And they banned me without giving me an ability to answer that no, I *personally* wouldn’t say that, but it *still* doesn’t give a right for someone to rape the unwilling party.
Grow the fuck up or go to jail for promoting rape of gay people.
I would say that! Like in a heartbeat I would say that. I’m pretty sure I have said that.
So you tell people off for being fat and having an eating disorder but also willingly and on purpose trigger said eating disorder.
Yeah just fuck you
Just because for some people this blunt approach could be eye-opening doesn’t mean it’s for everyone. Specially if they have an ed and trying their best to treat it, professionals involved or not, you as an outsider aren’t one (even if you had similar experiences). Why would you purposely say that? Yeah, you don’t have to play into ones “delusions” (like some people call it) but intentionally doing that is morally questionable in my opinion. @transmedicalism-saves-lives
First off? Fat people don’t have restrictive eating disorders, they have excessive eating disorders. Anything that makes them eat less is doing a favor. Second, if they’re trying to sleep with me I have every right to inform them of the reason that ain’t gonna happen.
Yes to having that right, but saying it “in a heartbeat” sounds like not caring about them at all. As if you were doing them a favour by causing a guilty conscience. I like going by the rule if they can’t fix it within a minute keep it to yourself, especially if they are trying to fix it already. If they were pressuring you or whatever like cornering you by all means you don’t have to be nice imo. Personally I think your approach is unnecessarily provocative and will do more harm than good. People in general respond more to support and help than being that blunt.
Plus I think what they meant by “eating disorder” was anorexia/bulimia, not compulsive eating. Which is truly an assholish thing to do to someone with these disorders.
But yeah, you can reject someone without triggering dysphoria. There’s a big difference between “I’m not into trans people, sorry” and “FUCK YOU, YOU SICK DEGENERATE RAPIST, YOU’LL ALWAYS BE A HOMOPHOBIC MAN/WOMAN NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO!!!”
Whatever happened to “you don’t need to give a reason to reject someone?”
Point taken. If you do give a reason, just don’t be an asshole about it.
It’s also incredibly vile to insist that fat people only have excessive eating disorders. If you refuse to acknowledge that anorexia can (and oftentimes does) occur in fat people, you’re… literally just a piece of shit, I don’t know how else to say it.
Anorexia is literally characterized by dangerously low body weight. This is what happens when people start self-dx’ing.
honey, you’re not a doctor, and you obviously know jack shit about eating disorders. please, for the love of god, look up “atypical anorexia” and stop spouting bullshit you have no clue about?
Dude you’re straight up wrong. Fat people aren’t limited to binge eating disorders. You’re clearly aware that you’re wrong and all you’re doing is digging yourself a deeper hole. You’re wrong. Get over it.
You don’t have to be at a dangerously low weight to be anorexic. You can catch an illness before it becomes incredibly serious and treat it then. Just because an anorexic fat person is however many pounds doesn’t mean they haven’t lost a large amount of weigh in a short period of time. It doesn’t mean they won’t eventually become dangerously underweight.
just neurodivergent things: when you want to eat but you don’t want to eat and you feel a sensation you can’t tell apart in your stomach and you wonder whether you are feeling nauseated but want a flavor in your mouth or you’re hungry but can’t stand the thought of flavors and you give yourself anxiety over it until you cry.
If you were deprived of food or had intermittent or insecure access to food as a kid, there is just NO behavior w food as an adult that’s weird or shameful. That trauma is immense.
Food is sustenance and it’s how caregivers let us know we’re important, our needs matter, and we’re reasonably able to survive in the world. We literally cannot live without food. There are so many reasons caregivers can’t provide this for kids, and many of them are not the caregivers’ fault (tho it’s 1000% valid to feel angry w them and I’m here for it), but the effects of food deprivation on the kids are the same, and they’re profound.
If you hoard food, eat in secret, only eat certain foods, binge, purge, restrict, or anything else… it makes perfect sense as a coping mechanism. That food-based and attachment trauma goes so deep and I think it’s pretty incredible that you found a way to adapt.
And, if these no-shame behaviors cause you suffering, there are ways to learn something different. Look at how far you’ve made it.
☁️hey loves!☁️ I’ve compiled a list of my fav low-calorie safe foods (if you can even call this food, but hey, you get it). REMEMBER! I do not promote eating disorders. By doing this i hope you’ll maybe find an option off my list that you’ve never tried before. Restricting is downright bad to begin with, but I prefer restricting over people straight up fasting themselves to death.
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Green Tea
-do i even need to explain myself?
-good source of caffeine + metabolism booster
-0 cal
Mint Black Tea
-tastes better than green tea (mint come thruu)
-even better source of caffeine
-0 cal
Chai Tea Latte
-milk is a fear food for me so i make it with water (and it tastes amazing)
-VERY filling. I usually substitute dinner with this.
-8 fl oz = 110 cal
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Raisins
-fiber = make you poop
-cranberries are a good swap if you don’t like raisins, but they are higher in calories
-the ones in the pic i got at Target and they are the generic brand but each bag was like 2$ and they bring a lot sooo… big save
- each box = 45 cal
Dried Seaweed
-some might gag, but hear me out, they’re good. I’ve liked them since way before i ever developed this shitty eating disorder
-2 servings per container. 1 serving = 25 cal. The whole container = 50 cal
Rice Cakes
-The OG
-i usually skip breakfast but if i really truly need it, ill grab one of these with some tea and i’m out the door
-1 cake = 35 cal
Pickles
-I forgot to include these in the picture but oh! my! god! they are a life saver
-assuming you like pickles, that is. I know a lot of people that dont.
-0 cal… 0 FREAKING CALORIES!
Mint Gum or Altoids
-minty
Cinnamon Gum
-for when I’m feeling adventurous lol
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LaCroix(or Bubly, whatever sparkly water floats your boat)
-okay ik Diet Coke is a staple ed drink, but the truth is its even worse for your body so please dont drink it every day. Its basically bottled poison. I think the only time i would ever touch a diet coke is under special circumstances, like at a christmas party or something.
When your so far into restricting that you no longer feel hungry but you know that inevitably you will need food to sustain life so youre constantly on edge waiting for that binge to come that will ruin all your progress
If you get brain fog like I do while fasting, pls eat something.
Also, you would think that she would learn/do something about it after the first time. But no, she was careless and put her ed first and almost took another life. How selfish…
Okay you guys, my timeline be dead asf for some reason (maybe some of y’all got term or something). If you’re and ed account follow me or like this post so I can follow you.
Wow, my eating disorder really has me eating 635 calories instead of the usual 1300 cals the day before my doctors appointment so I can weigh less…. + a 18 hour fast
Wow, I really did this for my appointment to be canceled
In the bright side, I woke up to weigh 139lbs!!! I’ve never seen the 130s before so this is super exciting
Wow, my eating disorder really has me eating 635 calories instead of the usual 1300 cals the day before my doctors appointment so I can weigh less…. + a 18 hour fast
I binged today for the first time in 2 months. I feel awful. I hate myself so damn much. My brother and I got into an argument and I havent gotten so upset in such a long time. I dont know why it made me have the urge to emotionally eat so badly. It didn’t help that I havent lost a pound in 2 weeks. I was only eating 900 calories a day too (occasionally eating 1300 cal when I really needed it). But eating 1300 cal today wasn’t enough. I ate 1955 calories today. Im never going to be skinny :(
I’ve been eating 900 calories for the past 2 weeks without binge eating and I am at my breaking point. The connection between my brain and my mouth has disappeared. I have a serious lack of energy. I cant even stand up without getting dizzy and seeing black dots. I’ve chewed 23 fucking packs of gum. No, I’m dead serious, my jaw is so fucking sore. I’ve lost about 4 pounds and its almost not worth it. I ate 1300 calories today and I feel like a failure. I’ve eaten 1300 calories before and its actually helped me not binge for the longest time ever but the slow weight loss had me so impatient. It doesn’t feel as bad as a binge. Actually, I feel better, but still, I know I’m going to be heavier when I weigh my self in the morning. :(
I’ve been eating 1300 calories for a while now and its allowed me not binge for the longest time ever. However I got a bit sick last week and decided one day that I was too tired to eat dinner. I immediately dropped two pounds, so ever since I’ve been eating 800 calories a day. I kind of regret it because I’m getting so hungry the longer that I’m doing this. But I’m afraid that I’m going to gain all the weight I lost. Pls someone help lol I’m going to see if I can do this at least until I’m under 140 lbs.
I made a goal to myself that when I weighted 150lbs that I was finally going to allow myself to post on Instagram again. I weighted myself this morning and I’m at 148lbs. I took a good look at myself and now I’m going to wait till I weigh 130lbs to post.
