but until that happens any money no matter how small that you can donate to help us keep a roof over our heads and buy food to eat would really help us.
If you yourself cannot donate anything can you please share this post with anyone you know who may be able to help out. My paypal ishere
Thank you for sharing and helping ♥️ ♥️ ♥️ !! $58/$880
before i ask my question to ppl with ADD. if parts of this story and/or questions are triggering for you i apologize in advance. i am neurotypical and so is my mother so we’re not pretending to know what it’s like to have ADD or be neurodivergent. we are willing to learn though
here it goes: my mother works in a kindergarten. she is 60 years old, a breast cancer survivor, and has a history of depression and anxiety attacks.
a couple of months ago a 24 yo woman (let’s call her Emma) started working at the kindergarten. my mom soon sensed there was “something about her” she noticed Emma was easily distracted, had to take breaks every 10 minutes, has difficulty bonding/playing with the children, and gets nervous at the thought of working the later shifts where she has to close (they never close alone. there’s always a minimum of two ppl closing).
this results in my mom having to carry a heavier work load than she can handle which is making her very anxious and tired.
my mom is not Emma’s boss, they are equal coworkers so my mom asked Emma personally what best ways are on how to divide the workload btwn them and what Emma needs to do her work that feels good to her and be comfortable and still works for my mom too. Emma told my mom she has ADD, but no solution came out of it.
my mom then asked if their supervisor could attend a meeting just the three of them to figure some things out, but still no solution.
my questions to my mutuals or readers with ADD:
do you have any tips for my mom on how to help Emma, and by doing that helping herself?
what are things coworkers did that made it easier for you to adapt to new situations?
what is something you wished every supervisor knew/did where you worked to accommodate your needs?
what if my mom and Emma come up with some sort of understanding and solution but after a while one of them starts slipping. what is the best way to call each other out and stay on the right path?
im grateful for any tips. I’m upset with their supervisor for not being able to come up with something and afraid on what her lack of empathy & action might cause on the long term for both Emma and my mom.
Why can I see all my ribs, have a thigh gap, my hip bones stick out, I have no boobs, no ass, but my stomach is massive like someone please tell me what I’m doing wrong
I will speak on behalf of polish LGBT+ community. Today (10th of July) the president of Poland (Andrzej Duda) signed a law called "THE FAMILY CARD" established to “protect” the children. The law says that for children the most dangerous are LGBT+ people. Alcoholism, pathology, domestic violence or pedophilia are not even mentioned.
Formally they call us “ideology”, “pedophiles”, “strangers”. A lot of people threaten us. We have to deal with insults everyday. They do not listen to us at all. They want to get rid of us. They use the flag of our country against us!
They want to protect children by banning sex education. By restricting the law. By restricting human rights. By restricting the individual liberty.
Please, visit the side I linked below. You will find more info on the site, a controversial video and a petition to sign for free.
I always thought it was other people, who hurt me the most. But then I realized I’m the one, who does the most damage. I’m the one who’s being self destructive, and constantly filing my head with thoughts of never being good enough. So, who really is the bad guy?
